wat kind of mother archana is? - Page 4

Originally posted by: sherma

this is a show,and ovi is archu daughter,archu tryed to commit sucide when her engagement broke,she wasnt in luv wid him,but still she ddi tat.although she was 26years,and mature enough

here ovi is 18years and madly in luv wid arjun,she needs help,she needs time,it was a long 14 years luv,she cant fro get in i mth and move on.

i am not saying purvi shldnt get importance,but at present ovi needs it more,she tryed to commit sucide,next ting she may evn try to kill purvi,who will b the looser her?obviously archu-if anyting happens to either of them(i am actually watching gumrah these days,its about tenage crime,wat leads them on,and at end of each epsiode,it shows how parents shld help them,but sorry to say this manav still tryed but archu made it worse by giving the wedding card)

i wld still understnd if it wasnt purvi(archu daughter)who is rushing 4 marriage but here marriage cld be delayed for ur other daughter well being

Archana is suffering a lot in the battle of own v/s adopted. If she is rejecting arjun for the sake of ovi than she is selfish and like step mom for purvi. And now when she is on right path than people have doubt on what kind of mother she is? Please explain me what r u expecting from her? And what do u think that that wedding card was last thing through which ovi can know ArVi r getting married? No. There r many other source as son of well known business man getting married than not easy to hide it from people. And its good if Ovi accept that arjun doesnt belongs to her anymore. Her melodrama cant change the fact.

And why archana should treat ovi as daughter? When there is no space for archana in ovi's life than archana should not waste her time on her.

Some1 said archana should treat all her children equally? Really? They dont have any respect for mother but mother should always follow the principle of equality. Only purvi consider her as mother, respect her like anything and call her aayi. So if archana is partial for purvi than also she is not wrong. Why to waste time on those who dont even talk with u properly? Better she should think more about purvi who is truely daughter of archana and loves her equally not about 1 who is just interested in her requirements..

And archana should not bring wedding card at deshmukh place.? Sounding like this world is just made for savita and ovi.

Originally posted by: -ASTHA-

Archana is suffering a lot in the battle of own v/s adopted. If she is rejecting arjun for the sake of ovi than she is selfish and like step mom for purvi. And now when she is on right path than people have doubt on what kind of mother she is? Please explain me what r u expecting from her? And what do u think that that wedding card was last thing through which ovi can know ArVi r getting married? No. There r many other source as son of well known business man getting married than not easy to hide it from people. And its good if Ovi accept that arjun doesnt belongs to her anymore. Her melodrama cant change the fact.

And why archana should treat ovi as daughter? When there is no space for archana in ovi's life than archana should not waste her time on her.

Some1 said archana should treat all her children equally? Really? They dont have any respect for mother but mother should always follow the principle of equality. Only purvi consider her as mother, respect her like anything and call her aayi. So if archana is partial for purvi than also she is not wrong. Why to waste time on those who dont even talk with u properly? Better she should think more about purvi who is truely daughter of archana and loves her equally not about 1 who is just interested in her requirements..

And archana should not bring wedding card at deshmukh place.? Sounding like this world is just made for savita and ovi.

Originally posted by: sherma

no,no 1 is saying tat,my post anywere dint said tat she shld ignore purvi happiness etc.but she has a duty twrds ovi-teju

i never saw savita-manav telling ovi u will get arjun etc,manav evn tryed to raise her hand on ovi whn she wasnt ready to listen,the deshmuk(manav,teju,savita)are trying to help her,u cant help her y do more damage

teju stopped ovi sucide attempt,wat if she wld ahve really commited sucide,wat wld archu do?its a matter of being a sensible mother rther then following her mothers footstep.

i beelive its bettr to b on side(supporting a depressed child,tat doesnt mean she shld stop arvi marriage,but postponed it for 2 weeks,)be frim wid ur decision tat arvi marriage will happen but after 1 mth

Originally posted by: -ASTHA-

Archana is suffering a lot in the battle of own v/s adopted. If she is rejecting arjun for the sake of ovi than she is selfish and like step mom for purvi. And now when she is on right path than people have doubt on what kind of mother she is? Please explain me what r u expecting from her? And what do u think that that wedding card was last thing through which ovi can know ArVi r getting married? No. There r many other source as son of well known business man getting married than not easy to hide it from people. And its good if Ovi accept that arjun doesnt belongs to her anymore. Her melodrama cant change the fact.

And why archana should treat ovi as daughter? When there is no space for archana in ovi's life than archana should not waste her time on her.

Some1 said archana should treat all her children equally? Really? They dont have any respect for mother but mother should always follow the principle of equality. Only purvi consider her as mother, respect her like anything and call her aayi. So if archana is partial for purvi than also she is not wrong. Why to waste time on those who dont even talk with u properly? Better she should think more about purvi who is truely daughter of archana and loves her equally not about 1 who is just interested in her requirements..

And archana should not bring wedding card at deshmukh place.? Sounding like this world is just made for savita and ovi.

Originally posted by: _innocent_

I agree that marriage can be delayed untill Ovi is full stable! I fail to sympathise with anyone who tries to commit suicide, but thats my personal take!!

Waise, i dnt consider what OVI feel for Arjun to be love!.. It was love once upon a time, but now he has become something she wants, no matter what the consequences!...More of an obsession!...

Archana took the wrong step in showing the marriage card, but i feel she did it to wake Ovi up, to make grasp the reality of the situation, but the result was not one that anyone could have anticipated!..

the result was expected,many of us have predicted ovi sucide attempt,u cant forget many 10th,12th or tybcom students commit sucide before their results fearing of failure.

Originally posted by: -ASTHA-

Archana is suffering a lot in the battle of own v/s adopted. If she is rejecting arjun for the sake of ovi than she is selfish and like step mom for purvi. And now when she is on right path than people have doubt on what kind of mother she is? Please explain me what r u expecting from her? And what do u think that that wedding card was last thing through which ovi can know ArVi r getting married? No. There r many other source as son of well known business man getting married than not easy to hide it from people. And its good if Ovi accept that arjun doesnt belongs to her anymore. Her melodrama cant change the fact.

And why archana should treat ovi as daughter? When there is no space for archana in ovi's life than archana should not waste her time on her.

Some1 said archana should treat all her children equally? Really? They dont have any respect for mother but mother should always follow the principle of equality. Only purvi consider her as mother, respect her like anything and call her aayi. So if archana is partial for purvi than also she is not wrong. Why to waste time on those who dont even talk with u properly? Better she should think more about purvi who is truely daughter of archana and loves her equally not about 1 who is just interested in her requirements..

And archana should not bring wedding card at deshmukh place.? Sounding like this world is just made for savita and ovi.

tats the point,no1 from deshmuk family is interested in arvi marriage,no the wrld isnt but deshmuk house is defenitley for savita,and ovis.she being partial for purvi is understood-tats wt i wnted to hear from an archana fan,and hnestly its fine cause purvi really luv arch more then sul does.

Originally posted by: sherma

i am saying this not because she dint agree wid ovi demand,but wat she did at dehmuk house,now she wil cum running wid crocodile tears(i mean its a height)

ovi is her own blood,dnt she feel evn little pain of hers,we dont behave like this wid evn our enemy,

today in mandir sh was only praying for purvi, but a fact is ovi needs bappa blessing more to cum over a heart break,then at end she is crying in front of purvi,that hw much she needs her daughter.

as teju said seeing the wedding card she becme more sad,y do this to ur daughter,u want ovi to know tat u arent on her side,just cum and tell her,y bring the card etc

evn savita said it wld be better if ovi wldnt b here,evn purvi was okay wid marriage postonong,arvi are so nervous for the marriage,every1 do get but arvi cld have git married little later.

and 1 more ting about ovi not understnding any ting,did she understood when manav was engaged to shravani and archana was commited to jay,still archana used tor un behind him,shravani(manav fiance told her off)still she dint stop.

i agree its one sided luv but still luv is luv,arjun isnt a stranger to ovi,its her exfiance.

Originally posted by: sunflower52

I loved your post👏and also agree.

Exactly why should Archana be the only one to give to her daughters who do not even care to find out the reasons or ask her why she left them.

All those 2 ever do is shout at Archana.

I dnt understand the point of this post. I find it funny that people still find archana is responsible 4 ovi's behaviour. Univarsal fact ovi is nt archana's responsibility. Its manav and savita who r responsible 4 ovi's drama.
If archana is such a bad mother than how purvi is such a nice gal with morals. Blame archana if u find purvi is on wrong path. Why to blame her for those who were never part of her life.


And i seriously dnt understand the debate of own v/s adopted. Wht if purvi is adopted? Does it mean after finding her biological children archana should treat her like step child? And y to give less importance to that adopted gal who is always doing aayi jaap nd trying hard to stop the divorce and more importance to those biological children who find it shame to call her aayi and praying for their parents seperation as soon as possible.