Savita's truth - Page 4

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@ dilwar : It is simply that we see what we wish to see!

Thanks Pallavi for writing informative things about breast feeding. u hav rightly pointed out the reason why Archu gave Soham to varsha.

u r right. savita doesn't favour Arman consummation. thatswhy she separated them for 18 years. both lost 18 years of togetherness, 18 years of love and 18 years of sex and what not, thanks to the savita. Can anybody return those 18 years and the youth ArMan hav lost? I really condemn those who have made an agenda to call savita a saint.

Seems to me every one has excused Savita ill deeds and has like the characters in the show has put all the blame on Archana and her mom.

Originally posted by: gemstar

now other people's statements are being termed as jokes

devashree r u even listening

by the way all the so called jokes are facts and thats why trps were so low

She can't listen. The post doesn't has sound or speak.
It should be read...not listen.
Thank me later.

Originally posted by: dilwar

Answer to your first part

The mother's love was always there. she fed or even if she pumped milk for Soham (as per your language), they would never show on TV 😆. This is a family drama and being telecast on national TV. Would that have satusfied you? I suggest go for Po* n sites.That would bring solace to you. Giving Soham to varsha was not intended to loose Soham. But what savita was trying to separate Soham from archana was planned and of course intentional. hats off to savita's evil mind 😆

Answer to your 2nd part

truth is savita's mad for gold and desire for rich bahu was portrayed as bad but she never had anything,

The most stupid statement. now sorry i cant write the 100 episodes where savita did her evil best to gather dowry, reject Archana to get new bahu with more gold etc. Even tried to burn her oneday. Did so many things to separate Arman. Now don't crack more jokes.

mind your language first...i really request mods to look at this person's language...this is very insult to me...i did not ask for any of the things that dilwar mentioned...I will raise a separate thread on you if MODs doesn't get a chance to look at it...

i didn't ask them to show how to feed the baby...they should atleast have shown soham needs mom's milk...so he cannot be given to varsha for weeks and months...first of all you have raised the topic 'mother's milk' and i am trying to explain you what age kids needs to be nursed...

if you think savita did inhumanity as saas to archu, then what did sulo did to manav...
if you are a man, do you wish to get slapped by your MIL and still help her family, if you are a woman do you want to help your maika and let your husband get slapped and insulted by your maika...

you said this is family drama, should the family receive all the bad messages this show is portraying...

i guess its either teju or manav cause they are the only ones who sometimes gets confused in understanding archana and think that in some way she is right

Originally posted by: pallavi25

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Good reply, dilwar! 👏

I would also like to add that the statement made by quoted poster that mother's milk is needed for 1 year is not a universal truth! I have 2 kids so I should know!

Some kids breast feed for 3 months, some for 6 months, some for 1 yr, some for 2 yrs. Depends on many factors but sometimes kids wean onto solids as early as 3 months when they like the taste of cereals, baby foods or other foods. That is convenient for mothers too as they can then travel or work without having to breast feed all the time!

As for leaving Soham with Varsha, I know of a couple (my hubby's cousins) who leave their daughter with the mom's sister who is childless, they meet their own kid every weekend... as this couple work the whole week in a different city, they leave her with the sister who can look after her better. The child is being brought up by her mausi but also lives with her parents on weekends. I dont see any problems with that child.

How would Archu know that Varsha would kidnap Soham? Shes not a mind reader!

Savita is intended to be the vamp of this show from the beginning by CVs.

Its no use trying to whitewash a supremely evil character like her! Worst of all is she doesnt even care for Manav or really love her son, shes just using him to gain money and status!

I personally know a saas like her who lives with her son and DIL...she puts down her bahu at every chance she gets and rules over her son and the household like a dictator! The couple didnt even have a 2nd child because the mom said NO...u cant have another kid because my nikammi bahu cant take care of even the first one properly!

This reminds me of a funny skit the PR team did at a Star Awards function 2 yrs ago...Manav and Archana are trying to consummate their marriage on stage when Savita comes and breaks them up...she wont let them make love...🤢😆

That is exactly what Savita has achieved over the last 18 yrs!

Pallavi even I breast fed my kids for 2 years, my kids were colic, had reflex issues and intolerance to dairy/soy products other than my milk, i too know how it is, mother's milk is the good medicine for kids, but in India 25 years back i think no mom must had stopped feeding before 1 year...
if you see the previous episodes...you can see that few weeks infant sohum was given to varsha for days...and within few weeks of baby is born if you don't feed the baby milk flow will sure go less...
i don't know what is your friend's condition but I left my job twice because of pregnancy and my attachment with kid because of reflex issues, i had confidence on myself i can go back to work which i proved as i am back to work now, few of my frineds sent their kids to India and they were in USA didn't get chance to see kid everyweek also...and even your friends case is understandable she is getting the kid back on the weekend and she knows what the kid wants/needs...but in archu case it was completely different she didn't know how to make sohum not to cry...a 2 year old can express so much, soham was understanding varsha as mom that noone should encourage and everyone around soham/varsha didn't tell varsha or soham the relation is different ...even me as a viewer never thought soham is archu's kid till they shown it, i always thought varsha adopted a kid...
giving your sister for caretaking is different, what issues archu had to take care of soham, was she working, savita was good to her at that time and as you know how damo is towards archana can't he take care of archana's kid if she has some household chores, and manav was earning enough, couldn't she afford a nanny like sundari
the mistake archu did is giving the kid to varsha even after knowing she is psycho...and not keeping eye on her...
archu used to do household stuff before wedding at K's home, so many people including kids homeworks...and after marraige, archu had time to sue DK constructions and she had time to solve so many people issues, but she couldn't handle 2 kids and then 4 kids...and manav is such a good dad in spending time with kids...

it is just show thats why nothing matters...but in real life you can loose anything but the time can never come back...the kid's every first activity is very precious, first time baby smiles and that smile is for the mom, the first time baby holds rattle, first time baby recognizes you and gets the stranger anxiety and just wants to stay with you, first time nods the head, first time roll over, first time crawl, first talk, first walk, first time feeding solid, first time you sit with baby to put diya to god, everyday baby makes you understand what baby wants, and that hug to the baby makes you relaxed from all tensions, first feel of the baby when you make her lick orange...the way your baby sees you as the important person in whole world ...you can never get these back if you loose these moments...
may be i am too traditional or emotional, but making distance from your own kid because of stupid reason cannot digest for me...

here is the episode where soham was shown for first time...did anyone think soham is archu's kid when they saw this episode, did archu show any love/care towards soham...it is on june16th,2011
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ov-6E_tpCIc&feature=relmfu

see this episode when archu said she cannot manage it is ok to keep soham with varsha, this is on june24th,2011
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Zxq9bZQrE4&feature=relmfu

Originally posted by: m_masti

Pallavi even I breast fed my kids for 2 years, my kids were colic, had reflex issues and intolerance to dairy/soy products other than my milk, i too know how it is, mother's milk is the good medicine for kids, but in India 25 years back i think no mom must had stopped feeding before 1 year...

25 years ago there was Nestum and Cerelac and some moms did wean their babies at 3 mths or 6 mths due to insufficient breast milk, employment or health reasons. Its wrong to generalize like that, 25 yrs ago ALL moms did NOT nurse babies till 1 yr old! I had my daughter 23 yrs ago so I shd know...I nursed her till 2 yrs but my son stopped nursing at 3 months, he just refused to nurse anymore and moved on to cereals...

if you see the previous episodes...you can see that few weeks infant sohum was given to varsha for days...and within few weeks of baby is born if you don't feed the baby milk flow will sure go less...
i don't know what is your friend's condition but I left my job twice because of pregnancy and my attachment with kid because of reflex issues, i had confidence on myself i can go back to work which i proved as i am back to work now, few of my frineds sent their kids to India and they were in USA didn't get chance to see kid everyweek also...and even your friends case is understandable she is getting the kid back on the weekend and she knows what the kid wants/needs...but in archu case it was completely different she didn't know how to make sohum not to cry...a 2 year old can express so much, soham was understanding varsha as mom that noone should encourage and everyone around soham/varsha didn't tell varsha or soham the relation is different ...even me as a viewer never thought soham is archu's kid till they shown it, i always thought varsha adopted a kid...
giving your sister for caretaking is different, what issues archu had to take care of soham, was she working, savita was good to her at that time and as you know how damo is towards archana can't he take care of archana's kid if she has some household chores, and manav was earning enough, couldn't she afford a nanny like sundari

You are forgetting something...SACHIN! Archu was looking after Sachin at that time so she gave Soham to Varsha. And also as far as I remember Savita was actively encouraging Archu to do so and complaining she isnt paying attention to Sachin...in fact she even brought back Shravani saying Archu is neglecting Sachin for her own kid. In order to give all her love and attention to Sachin, she gave her own kid to her sister!

it is just show thats why nothing matters...but in real life you can loose anything but the time can never come back...the kid's every first activity is very precious, first time baby smiles and that smile is for the mom, the first time baby holds rattle, first time baby recognizes you and gets the stranger anxiety and just wants to stay with you, first time nods the head, first time roll over, first time crawl, first talk, first walk, first time feeding solid, first time you sit with baby to put diya to god, everyday baby makes you understand what baby wants, and that hug to the baby makes you relaxed from all tensions, first feel of the baby when you make her lick orange...the way your baby sees you as the important person in whole world ...you can never get these back if you loose these moments...
may be i am too traditional or emotional, but making distance from your own kid because of stupid reason cannot digest for me...