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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't like Purvi or Ovi. I like Teju. She has more common sense than the rest of the family put together. She was a better choice for Arjun than either Ovi or Purvi. I really hope the Cvs don't butcher her character but I will not be shocked if they do that. I hope that they don't show her doing meaningless sacrifices like her mother did.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tulsey

Did Purvi not know the truth about the divorce paper wrongfully signed by Savita???

Why did she not expose that to the judge if she knew?
Why did Purvi not expose to Manav about Sachin's pressure on Archana? She has been going around like a chicken with her head cut off trying to save ARMAN marriage??
Same thing goes for Damodar and his daughter.
What's her face, dam's daughter roaming around and attending all functions without her husband, daughter and MIL?? Has she left them too?

Tulsey, Purvi did not know about the forged signature. I think Archana threw out kasams at her mother not to tell anyone about Sachin's involvement.
For all Archana claiming that she never kept secrets from Purvi, I found it rather strange that she did in fact keep a horde of secrets from Purvi. Purvi did not have a clue about Soham or Varsha until recently. She did not know the truth about her mother's Canadian famiy, when Manav first came to Mumbai, Purvi learnt about him through Punni, she did not know about Tej being Archana's daughter. Archana is a treasure trove of secrets, hope she has learned her lesson, good intentions or not, not to keep loved ones in the dark. The only thing Archana did do was fill Purvi's head with fairy tales about her aai's lost family creating an unnatural bond with a non-existent dad and a burning urge to unite her aai with her family. Look where that has led her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jenelle05

@munny.

I was actually thinking the same thing. Her character assassination is not that far off. Ekta simply likes it when we fall in love with a character. she then does her very best for us to end up hating that same character.

I agree not too far away when we begin to dislike her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Yes, she is definitely unlike a Deshmukh Kid !! Practical, no-nonsense, truthful and straightforward. got caught up with Ovi in between but back to herself now.. she is the one who also said why did ovi do it after this stupid wedding...Will they let her stay like that? OR now that it is going to be a big happy family, will her Aai's sanskaars rub off on her too ?? Hope to God, not !!
For, she is lovely the way she is.

I echo that, hopefully she remains untarnished and the exception in the Deshmuck family.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Tulsey, Purvi did not know about the forged signature. I think Archana threw out kasams at her mother not to tell anyone about Sachin's involvement.
For all Archana claiming that she never kept secrets from Purvi, I found it rather strange that she did in fact keep a horde of secrets from Purvi. Purvi did not have a clue about Soham or Varsha until recently. She did not know the truth about her mother's Canadian famiy, when Manav first came to Mumbai, Purvi learnt about him through Punni, she did not know about Tej being Archana's daughter. The woman (archana) is a treasure trove of secrets, hope she has learned her lesson, good intentions or not, not to keep loved ones in the dark. The only thing Archana did do was fill Purvi's head with fairy tales about her aai's lost family creating an unnatural bond with a non-existent dad and a burning urge to unite her aai with her family. Look where that has led her.

first of all purvi knew about sachin's deal... archana only told her... second she knew about manav and her family but archana never showed her the photo of manav and of course teju and ovi was not known by archana only then how come purvi will know...plz for purvi's stupidity stop blaming archana directly or indirectly... i think when archana saying that her family doesn't need her clearly tells that there is no plan of reuniting... when ovi told her that archana also rejected her proposal then it is understandable that archana is in favour of reuniting of arjun purvi... she could understand that if archana want to unite with her family then she could have said yes to arjun ovi relationship ... its plain purvi's stupidity...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rash2222

first of all purvi knew about sachin's deal... archana only told her... second she knew about manav and her family but archana never showed her the photo of manav and of course teju and ovi was not known by archana only then how come purvi will know...plz for purvi's stupidity stop blaming archana directly or indirectly... i think when archana saying that her family doesn't need her clearly tells that there is no plan of reuniting... when ovi told her that archana also rejected her proposal then it is understandable that archana is in favour of reuniting of arjun purvi... she could understand that if archana want to unite with her family then she could have said yes to arjun ovi relationship ... its plain purvi's stupidity...

Rashi you nailed it..The blind love of Purvi for her Baba I believe is one of the main reasons..Guess reasoning giving by first Archu and then by Manav (he even got angry on her for her repeated requests to accept her Aai and come to her kanyadaan) did not sink into Purvi.
I think Purvi developed a gratitude that she needs to return favor to her Aai.If I am correct Purvi was the one who repeatedly kept saying to Archu that Aai you gave given me so much love even though I am not your own blood.This repeated statements became a solid order that Purvi created in her mind to follow that overpowered her love for Arjun.
I think its a combination of a delusional dream/blind love to be with her Baba and get his blessings and have her Aai united with her family which formed the root cause.Otherwise Purvi would never get dreams of Archu re-uniting with her family in her own marriage party thrown by DK.
Her guilt/gratitude ot weighted her thought process unfortunately .Purvi forget that in mother daughter relation there is no give and take policy and all Archu expected in return ws Purvi to be happy with her marriage.Her yearning for her Baba and wanting to get her Aai happiness (For Archu it was Purvi's marriage,for Purvi it was the D's) caught up with her badly.
The fact that Archu stood what was right ,Purvi took in a whole different angle that her Aai is sacrificing her happiness for her which was so not true.Archu had another important reason for the divorce apart from the senseless sacrifice that her daughters hated her and no body wanted her there in that family.Purvi's delusional love oversaw this important fact that the D's were not ready to accept her Aai and will only hate her if she went there,Purvi made her own decision on her Aai's happiness.
I think Purvi would be happy if Manav accepts her as his daughter officially and ask her to be with him.For her ,her Baba is the first man in her life.
Purvi's delusional blind love for something she has no control over i.e trying to find a non-existent Aai's happiness is the crux of this senseless sacrifice.
Archu tried her best but guess she could nether convince Ovi or Purvi both were caught in their own delusional blind love for respective causes.
Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Some times she behave like a brain less person..but positive Arman kid..finally well done Teju👍🏼👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rash2222

first of all purvi knew about sachin's deal. not the details.. archana only told her... second she knew about manav and her family but archana never showed her the photo of manav and of course teju
Archana did not tell Purvi that Manav was their new boss, Punni sent her the engagement pics online and that is how Purvi came to know. Archana came to know Tej was her daughter when Teju was still living with them, Archana did not share this with Purvi, only with Sulo.
and ovi was not known by archana only then how come purvi will know...plz for purvi's stupidity stop blaming archana directly or indirectly... i think when archana saying that her family doesn't need her clearly tells that there is no plan of reuniting... when ovi told her that archana also rejected her proposal then it is understandable that archana is in favour of reuniting of arjun purvi... she could understand that if archana want to unite with her family then she could have said yes to arjun ovi relationship Archana knew that the Ovi/Arjun relationship had nothing to do with the divorce, she was bound by her promise to Sachin so saying aye or nay to Ovi had nothing to do with the divorce. Even when Ovi came to Archana with the deal, Archana could not have made any sort of deal with Ovi because of the prior promise to Sachin... its plain purvi's stupidity...

Dear rash, I am not saying Archana did not tell Purvi about Manav at all, of course, she did, that is why that foolish girl developed such an attachment to her baba.
Archana told Purvi her dearest wish was to reunite with her family, not once but constantly, it did not matter if she told Purvi once that her family did not want her, that makes it clear that even though that is her dearest wish to reunite, there is something impeding that reunion. Archana told Purvi that her family was not happy with the Arjun/Purvi marriage and that it had made her position more difficult, she did not disclose to Purvi that even if the marriage did not happen, she could not go back on the divorce because of her promise to Sachin.
I am not saying Purvi was not stupid, she was grossly stupid. I am not saying Archana did not want Purvi to get married to Arjun, she did. I am not saying Archana does not love Purvi or prefers her over Ovi. I have written several posts that Archana loves Purvi perhaps more than her own kids. All I am saying is as a mother, she needed to have been a bit more careful in fostering a bond between Purvi and a non-existent dad, it is also unnatural for a mother to fill a young child's head with her own dreams of reuniting with her family, that becomes a burden on the child, especially to an adopted child. Archana is not perfect and that is my opinion. She is not a bad person she has great good intentions but it is not possible for me to view her as above reproach in every circumstance. She did keep secrets from Purvi, that is a fact. She did for a moment in time forget Purvi in her new found happiness at meeting Ovi (archana herself acknowledged this to Sulo), natural for any mother to do that, no blame on Archana for that. She did go decked up to Ovi's reception, leaving Purvi alone at home. She did not ask Sulo to stay back. At least Manav thought he left Ovi with his family when he came to do Purvi's kanyadan.
I am sorry if my opinion does not agree with yours, it is not meant to hurt or offend but that is my point of view. Where Savita and Manav are concerned, I am happy that Archana is finally going to get her share of justice especially so because that has been brought about by the efforts of her own daughter Tej.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree Teju is the most sensible one in the family.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes janhvi di, Teju is only positive/sane/rational person in pr. She knows how to get balance btw brain n heart. I loved her in friday episode how she handled whole savita case. She is straightforward. She is one of my favourite characters in pr

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