Why is Archana doing this? - Page 4

Originally posted by: umayal

Hi Simusha,

I again quote my above post here, to say that and stand strong on the fact that the Kids of ARMAN are ill fated or ill treated and seeing that, as a ARMAN fan or the fan of this old story PR which kept us hooked, we felt Bad.

I didnt wish ArVi to be bad, Let them be what they are and i didnt have a Problem in Punni being Bad, those are understandable, but why the Kids of the Goody-Goody Pair ARMAN need to be a Negative one.

Why cant they also be good and be real with their own Faults Like ArVi.


And as far as Ovi is concerned, i read yesterday's update.

She doesn't seemed so obsessive or a mental patient. she is Really Hurt and understood depressed and need a Medical help, but that doesnt mean she is turned negative or obsessive Psyche.

Bhalla's writing depict that she went to temple Barefoot and I could really understand how true her affection was and how could she would had been as a Lover.

i didnt compare Purvi here or say she is bad or couldn't be good. Let her be happy and do what she wishes ,its altogether a different one.

I speak here of Ovi as a Single entity, concerning about her character alone.

Think of Ovi, she hadn't been to temple like that, she wasnt used to it, She wasnt taught that by her mother, doesnt Know the proceedings, She hadn't been there before ,Like Holding the mother's hand as a sweet little girl hearing stories about all, or been with the mother or family there altogether with a happy environment and did the Pooja.

yet she all alone went,doent know what to do, what to get, But yet did, for what, for the Love she had. Wouldn't had she become a good Lover and wife ,if she has been one.
Truly she would have.

The only sad thing is, she is wasting it on a place where its of no use. she has to understand that.She needs to get over of it. we too feel she has to get over of it and wrong in sticking to that. she too deserves better and a person who loves her.

So I Didnt find her obsessive as far as concerned and mental patient. Yes she needs a immense care and affection but thats from her family as of now.

Umi...I had to come to the forum to do this👏👏👏👏👏

Uma dear fantastic posts re 👏👏👏..Perfectly explained the perspective of all Old school Arman fans like us..

Umi darling, Kalapi, Jai, Taya, Rash and others good posts..

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Umi...I had to come to the forum to do this👏

Oh Kalapi Di 🤗

I am totally 😳, Didnt deserve that much but very happy and glad to see your Love and appreciation.🤗

Di ,you Know actually I was being so silly with the way I am Dealing with PR.😳
As crazy I am ,I still I follow PR through Bhalla's written updates but Having a Principle that i shouldn't watch it either on television or net.😆.

So after reading His update,i imagined how could had been Ovi's Travel to the temple.
May be as i am too attached to my mom, though dad was my all time favorite as like for every girls concerned,I may write and think like this. I really really still wish to see the mother's care for the ARMAN kids as I love it so much and wish to see that for them too.


When it comes to House or Girly things or the way we make prayers,its the mothers who taught us.That statement of Holding hand and hearing stories came through real experience. everyone would have experienced it. Really How cute, How affectionate and Tender it would be.
The Mom admiring her Little Girl and the girl with her naughtiness Listening and playing,having a ride to the Temple.
I wish to see such scenes of ARMAN with their little kids but that never happened.
Even after growing accompanying the mother would be a nice one to do at times and not always, may be sometimes, as we are grown up. 😃 😆

Really Ovi hasnt experience any of it. neither her mother nor the paternal Grandmother taught it. she wasnt used to it at all. Yet she did, i could sense her confusion, turmoil, state of execution. Over all i wrote what I had felt for her.

On the contrast ,Purvi would had surely been taught and experienced it.

Even savita aai as commented once that Archu did Know better about it all. she does the Prayers and god things very good. But the Girls were not taught this or used to it.
i still remember How archu was once telling over phone and ovi did the shiv pooja, it was so nice to see.

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Uma dear fantastic posts re 👏👏👏..Perfectly explained the perspective of all Old school Arman fans like us..

Hai Jai 😊,
Thanks Jai for the appreciation. Yes, Cvs have spoilt it. And its unrecoverable now.

Varsha Di 🤗,

I too understand Di.
koina Koi wajha, they will tell for the Kids being Like this. Savita, Varsha or ARMAN themselves will be shown as reasons.

But leave up the Upbringing, As rash told,isn't there something called genes. would not that have an effect.


That too when Sulo's Upbringing Succeeds and Manav's was never is the Thought that makes me Irritated even more, when ARMAN kids are concerned.

I can even Forget ARMAN's doings and whatever fault they had done and How much ever they had done insensible and silly they be.

But the One character or the one who Spoiled it all for me, In PR, was the Great Great Sulo.
My next statement would look contrary . How could i say that being a Archu fan.

Archu might love her mother so much But for me the person who spoiled My fav character archu to the core was none other than the great Sulo. She still ties her daughter in her umbilical cord and doesnt Leave archu to Grow or settle ahead.

Originally posted by: umayal

Varsha Di 🤗,

I too understand Di.
koina Koi wajha, they will tell for the Kids being Like this. Savita, Varsha pr ARMAN themselves will be shown as reasons.

But leave up the Upbringing, As rash2222 told,isn't there something called genes. would not that have an effect.


That too when Sulo's Upbringing Succeeds and Manav's was never is the Thought that makes me Irritated even more when ARMAN kids are concerned.

I can even Forget ARMAN's doings and whatever fault they had done and Howmuch veer they had done and silly they be.

But the One character or the one who Spoiled it all for me, In PR, was the Great Great Sulo.
My next statement would look contrary . How could i say that being a Archu fan.

Archu might love her mother so much But for me the person who spoiled My fav character archu to the core was none other than the great Sulo. She still ties her duaghter in her umbilical cord and doesnt Levae archu to Grow or settle ahead.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Bang on Umi darling...Bravo 👏

She still is doing same..I have nothing against Archana had she learned to be Manav's wife and mother to her kids...She never learn to detach somehow from her mother, be independent and start thinking like Archana Deshmukh a married woman with 4 kids..

If I had a daughter I would tell her to take care of your family I know you love me but now you have your family to take care of...be the wife and mother and I am always there to support you if need be...But will never hover over and stifle her by making her feel guilty...Sulo has mistreated her other kids too because of favoring for Archu...Archu can do no wrong...that puts so much pressure on a girl and also puts guilt trip each time...Purvi suffers from the same from archana...legacy continues...

Thanks Umi for fabulous post...🤗

Di 🤗,

i always feel that di. still I believe so.

Sulo taking too much Hold of archu was one thing that spoiled archu.

Sulo's Great ego on her upbringing and Sanskaars is what ended up archu where she was today. The egoistic thing sulo had on her upbringing was the one made her say that "Archu can be no wrong" and this statement of hers spoiled archu's Life to the core.

as you had said ,This statement had put so much Pressure on archu and reason for what she is today.
As said, The Guilt trip she tooks each time was more and her insensible decisions were a result of this.
And what has been taught, archu is following which now spoils Purvi too. But I think she is going out of the Line sometimes. 😉

So ,Who is the cause for all this, its ends up in Sulo the ??? .so thats why, This is the character that i dislike the most.


Di, i am glad you enjoyed my posts. Its my pleasure. i simply wrote essays as I am
not feeling sleepy. 😳



Di,i enjoyed reading your Post and your finally para on what you wished to see,
ARMAN's making up with themselves and their kids and to see what regained after what ARMAN and their family as lost in 18yrs was good. and
How the old scenes replication was done with the so call Jr Manav and Jr.Archu by Cvs is too good. 😆

Hmm...How creative they are na...😕😆

and soham the Kidnapper ... is beyond my understanding too.

Agree totally with your statements on Ovi too. I too feel the same with respect to her character.
But surely Cvs are there and tend to turn her negative,

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Umi darling, Kalapi, Jai, Taya, Rash and others good posts..

Umi your point in how ArMan's bilogical kids shown in bad light although all kids in PR are raised by single parents...

Vaishu-Aniket

DK-Arjun

Archana-Purvi

Manav-Ovi-Teju-Sachu

Varsha-Soham

Now out of all why do u think that ArMan;s kids are ill fated and shown bad is one factor only...Blame the darn thing on "Savita" Ovi-Teju and Sachu no matter how good they are they will be seen in a bad light as Savita was a factor in that family...Whether she had any influence in raising them or not...I am not saying she did not or she did...Just the thought...Hate for Savita is directed towards the innocent children.

Why is Purvi a good child? because she was around "Sanskar ka theka lene wali Sulo" and "cant do no wrong Archana"

DK-Aashna were good people so Arjun is good kid..

Soham was with Psycho aunt so he is bad too..

Another thing Umi I totally agree with you and against those who keep labling Ovi as Spoiled and Obsessed...These adjectives are harsh and unneccessary.

Is it her fault that she was raised in well to do family? Teju is TB type and does not care abt fashion or things...But Ovi does...So why is that considered a bad thing?

Ovi is hurt, heart broken and very vulnerable..Ovi-Teju and Sachu are already heartbroken by their mother in abandoning them...On top of that after coming to India Arjun breaks Ovi's heart by falling in love with another girl who is an adopted child by the same mother who abandoned them...Arjun breaks the engagement has put her in loss, despair, and devastation mode...She needs her mother's TLC and understanding from DK-Arjun and rest of the family to bring her out of this depression..There are few issues going on with Ovi..

Her walking to Bappa mandir barefoot with shraddha was honest and true by all means...She did not look obsessed...She loved this man Arjun for 6 yrs...He was her childhood friend who she fell in love with when she turned 14...which is 6 yrs...She needs her family and may be a counselling to help her understand her situation right now..I find the name calling of "Spoilt and obsessed" bit uncalled for and cruel..

Why ?because they like Romance and it is happening between Arjun-Purvi...I get that..but Ovi's feelings are as genuine and real as Arjun's feelings for Purvi and vice a versa...

Be it a one sided or reciprocated love is love..and I can see the difference betwen love and obsession if I saw one..I hope CVs do not make her negative...

I so wish CVs had shown ArMan working on their own marriage after 18 yrs leap and make things right between ArMan and their kids who the mother abandoned them for past 18 yrs...but here we have new romance between Arjun (The new mechanic and Manav Jr.) and Sanskari Purvi (Can do no wrong Archana Jr.) WOnder if u all noticed Arjun has baen wearing plaid shirt, washed out jeans in the front and flipflops instead of Manav' wearing chappals...De JaVu 😆 Mechanic and their romance in Rain...Hmmm How creative eh 😉

Now bringing Soham as goon - kidnapper is beyond me...

Why CVs why?

as arman fan and follower of PR from beginning i felt very sad by seeing that why all arman kids are shown so low cv's re so much in love with out siders arvi thats why they are showing soham as negative so that arjun purvi will get great chance to shine and prove that they are real loyal arman kid .i m waiting for soham entry for a long time but when he come i m speechless what to say but this time i really want him to give really hard time to purvi be cv's are showing unnecessary goodness and tooo much sanskarism of purvi ...why they show always purvi winning all arman kids are loosing with her though i like her but cv's always show all other arman kids stupid infront of her .oops purvi fan going to kill me today 🤢but i m hurt and i spill my anger on purvi😆.