PR Today: Dark clouds gathering

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Posted: 13 years ago
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At the end of today's PR, I felt as if dark clouds were blanketing the sky, and the sunlight was fading. Now a dark stormy sky can mean one of two things: a violent storm that uproots trees and causes extensive damage, or just a display of thunder and lightning, with not much to show for all the sound and fury but a gentle shower that refreshes the spirit. Which of these is it to be in PR?

No one knows, least of all your truly, with my abysmal record of second guessing the CVs. Nonetheless, we have to do something, so let us start reading the tea leaves, by gathering what facts we have, and extrapolating from them as best we can. Of course we will have to keep in mind that the CVs are allergic to logic, and that all they want is enough hungama to stir things up and raise the TRPs, whence all the dismaying rumours they have been floating for the past week and more.

The facts: As of now, these are:

-Ovi is offering Archana a Faustian bargain: abandon Purvi and get me Arjun, and in return I will get you assured happiness with your whole family (minus Purvi, of course). She is all pathos and sweet reasonableness, offering Archana all the time she might need, but the hard bargain is there under the velvet glove.

-Archana is not buying this. She is going ahead with the wedding cards, and in the precap, is trying to assure Purvi that the divorce is in no way her fault. I cannot see her allowing Purvi to sacrifice her love for Arjun in order for the divorce to be dropped.

-Purvi has not, contrary to what I had expected, been able to listen to the Archana-Ovi exchange. If she had done that, it might have accelerated developments considerably. Now we have to see if she is made aware of Ovi's offer in some way. It cannot be Archana who will tell her. Ovi, primed and coached by Punni, just might call Purvi and taunt her, saying that if she really loves her aai, she should be prepared to make this sacrifice for her.

-Even without (as of now, at least) this boost to her penchant for tyaag, Purvi is already seguing into that mode. She clearly tells Arjun that she cannot be happy in her marriage to him if her aai is made unhappy by the divorce going thru and thus losing her family for good. That Archana has not just been separated from this family for 18 years, but that during these 18 years, she never had any real hope of being reunited with them, is of course of no import to Purvi, who is dead set on "doing something"for her aai, or more specifically, to stop the divorce. She is not going to give up on this, come hell or highwater.

And in the precap, Purvi is in tears, blaming herself, and her engagement with Arjun, for Manav being more seriously upset than ever, thus deepening his alienation from Archana.

-Arjun has no inkling as yet of what might be in store for him, as his beloved begins to shift her focus from making him happy to making her aai happy. He is trying hard, in the only practical and rational way he can think of, to help her out, thru a very late night meeting with Judge Sukriti. That move had, by episode end, failed totally.

Indeed, that whole segment seemed designed solely to bring home to Purvi that there is no legal way to stall the divorce. It then follows, as the night the day, that she will now move on to more drastic methods, for she is no quitter, and for her the stakes are probably the highest she has ever faced.

The Possibilities: Now for the tea leaves.

- It has been suggested, in Laurie's very clever plan, that there might be an Arjun-Purvi charade of giving each other up (after getting married secretly, in one variation on this theme), so as to bring Manav, Archana, and Ovi together, and then revealing the truth when all is sweetness and light.

Attractive as this might sound to desperate Arvi fans seeking evidence of some practical sense and determination in their favourite lovebirds, this charade idea is fraught with unacceptable risks. For one thing, Ovi will not be satisfied with Purvi merely giving up Arjun. She will want him sealed, signed and delivered to her tender care before she moves on what she has promised Archana. If Arjun goes as far as that as part of the charade, he will be getting in too deep, and he will end up in a worse mess than he is in now. He can hardly back out of marrying Ovi TWICE. If I were Arjun, there is NO way I would stick my head into that noose, not even for his enchanting Circe (for Purvi seems to have reduced AK to a tame puppy, if not the pig of the Odyssey).

And how will the charade stop the divorce, unless we assume that Archana would go along with such a sacrifice, and Manav too? It is very difficult to swallow that. On the other hand, what if Manav, yielding to intense pressure from a suicidal Ovi, jumped at the offer? Where would Arjun be then ?

- This leaves us with only two options:

(a) that Purvi dumps Arjun summarily. Arguing with him and trying to convince him to go along with her plan, thru the conventional tumhe meri kasam ploy, will not work with a Canadian-bred chap who had no idea of what the saptapadi is, and who would, conceivably, be reluctant to end up as a burnt offering on the altar of daughterly devotion.

I have no notion if she will feel obliged to cook up an alternative boyfriend, like the unfortunate Sameer Rane, to carry more conviction with Arjun. However, this seems to me to be most unlikely, if only because Arjun, as we know him, will never believe it of Purvi as she has been with him of late. A flat ditching would be the only practical way for Purvi to get rid of Mr. AK.

(b) that Purvi tries desperately to get Arjun to go along with a double-jointed tyaag, she giving him up and he biting the bullet and going back to Ovi Ma'am (I refrain from using limpet, fearing that it might no longer be PC). When this fails, and Archana strengthens Arjun's hand by reading Purvi the riot act about her stupidity in contemplating a collateral damage ratio of 3 to 1, plus her rank insensitivity towards Arjun and what she owes to her future husband, Purvi just might drop the tyaag idea, though with extreme reluctance.

If it turns out to be (b), we can all pop the bubbly; and I am sure Laurie, with her pronounced taste for the high life, would settle for nothing less than Moet Chandon of the best vintage available.

If, however, it turns out to be (a), and nothing Arjun can say or do to move her has any effect, he should then respect her choice. The only other thing he has to do is to vote with his feet, and fast, before Ms.Ovi latches on to him like the Tar Baby dolled up in buttercup yellow.

The poor boy has taken enough from the Karanjkar-Deshmukh women, and it is high time he calls a halt to this endless process of dancing to their whims and fancies. If not, even if he does finally get married to Purvi, his fate will be worse than that of the proverbial doormat.

My wistful afterthought: If only someone could set some hurdles for Purvi to jump, for the privilege of marrying Arjun. Why should it be so one sided? As of now, the general feeling seems to be that it is enough for her to merely exist , refrain from dressing him down as of old, and make him eat pani puri and pao bhaji.

So folks, fasten your seat belts for a bumpy ride, and retune your ears to endless repetitions of our old faithfuls - Aahatein, Hai Rabba, and of course Darmiyaan - while still hoping (against hope) for the best.


Shyamala B.Cowsik



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shyamala,
You are making me nervous now..:)... I still have high hopes on Ms.Purvi, despite all that has happened, that she will not give up Arjun. Pipe dream, maybe, but I will still hang on to that until the deed happens...😊
Your wistful thought is mine too..I only wish Purvi has to do this once, so she realizes what Arjun went through for her. Just once, would be enough...
My wistful afterthought: If only someone could set some hurdles for Purvi to jump, for the privilege of marrying Arjun. Why should it be so one sided? As of now, the general feeling seems to be that it is enough for her to merely exist , refrain from dressing him down as of old, and make him eat pani puri and pao bhaji.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with all of your post except that hurdles bit for Purvi. This is not a test of who loves the other better but a puzzle for Arjun and Purvi to confront the rest of the world, the Deshmukhs and Karanjikars (Punni is still a Karanjikar to date), together as one.
Loved the reference to Faustus, Ovi likened to Mephistophles tickles the fancy, Laurie's penchant for great taste is apt, and limpet to Maam seems prudent.
Oh, and I have a feeling Purvi will overhear her mom's conversation with her aaji. That will trump it for her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well, Shyamala Didi...😆...I think you are certainly right in that we do have to gear ourselves up for a bumpy ride ahead!!! The only thing that is sticking with me and bothering me a bit is the conversation between Punni and Ovi. Ovi herself knows that Arjun does indeed have a mind of his own...and even Purvi breaking up with him is no guarantee that he will then turn to her.
Someone suggested Varsha being the catalyst...and although we dont know for sure who Purvi was walking towards outside...before the courtroom proceedings...there have been a couple of references made to Soham's Mai..and the respect/love he has for her. It seemed to me that Purvi was quite curious to see his "Mai"...I wonder if the CVs will somehow find a way to make Varsha find out the truth about Purvi being Archana's adopted daughter...not Manav's...and in turn Purvi, when she meets Varsha, will find out the truth about who Soham really is.
The idea of Purvi dropping the charges against her kidnapper and being sympathetic towards him is the only thing I can think of that would alienate Arjun, and cause a big enough misunderstanding for him to walk away. She promises Arjun that she will never leave him...so she has got to find a way to make him voluntarily upset enough with her as to agree to postpone their wedding. I feel there is nothing else that will work. I am a little hopeful and optimistic (this is probably dumb given the CVs track record but I still do want to keep the positive energy alive )...because Purvi at least tells Arjun that she has to stop her parents divorce. The fact that she tells him she has to stop it at any cost has no impact on him now...but perhaps it will dawn on him in the future so that he puts 2 and 2 together to figure out why his beloved has done this.
In which case Shyamala and Jyothi, we may get our wish. I say our wish because I too would like to see the shoe on the other foot for once, so to speak. (I know my Jhanvi, my dear Sambandh, you are not going to like this but I must stay true to self!) This has indeed been one-sided, and this situation would be an about-flip from the Ovi engagement fiasco----with Arjun being the wronged party and Purvi being the one who has to work to make him understand why she had to drop the charges against the person who caused them both so much grief-----and win him back.
It will be interesting to see. And we know there is no Arjun/Ovi marriage track planned for right now...so Jyothi in keeping with your optimism...I will tell you that regardless of the confirmation (again) from Jai's source (again, thank you my friend...as always)...and also regardless of Ekta's famous track record...Arjun willingly marrying Ovi is just not possible. He was not prepared to marry her even when he believed that Purvi did not love him back...before her confession remember? His feelings for Purvi were what mattered...the fact is that he is in love with someone else...regardless of whether she is with him or loves him back...he now knows what it feels like to be in love with someone...a sentiment he had never experienced before...and at that point he knew that he could never marry Ovi...nor will he. I say this with 100% confidence. There is no way he will do it willingly...Purvi or no Purvi.
Even if Purvi manages to anger and disgust him to the point of pushing him away...his love for her is just too deep for him to just forget her and move on. He will not be able to do so. So we will probably have another 2 month separation track until the truth is revealed, the misunderstanding is resolved, and they finally get married.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shyamala.. why do you do this..
I am just enjoying Arjun-Purvi's old age scene, thinking.."even at that age, does Purvi need cell phone in one hand.." and being in my own fantasy world.. Here u are.. brining us back to reality.. come on..
I am going tell myself 10 times that it is just going to be a passing cloud and ARVI will be together.. Arjun/RD worked so hard to get Purvi.
For a change, let Purvi be commited to the promise that she made to Arjun.
Shyamala.. Lauri is not going to stop with just lavish Suits & Perfumes..she is still shopping around for the best car for her guy.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Brilliant post, Shyamala Aunty!

Its not just a storm-a-brewing but a full fledged category five hurricane! Did the tea leaves reveal anything about the number of casualties?

You are absolutely correct. Arjun will not give up on Purvi with a simple "Arjun, you need to do this for me."

He has been to hell and back to prove to everyone, including her that he wants to be with Purvi regardless of what life throws at him and - being the warrior he is - he will not accept defeat.

So, if she has decided that she will 'force him' to walk away it will cause some hurt of magnanimous proportions for him. That I could not stomach!

If plan B comes to fruition then "Huzzah" all the way around and I shall only par take of the Dom Perignon if you and the ladies will join me? Perhaps some Perrier-Jouet Belle Epoque Rose instead? Or any 'poison' of your choice for that matter 😉

As for now - to my dear ARVI - "Do not go gentle into that good night. Rage, rage against the dying of the light." Dylan Thomas
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dear Shyamalaji, very very nice post. I have many things to say, but I don't want to. It will be a heart breaking future for ArVi fans at least for some times. I am giving up on Ekta and CV. I do feel that more we make requests to CV and care for ArVi, they will ruin them more. All becausr of TRP.😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: archverma10

Well, Shyamala Didi...😆...I think you are certainly right in that we do have to gear ourselves up for a bumpy ride ahead!!! The only thing that is sticking with me and bothering me a bit is the conversation between Punni and Ovi. Ovi herself knows that Arjun does indeed have a mind of his own...and even Purvi breaking up with him is no guarantee that he will then turn to her.

Someone suggested Varsha being the catalyst...and although we dont know for sure who Purvi was walking towards outside...before the courtroom proceedings...there have been a couple of references made to Soham's Mai..and the respect/love he has for her. It seemed to me that Purvi was quite curious to see his "Mai"...I wonder if the CVs will somehow find a way to make Varsha find out the truth about Purvi being Archana's adopted daughter...not Manav's...and in turn Purvi, when she meets Varsha, will find out the truth about who Soham really is.
The idea of Purvi dropping the charges against her kidnapper and being sympathetic towards him is the only thing I can think of that would alienate Arjun, and cause a big enough misunderstanding for him to walk away. She promises Arjun that she will never leave him...so she has got to find a way to make him voluntarily upset enough with her as to agree to postpone their wedding. I feel there is nothing else that will work. I am a little hopeful and optimistic (this is probably dumb given the CVs track record but I still do want to keep the positive energy alive )...because Purvi at least tells Arjun that she has to stop her parents divorce. The fact that she tells him she has to stop it at any cost has no impact on him now...but perhaps it will dawn on him in the future so that he puts 2 and 2 together to figure out why his beloved has done this.
In which case Shyamala and Jyothi, we may get our wish. I say our wish because I too would like to see the shoe on the other foot for once, so to speak. (I know my Jhanvi, my dear Sambandh, you are not going to like this but I must stay true to self!) This has indeed been one-sided, and this situation would be an about-flip from the Ovi engagement fiasco----with Arjun being the wronged party and Purvi being the one who has to work to make him understand why she had to drop the charges against the person who caused them both so much grief-----and win him back.
It will be interesting to see. And we know there is no Arjun/Ovi marriage track planned for right now...so Jyothi in keeping with your optimism...I will tell you that regardless of the confirmation (again) from Jai's source (again, thank you my friend...as always)...and also regardless of Ekta's famous track record...Arjun willingly marrying Ovi is just not possible. He was not prepared to marry her even when he believed that Purvi did not love him back...before her confession remember? His feelings for Purvi were what mattered...the fact is that he is in love with someone else...regardless of whether she is with him or loves him back...he now knows what it feels like to be in love with someone...a sentiment he had never experienced before...and at that point he knew that he could never marry Ovi...nor will he. I say this with 100% confidence. There is no way he will do it willingly...Purvi or no Purvi.
Even if Purvi manages to anger and disgust him to the point of pushing him away...his love for her is just too deep for him to just forget her and move on. He will not be able to do so. So we will probably have another 2 month separation track until the truth is revealed, the misunderstanding is resolved, and they finally get married.

Dear, dear Arch, if Purvi indeed antagonizes Arjun by doing something totally silly to make him believe she does not love him, I will have no qualms about her having to jump through hoops later to prove to him she didn't mean to give him up. But that admission is only for you, being the ladla's mom! 🤣
That said, I do hope there is some semblance to common sense and all this gets wrapped up neatly with no Ovi/Arjun marriage ever in the offing. I hope Punni gets her just dues soon! 😡 I disliked Ovi more than ever before. She is a wily one, smarter and more manipulative than she looks.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont understand why do the CVs complicate everything...
there is a far more easy way to stop this divorce..
1) Purvi should expose her Sachchu dada in front of her Manav baba n tell the truth behind her aai's decision..
2) for God's sake...
when will Mr.Damodar Deshmukh speak?
its high time n he should now expose his dearest wife,our beloved Savita aaji..
so,plz let Arvi be united n Arman be re - united as well and get us a life...
there are so many ways to stretch the story,like concentrate on Arvi post - marriage adjustments n nok - jhoks,getting Ovi,Teju n Sachchu settled in their life,Archu - Soham re - union n so on...
why do they target only n only Arvi????????????😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very good analysis Shyamala ...
I just cannot understand why the writers are doing this to the show ..All Purvi has to do is tell Arjun the truth about Aie's divorce ...that the divorce papers are invalid and that's it ...problem solved .
OK, she may not be able to tell anyone because of some silly kasam but Arjun can tell Sukriti ..
This is really the height of stupidity ...
There cannot be a divorce because the papers and the signatures are forged .I think the writers have forgotten about this ...😆
And what was Purvi crying about , for Baba and Aie's relationship ...what relationship ???? 😕
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago

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