Savita's truth - Page 6

Originally posted by: laxmifan

Originally posted by: Punarvivah

Hi All.
I have watched PR for almost all of the last 3 years and finally decided to comment. I come to I-F for updates and have been seeing only discord the past few months and its very disturbing to read. My take:

Archana and Manav never really took care of their relationship. Thats why inspite of all the love, passion and respect between them, everyone has been able to drive a wedge between them. Its pathetic that the first one and probably the strongest one that drove the wedge in was Savita, Manav's mom. Archana's own family cannot be absolved either. Fact is, no one, including Archana and Manav was worried about keeping protecting their relationship. It was the first thing they gave up on in times of trouble where it should have been the last thing. The bond between them is very strong but until the day they respect it, they will struggle and fail.

Coming to Savita, she was wronged, she was generous, decent and at the same time has wronged, was selfish and indecent. However, the person she has wronged most is Manav and its so sad that as a mother, she doesnt introspect or feel bad and change her ways.

Archana seems very polarizing in this forum - Not sure why. Right or wrong, self created or not, the point is - she has suffered and continues to suffer immensely. All her life she has sought for people to see the decency of her spirit. It was not to be because sometimes she was too decent for normal people to relate and at others, it seemed like she was decent at the expense of her own self (Manav and children are extended self for this discussion). Its clear she suffers from deep inferiority complex and hence imposes that on her life - that it is okay for her life and in some cases, her children's life to be trampled. She has been taken advantage of by all she knows. No one has valued her for her good and helped her get over the bad in her personality . Summary is, she has had a pathetic life.

Where the CVs should go from here is that since all that Archana lost is coming back to her, she must find her strength - her relationship with Manav and work on resurrecting it and protecting her family with it. That would be the way to go from here. Else, this show will be the worst form of emotional blackmail ever.

Originally posted by: Punarvivah

Hi All.
I have watched PR for almost all of the last 3 years and finally decided to comment. I come to I-F for updates and have been seeing only discord the past few months and its very disturbing to read. My take:

Archana and Manav never really took care of their relationship. Thats why inspite of all the love, passion and respect between them, everyone has been able to drive a wedge between them. Its pathetic that the first one and probably the strongest one that drove the wedge in was Savita, Manav's mom. Archana's own family cannot be absolved either. Fact is, no one, including Archana and Manav was worried about keeping protecting their relationship. It was the first thing they gave up on in times of trouble where it should have been the last thing. The bond between them is very strong but until the day they respect it, they will struggle and fail.

Coming to Savita, she was wronged, she was generous, decent and at the same time has wronged, was selfish and indecent. However, the person she has wronged most is Manav and its so sad that as a mother, she doesnt introspect or feel bad and change her ways.

Archana seems very polarizing in this forum - Not sure why. Right or wrong, self created or not, the point is - she has suffered and continues to suffer immensely. All her life she has sought for people to see the decency of her spirit. It was not to be because sometimes she was too decent for normal people to relate and at others, it seemed like she was decent at the expense of her own self (Manav and children are extended self for this discussion). Its clear she suffers from deep inferiority complex and hence imposes that on her life - that it is okay for her life and in some cases, her children's life to be trampled. She has been taken advantage of by all she knows. No one has valued her for her good and helped her get over the bad in her personality . Summary is, she has had a pathetic life.

Where the CVs should go from here is that since all that Archana lost is coming back to her, she must find her strength - her relationship with Manav and work on resurrecting it and protecting her family with it. That would be the way to go from here. Else, this show will be the worst form of emotional blackmail ever.

Originally posted by: Tulsey

Gemstar, you really get a kick...and I can see it from your icons. I am not like you and I find time wasting to reply to your messages...murrakh se na lujeeye...and that is exactly what I plan on doing.

Originally posted by: Punarvivah

Hi All.
I have watched PR for almost all of the last 3 years and finally decided to comment. I come to I-F for updates and have been seeing only discord the past few months and its very disturbing to read. My take:

Archana and Manav never really took care of their relationship. Thats why inspite of all the love, passion and respect between them, everyone has been able to drive a wedge between them. Its pathetic that the first one and probably the strongest one that drove the wedge in was Savita, Manav's mom. Archana's own family cannot be absolved either. Fact is, no one, including Archana and Manav was worried about keeping protecting their relationship. It was the first thing they gave up on in times of trouble where it should have been the last thing. The bond between them is very strong but until the day they respect it, they will struggle and fail.

Coming to Savita, she was wronged, she was generous, decent and at the same time has wronged, was selfish and indecent. However, the person she has wronged most is Manav and its so sad that as a mother, she doesnt introspect or feel bad and change her ways.

Archana seems very polarizing in this forum - Not sure why. Right or wrong, self created or not, the point is - she has suffered and continues to suffer immensely. All her life she has sought for people to see the decency of her spirit. It was not to be because sometimes she was too decent for normal people to relate and at others, it seemed like she was decent at the expense of her own self (Manav and children are extended self for this discussion). Its clear she suffers from deep inferiority complex and hence imposes that on her life - that it is okay for her life and in some cases, her children's life to be trampled. She has been taken advantage of by all she knows. No one has valued her for her good and helped her get over the bad in her personality . Summary is, she has had a pathetic life.

Where the CVs should go from here is that since all that Archana lost is coming back to her, she must find her strength - her relationship with Manav and work on resurrecting it and protecting her family with it. That would be the way to go from here. Else, this show will be the worst form of emotional blackmail ever.