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I am so sorry but i don't agree with you, a daughter doesn't blackmail her mother no matter how bad the mother is. Ovi's love for Arjun is not love its obsession and since the beginning of the leap it has always shown as one sided obsession. Ovi is a spoilt brat who doesn't see the truth and the fact that her family members are supporting her obsession is making things worst for her.
Sorry but I really didn't like the fact that you said that Archana should choose Ovi because she is her biological daughter. It really doesn't matter if the child is biological or adopted, for a mother a child is her child. Honestly are you telling me now that Archana biological children are back in her life she should forget about her adopted daughter. It doesnt work like that in real life. A mother does what is right for everyone one. Sometimes when she makes decisions, it may end up hurting some member but at the end of day, the decision is always right( i am speaking with personal) experience). My mom always says that it hard being mother. The fact that everyone blames Archana is pathetic. I agree that Archana should have found a better way to tell Ovi her decision instead of bring purvi and arjuns wedding card.
Another thing I would like to say is a mother gives her children sanskar the same to each child . it depends on the children on how they learn from mother and apply to situations. A mother raises her child to survive in this world. A mother cannot always be blamed for child behaviour(specially grown children). My grandma has brought up her children the same way, but that doesn't mean that my mom and her siblings are all the same and they raise their children the same way as my grandma. We are all different and unique even in our own families. My sisters and I are all different. I am understanding, my middle sister is quiet, and my little sister is crazy , but my has entitled the same morals and values in each of us!
People should stop blaming Archana because its getting really old and pathetic.
Anupamaa
