Tej - a positive force - Page 4

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Jai, this time my answers are in red. You and I are in the same time zone, it is close to 1:30 am, goodnight, my friend, and sweet dreams! 😉

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

So true Janhvi we need to get some sleep ..We had a amazing discussion as usual 😃..wonderful posts as usual Janhvi re..GN n Sweet dreams dear 😉

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Hi Jhanvi, I am still in London ...😊 Jhanvi , the way I see it ...Purvi had lost both her parents in an accident and she had no other living relative as her parents were orphans .Archana adopted her and the baby became Archana's responsibility .Now if you see things from Archana's point of view then she would always worry about this child's future ..What if anything happened to Archana , then who would Purvi have ? Archu cannot depend on Sulochna as she was old and most definitely not on Vinod ( because of Manjusha ) .There had to be someone else who Archana could trust that if she is not there , this person would take full responsibility of Purvi and take care of her .

The only person who Archu could think of was Manav . Though they had differences and were seperated, Archana always thought of him as a good person and he did not let Archana down because he also never stopped Purvi from calling him Baba .

Not once has he ever told Purvi ' I am not your Baba' or even objected to her being a Deshmukh .

If Archana always tried to bring Manav and Purvi close to each other than it was for Purvi , she had nothing to gain in this ...

After seeing so many others problems , Archana tried her best to discourage Purvi not to stop the divorce ...

What Purvi has done is Purvi's responsibility . She just took a complete 180 degree turn .I was shocked at how she changed ..Why did she not think of Manav and Ovi and all this when she was so happy enjoying her life with Arjun, getting engaged and promising him never ending love . She always knew that Manav and Ovi are not happy about it ...but she was still going ahead with it ..One visit from Ovi and she just dropped Arjun ..

It's a stupid story line Jhanvi.. No matter how much these writers are trying , Purvi and Arjun 's sacrifise is not making any sense to me at all...Archana too is an expert in senseless sacrifises but this one I think even breaks her record specially Arjun marrying Ovi ...Honestly it is not making any sense at all...

Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Hi Tanya dear ..hope you are having fun in london

you really hit the nail on the head Tanya in saying this story line sacrifice of Purvi / Arjun makes no sense & is really stupid...i guess it could be compared with a man telling the wife he loves very much that he is going to divorce her and marry his dead brothers girlfriend so the unborn child can have a father...no mention or thought of his own wife's future children...and the beloved wife agreeing...

from the beginning they as a couple have been totally confused about children...maybe reflecting the confusion of the writers and producers?

Purvi' Arjun sacrifice was totally unnessary to the story as it was Teju who is bringing about the confrontation and hopeful reunion...

Which brings me to the thread topic...Teju a positive force..a direct and no nonsense girl...👏 and i hope please she stays that way...she was almost written away, but thank god the cv's have revived her. 😆

I am really looking forward to her role tomorrow and the next day...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

First and foremost she should stop driving that taxi and insist to her lovelorn aging father who is busy looking only at Archana's face that get me re admitted to a university . Her mother dresses up and attends parties like a fashion model why is she driving a taxi like a taxi driver , how silly is this ? If she was a positve force she would smell the nonsense in her mother's encouragement .

Second thing is she would not go on and on about how great the lovebirds Arjun Purvi were but focus on the happening reality ...that Ovi married Arjun ...that it was a conscious decision by 3 adults ...and that Arjun was now her jeeju and she should worry if her twin is being treated well .

Thirdly she could have told the matter to Manav in private . Exposing her grandmother publicly ...the one who brought her up like a mother while her own mom was showering love on her new toy and not even bothering to phone if she was dead or alive is too much . She was so interested in giving her mother her haq ...does she really know her mother whom she has not even seen in 18 years ? Purvi for all her faults knows her . She constantly reiterates that whatever she has learnt she has learnt by seeing her mother . Does Tej really know what Archana is capable of ? She is capable of standing against her husband in court , divorces , fighting against retrenchment , closing companies down [ Dharmesh and DK both closed companies down and ran away] threats to sue ...Archana is more than capable of looking after her own haq . She does not need anyone fighting for her ...now she even has a well trained fighter like Purvi to look after her interests .

Tej only knows that 6 months ago the signature on the diorce papers were forged . Does she know that her mother pulled her father to court with fraud charges against him and that he could be imprisoned for this ? Does she know that her mother is instrumental in losing Soham ...their brother ? Has she seen her mother's maika love with her own eyes ...how her mom had plonked her entire maika at her sasural till her Aaji started feeling stifled and alienated in her own house ?

She is blaming her Aaji for signatures forged before 6 months but giving her up and never phoning to know if she was dead or alive was only and only her mother's decision . Why is she crying so much for the mother who only created havoc in her father's life ? Had she disussed the matter in private with her dad ,mom aaji and Sachu dada i would have understood but she went directly to the judge when she knew that her Aaji could go to jail for the false signatures . Whatever it is her Aaji brought her up , not her mother . Talk it over with that Aaji , fire her , ask her many pertinent questions , see if u agree to her side of the story or not .

But Tej did none of those things ...she blindly believed that Archana was great and faultless . She gets no respect from me . Just as Archana should have stayed the hell out of Arjun Purvi and Ovi love story Tej should have stayed out of this mess . Its okay to have lots of questions in your head but its not ok to judge about events u know nothing about . Tej knows absolutely nothing and has seen absolutely nothing either. If she was such a positive force her views on the infuriating court case against her innocent Dad would have been diffrent and so would have they been so about the loss of her brother .

Varsha said somewhere that she needs to be spanked and I agree .😆😆😆