what's wrong with Archana - Page 2

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

GManda72, yesterday's spirited defense does not give Archana the right to throw Purvi out into the night today. Her anger at being kept in the dark is warranted but her asking Purvi to get lost was unkind especially as she did not give the girl an opportunity to explain.Archana if she believed in her parvarish should have known Purvi's character, should have at least accorded her a chance to talk.

Originally posted by: GManda72

I am surprised that after Archana 's spirited defence of Purvi in front of the whole world yesterday, still she is being blamed for reacting this way! Even yesterday, after the whole fiasco, Archana came to tell Purvi that she is with her. Forget about all previous opportunities, even yesterday Purvi could have told her , but she didnt! If that is justified saying that Purvi was scared then so is Archana's reaction to what she percieves as betrayal of faith.

When Purvi scolded Archana for keeping teju's relation a secret, Archana explained and then apologized. She was right in saying that when Arjun got engaged to Ovi, why did they not tell the truth afterwards? When archana asked her many times in the past that if anything is troubling her, Purvi denied it. Now Archana cannot even question her and NOW she is blamed for not listening to her. Archana is right! After all the drama, Archana has been left looking like a culprit and she should not even react? Sulochana could say those words because she did not actually see Arjun and Purvi together, Archana did. So she reacted. And does she not a right to think of herself for even one minute? Then she becomes selfish? Wah! As thogh Purvi can make no mistakes.

But it will be Archana who will stand by Purvi. And she herself will be left with nothing but sorrow in the end. I fully understand Archana's condition as a mother. But does Arjun /DK who have become so brave suddenly care for this?

Originally posted by: luvly

very true...I dun think Archana was wrong anywhere yesterday...wen she did one gud thing, that is supporting Purvi n slapping Punni, we were all praises for her, n now one slap n all the praises hav turned nto complaints...

Why??? Don't parents hav a right to question their children...n wat Archana did was so realistic...it really happens...wen people see something which they hav not thought of in the wildest of their dreams especially from the person u trust the most, such reaction is expected...

n why are we forgetting that Archana slapped herself too...it was not that she only slapped Purvi...

n the biggest fact, that she will be the one who will Support Purvi in all the obstacles coming her way...

n the reason she said that Purvi spoiled everything was also justified, coz now Archana has lost her only chance of getting the love of her daughters, the trust Manav had shown on Purvi...n wen in anger, a person doesn't actualy mean wat he says...

Archana was not wrong...coz I know that she will go to Purvi, bring her back home...hug her, cry for her n also, listen to her...n most of all, will support her in these tough times!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: archverma10

Luvly I am looking forward to this too.. We all know, love and empathize with what Archana is going through and her dilemma. Again...please please understand...we are not angry with Archana's anger towards Purvi or slapping her...that is justified. We are taking issue with her not giving Purvi a chance to even speak, only worrying about what Manav/Ovi think...and the biggest thing:: throwing her daughter out in the middle of the night without so much as a glance. No matter how angry you are at your child or how justified...how can u not give a thought to their safety?? Much less yell at them to get out knowing perfectly well she has nowhere to go...Unlike Ovi or Teju there is no Savita Aaji...Baaba...Sachin dada...etc. And to Gmanda, going out for meetings or to meet Arjun is not comparable. She can always and does come home after that. Going out into the night becaus you are no longer welcome in your home and have no where to go is another matter altogether.

As a mother yes---she has every right to question her child, slap her, get angry with her, silent treatment etc. But that mamta goes both ways too...if you love your child you should listen to their side of the story whether you believe it or not...and always protect them...no matter how angry you are with them. Not kick them out without so much as a backward glance. In this part at least Archu was very wrong.

in Yesterdays Episode ARchana IS 100% Correct Becoz she Saw PUrvi And Arjun together.. ND when she asks PUrvi Where has She went .. PUrvi teels LIe that She Went out FOr Somework.. After that only Archana SLaps PUrvi..: Archana was HUrt to the Depth That She Slapped Herself too.. only a Mother Knows How it Feels IN THat SItuation.. How culd she talk to purvi When she has hurt her.. Archana Needs some time to Understand Purvi.. Everyone Pointed the FInger At Archana's Sanskar.. SO how culd Archana Stand BY purvi Wen she feels She was left out in her Sanskar's.. So Archana DId THe Right Thing by SLapping PUrvi As Archana IS IN Position to ANswer to AAi, MAnav and OVI..every Time Archana STood By PURVI and Fought wid PUNni, aai and OVi.. SO what Would She Answer to them ..

Originally posted by: vijaya13

in Yesterdays Episode ARchana IS 100% Correct Becoz she Saw PUrvi And Arjun together.. ND when she asks PUrvi Where has She went .. PUrvi teels LIe that She Went out FOr Somework.. After that only Archana SLaps PUrvi..: Archana was HUrt to the Depth That She Slapped Herself too.. only a Mother Knows How it Feels IN THat SItuation.. How culd she talk to purvi When she has hurt her.. Archana Needs some time to Understand Purvi.. Everyone Pointed the FInger At Archana's Sanskar.. SO how culd Archana Stand BY purvi Wen she feels She was left out in her Sanskar's.. So Archana DId THe Right Thing by SLapping PUrvi As Archana IS IN Position to ANswer to AAi, MAnav and OVI..every Time Archana STood By PURVI and Fought wid PUNni, aai and OVi.. SO what Would She Answer to them ..

Originally posted by: vijaya13

in Yesterdays Episode ARchana IS 100% Correct Becoz she Saw PUrvi And Arjun together.. ND when she asks PUrvi Where has She went .. PUrvi teels LIe that She Went out FOr Somework.. After that only Archana SLaps PUrvi..: Archana was HUrt to the Depth That She Slapped Herself too.. only a Mother Knows How it Feels IN THat SItuation.. How culd she talk to purvi When she has hurt her.. Archana Needs some time to Understand Purvi.. Everyone Pointed the FInger At Archana's Sanskar.. SO how culd Archana Stand BY purvi Wen she feels She was left out in her Sanskar's.. So Archana DId THe Right Thing by SLapping PUrvi As Archana IS IN Position to ANswer to AAi, MAnav and OVI..every Time Archana STood By PURVI and Fought wid PUNni, aai and OVi.. SO what Would She Answer to them ..

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Dear Vijaya, Archana is right in being angry with Purvi but she should have given Purvi a chance to explain. She definitely should not have asked Purvi to leave the house in the middle of the night when it was raining.

I understand your opinion at that time she was not in a postion to think what is right what is wrong any mother in that situation would do the same.

many people blaming archana By opening the tread opposing only archana thats wrong

yes..you are right. me too angry with her for not even listening a single explanation from Purvi.
and you are right about she's the one who breaking all the relationship for the ungrateful son sachu.
But what archana means by saying u ruined everything was Purvi has made something that make things from bad to worse..like adding fuel to the fire.
We have witness how Ovi, Teju and Savita hate archana..and now, they will hate her more because of Arjun-purvi relationship..especially Ovi maam.

Dear Archana, Jahnvi & all other friends..I wanna share my thoughts on this:

I really do not feel that Archana has done something wrong with Purvi. She is her mother and she has got this minimal right to be angry with her. Archana has never asked Purvi to leave the house (as per I know - I may be incorrect though), she just told not to show her face again. Now, though she has told this out of her anger, she really didnot mean it - infact no mother really means so.

Now, she slapped Purvi. She not even listened a word from Purvi. What Archana knows is partial or half truth. Purvi has got enough chance before. Though she cud not get support from MrAK, still she cud share this things with her mom. Purvi was blaming Arjun for not telling ovi the truth. The same thing is also applicable for her as both of them (Arjun & Purvi) did not find the right time to disclose. Still, I do believe, there were many occasion when Purvi cud think to tell this to Archana. She has made her step back by thinking how wud Archana react if she cud know the truth. But Purvi never thinks what will Archana do if she knows it from third party or if she knows later?????

Now, Archana & her kids shares a very sensitive relationship where a small touch can break her entire initiation & will drag her to the beginning. She is not definitely accountable to Ovi for Purvi Arjun relationship, but definitely she is accountable for her statements which she has made in front of everyone. Moreover, Archana has confidence on Purvi more than anything else ( more than her self believes), so she is natural in her own way..