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Jagruti

@AnAvidReader

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#91

ok for instance forget dat v r ARVIans or not even fans of any character or any jodi...
what ovi dis was it right...???
purvi's actions are justified coz it ws a vry difficult decision for purvi as well bit she ws indebtd in archana's love..she wanted to repay her love..i kno u may say dat archna didn't asked to repay dat love but believe me it is out of graditude...if purvi's have been arman's real daughter i doubt she would have sacrificed arjun for archana's sake instead she would have have done anything but not let their divorce happen..dat ws real cruel of ovi to come up wid such deal"give me my arjun and i will give ur mother her family"...no normal gul wuld even think of doing dat..
and abt arjun he ws all shocked wen he heard dat purvi asking him to marry ovi..he never expected dat ovi will come up wid dis deal...and he said yes and agree ...dat ws not right..he should have not agreed to marry ovi...but he said dat he dis it for his love..dat ws completely insane..agree...
but do ovi really love arjun...???
or will dis marriage work in which groom ws forced by his ex lover to marry her sister for sake of her mother's happiness...??
i kno purvi is also not right but she did it for her mother..what ovi did ws for HERSELF...she didnt even thought for arjun's happiness once...
now dat they r marries arjun is trying..he is not thinking of divorcing her..he clearly said ovi dat he needs time..he made mistake but he is also suffering real bad...
in all this arjun is suffering...
and i wa amazed by reaction of both families...they r partying while their both children r suffering...no normal family would host a party for such marriage...this all weirdness and unique things happen only in PR land...
this ws my POV as a viewer i repeat not as ARVIan...

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#92

What I find apalling is the acceptance of the deal by Purvi and selling her soul to the devil if Ovi indeed is the devil [ which i most emphatically say she is not] as some say .

I have said this before and I say this again ...I will be furious with my lover if he sells me accepting a deal ...coz I love him and have expectations from him ...not the one who made the offer . I am either indifferent to him or dislike him . I have no expectations from him.

Were expectations from Purvi satisfactory for Arjun when this test for 'love' came ?

Nope . The first test of love and she crumbled like a cookie . Not only did she sell Arjun immediately but she is running from him and refusing him like plague to keep her end of the deal . I daresay its moral enough but it also shows how she can harden her heart against the lovelorn prince .

The prince is a simpleton . Such is his naivete and so much is he in denial that he believes that 'we ' sacrificed ourselves for others . He does not face the glaring truth ...that there is no 'we' only 'she' and she sold him like hot cakes to the demanding customer at the first opportunity .

Are men really that naive ? I guess yes .

I am simply waiting for him to come to the realisation that whatever Ovi might be ...she showed Purvi up .

Oh he can divorce Ovi all he wants if he hates the thought of living a zombie like marital life with her . But he must never go back to Purvi for trading him ...such should be his self respect . Such should be his realization .

If living with Ovi is that suffocating yes , divorce her . But don't forget what Purvi did ...if she has the sacrificing tendencies in her in which she uses her man and she did it so swiftly at the end of just 3 months on the eve of their wedding she is simply not worth it .

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Axiom

@Axiom

Voyager

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Posted: 12 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

True, Ash. A mom bonds instantly with her new born, no one questions the validity of her love even if the baby is a day old, a month old or ten years old. You can share a lifetime with a person and not love them (your in laws? Archana and Savi, Manju and Sulo) but spend a week with someone and realize you are soulmates. Love cannot be quantified by the minutes you have spent with the other person but is cherished by the moments of togetherness you have shared.

Beautiful Janhvi and Ash!! You both have the hearts of poets :)

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archverma10

@archverma10

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Posted: 12 years ago

#94

Originally posted by: Ashlaika
Point to note: We are all adults here and we all seem to be smart, therefore we can all count.

So... that being said... Its no longer a 3 month love ... it has progressed to a 6 months love and that too a very strong love.

Love, like most things in life, is not valued on the time spent, but on the quality of the time spent and the moments made.

After all... you can spend 1 year with a person, live in the same house and not utter more than formalities and never know a single thing of that person... and u can spend 1 month and the result would be completely opposite.

Quality my friends... NOT quantity!

Amen Ashu!!! Very well said...whoever said it is a 3 month love needs to add a little better..Jan-September is not 3 months...

And remember these months that they had were at least love...whereas all those years in Canada Miss Priss keeps harping about were not filled with love at all...at least not from him...it was all one sided. So that being said...loving Purvi for those "months" was far far more to him than being friends with Ovi all those years...and Purvi now will be much more to him than Ovi can ever hope to be. With this farce of a marriage all she did was drive more distance between the 2 of them and make things worse.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#95

The love was so much like vintage wine that at the end of it he was dumped .😆😆

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Jagruti

@AnAvidReader

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Posted: 12 years ago

#96

yeah agree what purvi did ws not a sane thing..but she has been living wid archana since 18 yrs...she loves her frm da depth of her heart...she also knows dat she is adopted..and also that her wedding to arjun has trigerred her mother's divorce...
i think i also would do same thing in real life as purvi did coz i would not be happy wid my husband whole my life after knowing dat my mother's life would have been saved...i would not emotionally blackmailed arjun into marrying ovi but would have gone far far away frm arjun's life.
also u ppl keep saying dat purvi sold her love...
in dis i would say purvi sold her own hapiness in exchange of her mother's happiness..she made a mistake...a BIG mistake but she is suffering though...she lost love of her life...she is alone..

and also she betrayed arjun..she betrayed her love only hours before their wedding but then also arjun loves her dearly..he cannot forget her..nor can she forget him...
this is true love..it is above marriage..it is a strongest bond between a gul and a boy who are as different as chalk and cheese but love each other dearly...
this love will bring them together once again...
no hopes for arj ovi marriage to work...but kno dat arjun purvi wil be together...

Edited by ashvikluverrr - 12 years ago

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#97

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
The love was so much like vintage wine that at the end of it he was dumped .😆😆

3 months 6 months who cares he was dumped like stale wine or left over trash..I know you did not mean Vintage wine. But a stale one indeed.😳

Who cares...He still was dumped by his so called genuine love was he not 😆

Oh love is so over rated 😆

Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago

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soapwatcher1

@soapwatcher1

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#98

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
The love was so much like vintage wine that at the end of it he was dumped .😆😆

Kool, she hasn't dumped him yet! 😉 vintage wine is Ovi's, a love of 14 years or since she was 14, both will qualify for the term vintage. 😆

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SingularlyGood

@SingularlyGood

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#99

Putting the blame at Ovi's door for this whole fiasco reminds me of the real life situations where the wife of a cheating husband blames the "other woman" for breaking up her marriage. The other woman is a nobody in a marriage, or as in this case, between two lovers. The husband took the vows of standing by you through thick and thin, to honor and respect the love and trust, to uphold the vows of commitment and loyalty. The "other woman" is an outsider, who should not be expected to carry the burden of maintaining the relationship of a couple who themselves are hell-bent on breaking away from each other.
THe onus and responsibility of making or breaking a relationship lies solely on the two persons involved. If an outsider can come and create a fracture in that bond, that bond was never strong enough to begin with. If it were not OVi, someone else would have come and broken it.

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sowmya

@Not_a_fan

Navigator

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Posted: 12 years ago

#100

Originally posted by: archverma10
Oh I am not abusive at all. But we ARVIans know Sherma...and are well aware of how we have been subjected to posts against ARVI in the past. I for one, am not an abuser of ARMAN. I happen to like Archana...I share the same name as her...and do not have any problem whatsoever with her and Manav's relationship. I know I have many ARVIan friends who will back me up when I say we have seen many posts by many of you guys slamming Arjun and Purvi...though you praised Purvi for her sacrifice being the catalyst of events to bring ARMAN together in the first place.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and to agree to disagree. Nobody disputes this. I want to know why she systematically and persistently posts in such language against ARVI. We love them. You dont like them. What has happened to us is painful and we are trying to get each other through it. If you dont like it leave us alone. There is no need to add insult to injury.

And I meant what I said. I have a reputation in this forum...a respected one...of being sound, analytical, and writing posts based on the FACTS. I also happen to have a pre-law background and scored a 162/180, which was in the 88-92 percentile across the entire United States on the Law School Admission Test (LSAT). When I said Sherma will not win in a debate against me I meant it. If you believe she is so eloquent perhaps she can explain to us her personal vendetta against ARVI---and you need not put words in her mouth. It is her I am talking to. Not you.

I don't think sherma is an archana fan, or even arman fan. And this is what i've noticed of her posts from long before Arjun and purvi were even introduced in the story. She is neutral. Irrespective of that fact, she is a real person and not a fictional character; and should not be abused or threatened for the sake of one however great or favored a fictional character maybe. I don't have the time or interest to read every post by everyone on the forum save very few, and I may have missed any particularly abusive posts. But this thread, and any of the posts ive seen from her so far have never been abusive in any way whatsoever. She doesn't even go so far as to ask people she doesn't agree with how they can possibly support something she clearly disapproves. Instead she reiterates what she sees, as her POV, about the fictional characters on PR. And I've seen how the arvii fans have name called and are still calling ovi- crazy chic, mental, bitten by a crazy dog remember? I politely requested then to stop the name calling, it is still being done in abbreviations. What sherma wrote is miles short of the abusive language used towards ovi and savita.

I have no idea who you're talking about when you say "you guys", but I have never praised purvi for her "sacrifice". That was utterly stupid and callous of her. I can't speak for anyone but myself. And I'm no fan of anyone. I've maintained from the start that Arjun and purvi should have handled things differently with ovi, and I still maintain that. I've also advocated that they should have dated for a while longer postponing their marriage until the situation was settled, at least try to give a reasonable gap between Arjun's engagements with two daughters of the same family. And I still maintain that. I also wanted Arjun and purvi to get married without any more drama once it was shown the marriage was going to happen. Probably not the same reason as the fans, but nonetheless I did want them to get married and be done with it. What I don't agree with is that ovi is the only one to blame in this fiasco that happened. Or even shares the greater blame. All 3 are equally to blame. 33.33%. Wrong is a wrong and right is a right. Ovi may have put forth the deal, but it was sealed and executed by Arjun and purvi. This is not because I hate purvi or Arjun. I understand they are not real and can be changed according to the whims of the writers overnight. In fact, I've defended purvi caressing Arjun's picture in the last episode, because she couldn't possibly be expected to forget him so soon. And nobody wants to hurt you fans, but the discussion of the story will entail discussing Arjun, ovi and purvi because they're part of the current track. And when arvi fans keep making posts about how evil ovi is and how eventually Arjun and purvi will end up together, those of us who believe in marriage and accountability will naturally talk about the marriage that has happened and validated by Arjun and ovi and their families.

I have no idea who you are, and frankly I don't need to know. But one thing I do know, there are people of all ages from various fields on this forum, from teens to 60+ elders all accomplished in their own way. So let's not resort to talking about our personal achievements to validate our opinions on this not-even-that-deserving show. It's great that you are so accomplished, that doesn't mean you are unbiased or can argue more logically and conclusively than others here. Your logic is based on your attachment towards your fave couple, and is therefore biased. Logic is not what you put forward, but that which your audience will buy. Your friends will buy your logic, and my friends will buy mine. So there is really no conclusive test to prove whose logic is correct. In this case, can you conclusively prove that a couple in Arjun and Ovi's case hasn't had a successful marriage. And let's not forget that this is a soap, EKs soap no less. In her shows, there are actually examples of couples like these two who have worked things out. Trying to argue logically on a soap and characters that have done the absurd things shown on this show is a waste of time, effort and our collective intellect. Who knows tomorrow she may show that ovi finally decides to give Arjun back to purvi, and Arjun decides to stay back with her. Stranger things have been shown with "epic" couples in several of her shows.

And please don't misunderstand if I don't reply to your response to my post. I'm really very busy trying to graduate with my phd in biochemistry and molecular biology, and preparing for my career. Did I mention I scored 1510/1600 in gre less than 5 years back? I believe that was in the 94 th percentile. Sorry I don't have my lsat scores since I didn't take that exam. And I apologize for any typos and grammatical errors, I'm typing from my iPad and it's on autocorrect. I do know my spelling and sentences. Peace!

Edited by sowmya_jairam - 12 years ago

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