Originally posted by: arjunaluis
Hei Jai...wonderful post..totally agree with you for everthing..especially number 3, pity the guy he is stuck, fed up and given up...i guess i can say that i was right again...he is doing this for his daughters...he just can't lose them also and can't keep watching everyone bully his love everyday..manav in the end said after trying their relationship failed...however, i feel when two people are meant to be together they will always find their away and their way is purvi..
i feel purvi is doing this because she feels that she is responsible as well for getting them divorce...she feels that if it is not for her the D clan would have not been angry with archana this much and maybe manav would stop the divorce..no matter how much archana tells her no that is not true...she like manav understand's archana by her heart not her talk...too purvi this is the least she can do for her mother, she can't let go of arjun so she will try all other ways...she begged manav which failed, so she does what she is best at filed a petition..
and i feel the reason she keeps begging manav to come to the weeding is just for him to tell her it is ok what you are doing is not wrong you and arjun belong together it is ok i am not angry...she wants his approval nothing else...and by coming manav will prove that it is indeed ok that she gets married to arjun...she is not wrong..it is ok to be with arjun..her guilt will go away..
I like your take on what you said about Purvi...It is another way of looking at it, but you have a valid point there.
But, it is also that, she is doing this more for her mother than for herself, in the hope that, this way they get together somehow. For, she knows that even though Archana is saying that she has accepted the way things are, and it is better for everyone to take it the way it is, she knows that, that is not what Archana really wants. So, she is trying her best, not effectively, but in her own way to try to make it happen.
If Purvi was doing this for herself, she would have approached Manav, a long time ago and would not have waited until now.