Wasn't archu a Sensible Mother Today??? - Page 2

could it be that DK picks manav over arjun since he has always been very practical. he knows here that his son has made a mistake so he will ask arjun to leave the company. thats when archana will tell him that he has no identity of his own.

i hope cv's will not ended up showing arjun a great business man turning in ti motor mechanic like manav.

Originally posted by: umayal

Dear All,

I am Back to share my Views and Discuss on it.
First in Place, wish to bring to Notice that this thread wasn't open to Bash the actor or whom plays it or Neither the Character.
Just to share,Discuss and place the Views with Due respect both to the Fellow member and the cast of PR.

I am with you on this Umi darling...I wanted to wait to see someone opening a topic for me to share my views and who better than YOU 😃

It might have looked Harsh on archu's Part, But Wasn't she a sensible mother Today???
For Me ,Yes. She was.

She herself was Crazy in Love, she doesn't have a Proper definition of it when it comes to Herself. I dont Buy it,Wasn't able to understand this 7 janam Kya Pyaar from her side with the Definitions she Has.

But for the First time as a Mother, she analyzed what could had been a sensible love or a Good one for Her Daughters. She Analyzed, For the First time , she take into account what she had seen so far, what she has been made to hear so far, what she had been made to Listen so far, She took all this into account and took a decision that Arjun wasn't fit for her daughters.
Was that Wrong?

I would say Nooo. look at from what has been seen till now and what behavior was shown By arjun till now. will any parent accept his Love with the way he handled things and done so far.
If such a thing has happened with their Two daughters, any parent wouldn't.

Accepting one, Leading on one with a Promise, then broking it after sometime saying that I have found someone. is that right??
Oh ok, if sometime later, If that person finds other one before marriage and feels that she would be a even more better option that He feels all with her, then is it right to broke the second engagement too.

so was that Parent wrong to deny such a Proposal.

Archana was not wrong in protecting and denying Arjun for both daughters...But but She yet does not know the facts abt Purvi...How long is this stand abt Arjun not good for my daughters as he betrayed on both will last? I seriously doubt it will last...As soon as she finds the truth and Sulo's pursuation things will change as Sulo is for Purvi's love with Arjun..Also what they showed in Preview was total hogwash..

Archana telling Arjun that what ever he had was due to his father DK and not him...😲😕 OK he works with his father but dude has been handling business for his dad and has been successful so far...I am no way in support of Arjun and what he has done to both sisters...But I am going to state the facts...What does Archana have against people's money, sucesss or being rich?? Does she have a fobia against rich-successful people? She could have handled Purvi in bit calm manner instead of ordering she could have had a mother-daughter talk with her and explain...Importantly keeping Sulo out of this decision making...

Also dont get me wrong I have no Issue if Arjun had broken off with Ovi b4 confessing his love for Purvi...I am all for that..But I do not like what he has done..Also never considered Ovi's feelings, Kirloskar and Deshmukh friendship, family or professional relations...His take is "I know Ovi since she was a child. Main usse mana lunga" WTH is that??

And DK himself is disappointing not having any concern for Ovi or her feelings..He is jumping with joy accepting Purvi and Arjun's relationship...Dude think abt this decision would have some repurcussions..

I am in total agreement with Manav's stand abt resigning, not wanting to have anything to do with Arjun personally or professionally...He has no issues with DK as partner but will nt work with Arjun...A father of girl he is right..

I am anxious to see what he does when he finds out Purvi loves Arjun and she has already accepted his proposal to spend rest of her life with him..

I wasnt her to bash or degrade Arjun, But as such the Cvs as showed this character so far and from the character archu as a Mother, this is what i could Interpret and Decide.

So for the First Time ,I found her Decision as a Mother, right. Didnt feel she was wrong.
Its a better one for both her Daughters. she wasnt asking Purvi to sacrifice. as far as she seen, arjun wasnt worth for Purvi's love. so she wants Purvi to get a Better One.

Archana must remain assertive about her decision on Arjun not being right for either of their daughters..Right now it is too soon for anyone supporting Arjun-Purvi rishta..Dk can support it as he is boys father ...He is a true business man...Wheeling and dealing has been nature of him all his life...We all have seen Aashna's lonelyness...he is born again romantic as everything is perfect in hindsight..Grrr

Actually I was surprised that she wasnt all for the love and accept it just with telling crazy things about love and talking about Pavitra rishta. she has once decided sensibly. And wasnt supporting such a Love Which couldn't be said that it has a strong base.

Hope she stays in this stand where she analyse things and then decide.

Umi darling I hope she stands affirm on this too but her past decisions has proven she flip flops..keeping my fingers crossed for your sake and for her own personality's sake..

Waiting to read other Views too. But Please consider the first point I put too in Italics. 😳

I am all for love...I just dont like hiding and not being upfront abt things...But Arjun really made a mess with this...If Purvi was some totally unknown girl, it would not have been so bad for ArMan...They could have handled Ovi...But mixing personal things where business is also involved between 2 families and 2 sisters is a NO NO...Something hard to get over, forgive and forget...Time is the only cure for this...

Archana needs to fix things with her kids first b4 she can take any decisions as mother regarding OVI and together with Manav will have to handle this with utmost care protecting their own daughters..

Agreed that Archana was not wrong in saying that Arjun is not worth Ovi or Purvi. Based on what she has seen so far, Arjun was going around with Purvi while being engaged to Ovi. She does not know about Arjun's intension (we too were having problem with his behavior). What I don't like is that she did not give chance to Purvi to explain her side of the story. Archana could still have made the same decision after hearing Purvi's story by doubting Arjun's motives as Arjun knew that Ovi ad Purvi were sisters and still did not speak up before.

Once can make argument to justify Archans's actions by saying she believed in Purvi and she spoke so highly for her in the party, but when she realized that Purvi has kept her in dark she has lost trust in her sensibility. She may be thinking that Arjun's love might have brainwashed her and Purvi cannot be trusted with her feelings.

The problem here is that she asked Purvi to choose between her and Arjun without giving her a chance to speak for herself

^^^ Good point...Oh yes regarding Purvi, Archana should have never made it abt Her VS Arjun...

Hi all,

Thanks for the replies 😊

Varsha Di 🤗,

Oh god, di who does Know more than us about the Flip flops of archu's character 😆.
Still I expect her to change and resurrect herself and you wish that too for my sake. 😳.

Di,I know that she will behave insensible or prove myself wrong or may not be in the stand i wish in the upcoming epi's in few days.
But Just wish to write seeing on Today's epi.
Even Today she did go wrong in some things like as you all said, asking to choose between two.
she could have done the Denial in a better way too such that Purvi too understands why archu behaves so.

But archu did choose a wrong one and That too Precap. Alas ,as I told ,what does These Cvs have with such tracks and they always try to show that with archu. Seriously dont understand. There are so many ways to handle this situation and show the Denial and come out as a sensible Mother. But she had to choose this , really really Ufff Grrr...

Di,But as you have stated,where Arjun has gone wrong and How the relationship, affected and how insensitive DK family were,all this is what made me think, may be she was Right and sensible today.

Yes, may be the POV I have on arjun is what made me say strictly that Archu was right.


I 100% agree with your post. Hope archu is assertive.But then as you have put, cannot trust with Sulo by the side and with the Track record of archu.

And the Below Point was a Thumbs up one that I fully fully agree.

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Exactly, the one to be done. If this Happens ,i would be so happy and may be the first one to write a Appreciation Note for CVs.

I was IN and again into PR only just for those ARMAN family moments.

Bhalla Dear,

Thanks for the reply brother.
You Last line was well said ...😆...Ofcourse it is 😆 as they never learns from their mistakes..Its a Horror indeed.

Yes ,Bhalla, agree with you,
Archu had to make up with her daughters for those 18yrs mistake and then should get Involved.
But I thought ok fine, Let gone be Gone, Cvs wont allow her to resurrect, so atleast, now take the Position and do something for the daughters.
Even as a Third person, anyone will feel ,Say and decide the same. so from that Point,I thought may be she was right. she told what anyone would have told. Leaving aside that she was the mother of those Kids who was abandoned the mothers love by her , as a mother today, who decided to do something,I found her right .



arrey Yaar, Expecting this much from archu only is to ask too much From Cvs and archu, so i was happy that atleast she did that and last two days standing in this stand .

She will prove me wrong in upcoming epi's ,but still having hope that she may get resurrected with the way she handle the situation with her daughters and get involved in their family.

Lets see what Happens.

Originally posted by: pujli07

could it be that DK picks manav over arjun since he has always been very practical. he knows here that his son has made a mistake so he will ask arjun to leave the company. thats when archana will tell him that he has no identity of his own.

Ofcourse I too think so. Arjun going out will be an option for Dk- Manav relation and then this Challenge of archu... Arjun taking it, excelling it ...Ufff...I am tired...

i feel like archana should tell him that if he really loves purvi, then he needs to get her daughter ovi out this mess as her best friend because only he can do that and then only she will let her daughter purvi to be with him.

Exactly ,what a Sane ,sensible one would have done. It would had been a very good option and decision on Archu's part if she had done it.
But Alas where does these Cvs get such BS ideas. .They and their Precap.

and at this point archana thinks that purvi is being influenced by him so she has to take strict measures. even though ovi is in denial mode, arjun is not with her so archana knows she is safe and even if she wants to meet him its not going to happen.


@Underlined: Exactly what I meant to Say. Archu's perception was that and Based on that Her actions where Justified is what I had try to Place .


Thanks for the reply.😊

Originally posted by: bhallarox

Hey umi dear nice post.😊 I re-read the points you put in italics😊

Here is my view. I would say Archana was ok today to me her saying that Ovi nor Purvi is fit for Arjun was a little too much. Arjun was very wrong to cheat both Purvi and Ovi but then at the same time Archana too had abandoned Ovi and Teju both. She had also cheated Ovi and for these 18 years she had shown no concern for them and now suddenly she starts worrying about Ovi so much. I can understand Ovi not wanting or wishing Archana's concern.

But my main question is who would Archana be to decide whether Ovi deserves Arjun or not? The choice should be Ovi's.

Arjun was definitely wrong to betray Ovi and Ovi should probably realize that Arjun never did love her and move on. She does not deserve Arjun at all but Archana saying this was kind of too much. If she had took care of Ovi-Tej since they were little then she may have had the right to say what's right for Ovi but she never once took care of her during her childhood so I don't really think she should have a say in what goes on in Ovi's life.

I found Archana very disrespectful in the precap as she had insulted Arjun by bringing in his social status and money. Sulo has insulted Manav in similar ways too and now it's Archana insulting Arjun. Becoming a K damaad is a horror story.😆