wat kind of mother archana is?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i am saying this not because she dint agree wid ovi demand,but wat she did at dehmuk house,now she wil cum running wid crocodile tears(i mean its a height)
ovi is her own blood,dnt she feel evn little pain of hers,we dont behave like this wid evn our enemy,
today in mandir sh was only praying for purvi, but a fact is ovi needs bappa blessing more to cum over a heart break,then at end she is crying in front of purvi,that hw much she needs her daughter.
as teju said seeing the wedding card she becme more sad,y do this to ur daughter,u want ovi to know tat u arent on her side,just cum and tell her,y bring the card etc
evn savita said it wld be better if ovi wldnt b here,evn purvi was okay wid marriage postonong,arvi are so nervous for the marriage,every1 do get but arvi cld have git married little later.
and 1 more ting about ovi not understnding any ting,did she understood when manav was engaged to shravani and archana was commited to jay,still archana used tor un behind him,shravani(manav fiance told her off)still she dint stop.
i agree its one sided luv but still luv is luv,arjun isnt a stranger to ovi,its her exfiance.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am sorry but I don't agree with you. Love is love, it is a sick love.
Ovi wants everything her way, she is a spoilt child.
Yes Ovi is her own blood, and when your own blood try to black mail you as a mother you have to be strong. Purvi is an adopted child with more principles and values that Ovi. Ovi was brought up by her grand mother Savita and we all know what type of values were instilled in Ovi. So why are you bashing Anchu.
Think with you head and not your heart. Please don't be offended as it is not my intention, just my point of view.
Have a good afternoon.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Trinibeauty

I am sorry but I don't agree with you. Love is love, it is a sick love.

Ovi wants everything her way, she is a spoilt child.
Yes Ovi is her own blood, and when your own blood try to black mail you as a mother you have to be strong. Purvi is an adopted child with more principles and values that Ovi. Ovi was brought up by her grand mother Savita and we all know what type of values were instilled in Ovi. So why are you bashing Anchu.
Think with you head and not your heart. Please don't be offended as it is not my intention, just my point of view.
Have a good afternoon.

i am not offended at all,every1 has pov,
i dont get this wat wrong sanskar do ovi-teju have except hating their mother who left them for money and nw to asking fro alimony and nthing else
i have never seen them drinking,smoking,sleeping with guys(d way punni is,evn though they have stay in canada have not seen them evn dinking)
teju-ovi respect elders,i agree ovi is a little snob butshe is a super modle,she has to have attitude.
varsha was so much of herself evn though sulo gave her sanskar.
i am not saying archu should have agree wid ovi demands,not at all.but b sensitive,u r dealing wid ur own daughter,she is not in proper state,i wanted arvi to marry after d fly leave for canada,but k fly wantd d fly to suffer,so they r getting arvi marry so soon-otherwise no logic of arvi getting married early.
teju tld archu pls dont hurt any1,but still..savita being evil understod ovi pain,so y dint archu
if i wld be archu i wld have prayed for purvi as well as ovi(actually more 4 ovi)to get over arjun and move ahead,but she dint evn mention ovis name.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What kind of a mother is Archana? For the most part, a good one :) , sometimes foolish perhaps but no malice at all, just unadulterated pure mother's love towards all her children. Just my POV.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

What kind of a mother is Archana? For the most part, a good one :) , sometimes foolish perhaps but no malice at all, just unadulterated pure mother's love towards all her children. Just my POV.

i dont agree not all her children,she has harter favourit-and we all know who is it.
actually she is a failure just like her mother
mothers dont behave the way sulo and archu do
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont consider Ovi Archana's "daughter" anymore. Always Archana gets blamed for every "bad" situation Ovi has- Ovi's bringing it upon herself. She goes around saying she doesn't need Archana, yet when she's going through "bad" times, all fingers point to Archu ? How much more is Archu going to do for someone who's always pinpointing and showing no respect ?!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: eshaaax3.

I dont consider Ovi Archana's "daughter" anymore. Always Archana gets blamed for every "bad" situation Ovi has- Ovi's bringing it upon herself. She goes around saying she doesn't need Archana, yet when she's going through "bad" times, all fingers point to Archu ? How much more is Archu going to do for someone who's always pinpointing and showing no respect ?!

she is going tru bad time cause of her,y archu had to get teh card,she is staying wid ovi,svita teju are worried for ovi,cause she is so depressed,archu is seeing tat,evn if u dont tke her as ur daughter take her as a housemate,u get little sympathy evn 4 an animal,here ovi is her own blood.
teju who hates archu too had gne to bandage archu,this is called humanity,
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sherma, all of your points are spot on. A mother is supposed to give unconditional love to all her children. Not pick favorites, and show love selectively. I think you made a very good point about Archana only asking for blessings in mandir for Purvi. She should've also asked for blessing for her other children, particularly Ovi who is going thru a bad phase right now. She had no business brining wedding card to Deshmukh house. That is the height of insensitivity. There are other ways she could've responded to Ovi's demand, such as just told her to her face that she would not be able to do it. She is despicable, I cannot stand watching this woman anymore. Which is why I don't watch, and only read the updates. And I completely agree with you that Manav's daughters (and I'll only refer to them as such going forward because it's clear Archana doesn't consider them her daughters), are very well brought up, decent and loving human beings. ARchana's behavior lately has become almost as if she is enjoying taunting Manav and his daughters. IT's just disgusting and I wish Manav would cut her out of his life once and for all and move back to Canada asap.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma

she is going tru bad time cause of her,y archu had to get teh card,she is staying wid ovi,svita teju are worried for ovi,cause she is so depressed,archu is seeing tat,evn if u dont tke her as ur daughter take her as a housemate,u get little sympathy evn 4 an animal,here ovi is her own blood.

teju who hates archu too had gne to bandage archu,this is called humanity,


Why not ? Uhm, Just because Archu is having a good time doesnt mean she cant share it with others, now whether the others want to join her or not is their own decision


and Archu did do stuff for Ovi for the sake of " humanity" but each time Ovi finds out its Archu, archu gets a whole lot of words thrown at her .

Yes Ovi is her own blood, archu has rights to take care of her, BUT when you keep helping and showing your love for someone who doesn't appreciate it and mocks it your bound to sort of not care for them
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If Archana is Ovi's mother, then she is Purvis's too.

Once should not adopt a child if they will not treat them the same way. Archu treats all her children the same, in fact she is giving up her husband for her adopted son's.We don't know that Archu has never prayed for Ovi or Teju, in fact she cares for them deeply. But today was Purvi's day, her wedding card. If my sister is getting married, I would expect my mother to pray for her, and her wedding that day. Not me. That does not make her a bad mother, it makes her a pre-occupied mother.

Thats my opinion.




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