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ameilia

@ameilia

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Posted: 13 years ago

ok guyz i read the written update and it said how Archana said that Purvi was the one who ruined everything.is she for real?I mean she is the one ready to break her marriage for a selfish son like Sachin but now suddenly Purvi has ruined it.sorry Archana u r the one who ruined all the relationships urself.When she found out abt her daughters then it was all abt them and that is understandable.But how can she expect Purvi to tell her the truth when she was the one always talking abt how much Ovi loves Arjun and bringing it up in each conversation she had with Purvi.Today she didnt even let her explain herself and she of all ppl shud hav given Purvi a chance to explain.She was boosting the other day of how Purvi is her pride and Purvi has sanskars etc.She shud have atleast hear the gurl out.She told her that she didnt want to see her face or sumting like that.That wud have hurt Purvi that much as no matter how much Archana tells Purvi she loves her it wont change the fact that Purvi was adopted.Purvi when she found out that Archana had kept the secret of Teju and Ovi frm her she said how she felt like she was an orphan.Purvi loves Archana a lot but by telling her that she ruined everything and that she didnt want to see her face that is very much like throwing Purvi out even if she doesnt really mean it.Now i think that Purvi mite leave the house as she feels hurt and now when Archana finally hears the full story will start the rona dhona until Purvi is back home.I kno that Archana was hurt and when u r hurt and angry u tend to say things u dnt mean but that doesnt make it ok to even say them especially if u dnt giv the person a chance.

Coming back to my main point Archana has claimed how Purvi has ruined evrything but i think she is the one who is ruining it all on her own.Her real daughters hate her and wont accept her as their mother,she has a son who is selfish and wants to break up her marriage,a conniving,evil,witchy MIL and a henpecked mommas boy of a husband who thinks that she is after money.All she has is Purvi and her mom.Purvi has always supports her mother and took care of her.Ovi,Teju,Sachin and Savita can insult her all they want and she wud tolerate it but now when she feels betrayed by Purvi she starts blaming her for evrything.All i am trying to say that she was in a similar situation with Manav and Shravani so she shud have atleast get to the bottom of thing before jumping to conclusions and blurting out things that are hurtful to someone especially even if that person isn't to be blamed.

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Jalkaur

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Posted: 13 years ago

I have not watched the episode but read the update. I do feel that Archana should not have slapped Purvi. Purvi is an adult and she did not do anything wrong. Archana kept asking Purvi questions but did not even give her a chance to explain. Its all about what Manav will think of her, and what Ovi would think. I agree that Archana needs to sit and think before she reacts. She gave in to Sachu so easily thinking if she does what he wants, he will love her. You can't buy love that way.

Sachu needs to move on his own or go live with Shravani his real mother, he is old enough now. I am sure Shravani is not sitting waiting for Manav. Ovi needs to grow up. Teju seems somewhat sensible. The only person I feel bad for is Purvi. Poor girl.

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soapwatcher1

@soapwatcher1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ameilia, yes, she did say that Purvi had ruined everything for her. I am mad at Archana too, she threw her daughter out of the house without even giving her a chance to explain. If she believed in her parvarish she should have known Purvi wouldn't do anything wrong.

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archverma10

@archverma10

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Posted: 13 years ago

😡Ok I just watched...for the first time...the scene of Archana/Purvi and I am so pissed off I can barely see straight. I am totally disgusted with Archana's behavior. I can understand the anger towards being deceived but HOW DARE SHE????????😡

What will she tell Ovi????? What will she tell Ovi????? Crying like a child in her mothers arm and saying Purvi ruined everything for her???? As if she is some pariah or stranger on the road????? 😡

Those of you who are Archana lovers and take issue with me remember this...I am Archana too (and I mean that very literally),,,,and she is the reason I started watching the show in the first place. I've always loved and defended her...but not today...by God... not today.

Wrong is wrong and right is right. Archana's concern for Ovi and what she will tell made me sick to my stomach. Watching that poor heartbroken girl go out into a rainy night like that and this idiot female didn't even bother to care???? W*F???? She is a child and your daughter for Gods sake!!! I don't care how hurt you are...how could you do that???? You just totally negated any good thing you did in defending her...And u didnt even give her a chance to utter a word much less explain!!

First and foremost this is what hurt me the most: your actions today made you no better than Savita because u proved today that you think the same: Purvi is an orphan whom you did a favor by taking in and raising. Archana is not herself?????? Well neither am I today after this and this post proves it!!!!

Archana had better redeem herself In a good way. And quick. Because after what I just saw for the first time I am literally ashamed to be sharing a name with her.

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FastFuriousgirl

@FastFuriousgirl

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Ameilia, yes, she did say that Purvi had ruined everything for her. I am mad at Archana too, she threw her daughter out of the house without even giving her a chance to explain. If she believed in her parvarish she should have known Purvi wouldn't do anything wrong.

I am also mad at Archana ... purvi was the one to think about her family when Archana was down she went to manav to let him help Archana ...

As Archana threw her daughter out of the house it will have a negative impact on Purvi ... knowing that Purvi herself is adopted it will feel like thousands of blades cutting through as the person you least expect it from ...

I do not know my gut feeling is that since Purvi left in tonight's episode something will happen to Purvi and everyone like Arman and DK as well as AK will come looking for her but they will not find her once they understand she is gone

Another thing is that i feel Purvi will meet with an accident with Soham's car as well

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GManda72

@GManda72

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am surprised that after Archana 's spirited defence of Purvi in front of the whole world yesterday, still she is being blamed for reacting this way! Even yesterday, after the whole fiasco, Archana came to tell Purvi that she is with her. Forget about all previous opportunities, even yesterday Purvi could have told her , but she didnt! If that is justified saying that Purvi was scared then so is Archana's reaction to what she percieves as betrayal of faith.

When Purvi scolded Archana for keeping teju's relation a secret, Archana explained and then apologized. She was right in saying that when Arjun got engaged to Ovi, why did they not tell the truth afterwards? When archana asked her many times in the past that if anything is troubling her, Purvi denied it. Now Archana cannot even question her and NOW she is blamed for not listening to her. Archana is right! After all the drama, Archana has been left looking like a culprit and she should not even react? Sulochana could say those words because she did not actually see Arjun and Purvi together, Archana did. So she reacted. And does she not a right to think of herself for even one minute? Then she becomes selfish? Wah! As thogh Purvi can make no mistakes.

But it will be Archana who will stand by Purvi. And she herself will be left with nothing but sorrow in the end. I fully understand Archana's condition as a mother. But does Arjun /DK who have become so brave suddenly care for this?

Edited by GManda72 - 13 years ago

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ameilia

@ameilia

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Posted: 13 years ago

Archana really loves to play Mahaan.She was asking herself how she cud be wrong as if she is God and can't make any mistakes.She was questioning how she wud tell Manav and Ovi two ppl who in three months will be out of her life for gud.Purvi who has always stood by her and is the reason she actually met Ovi-Teju bcaz of the court's decision which was caused with the help of Purvi is being told to leave.Archana says how Ovi already hates her and how she wont want to see her face.Well Archu the gal already can't stand the sight of u so why worry?Archana is worried for the ppl who have always insulted her and cazed her pain rather than trying to hear the truth.She knows that keepin secrets are not gud bcaz they will eventually come out but Archana of all ppl shudn't talk abt keepin secrets as she wud be at the top of the list for best liars along with Savita.

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GManda72

@GManda72

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Posted: 13 years ago

Sorry, but Purvi has only put Archana into more trouble by getting the court decision. Archana has to endure all that hatred.

And bringing Archana's troubled relations does not in any way justify the fact that Arjun and later Purvi kept their affair secret for whatever reasons. And letting everybody get the wrong impression. All those guts which Purvi showed for Archana , some of it she could have shown for herself too.

If Purvi's behaviour is justified then so is Archanas.

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ameilia

@ameilia

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Posted: 13 years ago

At the end of it all it wud be because of that same court decision that will unite Arman.Archana has faith in Purvi but that doesnt mean that Purvi cant make mistakes she is human after all.Archana is treatin Purvi this way bacz she wonders wat Manav and Ovi will think of her.Purvi was slapped at the party but Archana didnt mistreat Ovi. But at the end it will be Archana on Arvi's side which clearly shows that she was wrong in treating Purvi this way.Her support shows how she will understand Purvi and stand by her.

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soapwatcher1

@soapwatcher1

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Posted: 13 years ago

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GManda72, yesterday's spirited defense does not give Archana the right to throw Purvi out into the night today. Her anger at being kept in the dark is warranted but her asking Purvi to get lost was unkind especially as she did not give the girl an opportunity to explain.Archana if she believed in her parvarish should have known Purvi's character, should have at least accorded her a chance to talk.

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