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.Harshita.

@.Harshita.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

i agree wid ur post...Tej was really vry rude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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reachanupama

@reachanupama

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Lets not forget that Teju and Ovi have been brought up by their aaji whose single mission was to instill hatred for Archana in their minds. What I did not like was Archana came into the Deshmukh's house quite defiantly holding Teju and Ovi's hands but where did she let all that vanish. Why could she not tell them that it was Manav's great idea to hide the fact that Archana was their mother. She was not at fault . Archana should have called up Manav and asked him to be present while this was happening. Why does she want to handle everything herself. I had high hopes that Sulo would give Teju a piece of her mind but was very disappointed.

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deejagi

@deejagi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: reachanupama
Lets not forget that Teju and Ovi have been brought up by their aaji whose single mission was to instill hatred for Archana in their minds. What I did not like was Archana came into the Deshmukh's house quite defiantly holding Teju and Ovi's hands but where did she let all that vanish. Why could she not tell them that it was Manav's great idea to hide the fact that Archana was their mother. She was not at fault . Archana should have called up Manav and asked him to be present while this was happening. Why does she want to handle everything herself. I had high hopes that Sulo would give Teju a piece of her mind but was very disappointed.

Even I am disappointed with Archana. Why can't she open her mouth at once? How long she will live for others like savita, Sachin etc. Its not only she who is deprived of teh company of her kids but even the kids have missed her. Why can't he tell openly that savita was the reason for her to sign the custody papers and now sachin is the person she is undergoing trial for divorce.

I just hope that Sulochana will give a piece of her mind to tej today before she leaves...

Jaya

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

I know everyone here is for Purvi, but the fact is that Purvi doesnot belong in the family...the matter involves the immediate family members, including Sachin, because Sachin is the son of Manav's brother (a blood relation) and was taken care of by Archu and Manav from beginning, Archu even went to the extent of sacrificing for the baby Sachu...sorry, I have nothing against adopted kids, but Purvi was not even in the picture before the leap...and if Teju considers Purvi as a friend, even then she doesn't have a reason to interfer within a personal family matter/...I know of course, this angel will never be considered, but it isn't just that easy to accept a 'new' human being as a 'relationship' as was shown by the Cvs for Manav and Purvi...my POV of course...

Edited by Kalapi - 13 years ago

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nelum

@manan_virika

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

The only way Purvi could be part of their family is by marrying Soham. I am waiting for the day Purvi becomes her bhabi then she can take revenge on them. And also show Savita that she is not another Archana.

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s.pip23

@s.pip23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

While it was completely stupid to say that to Purvi, since she knows Archana waaay better than Tej OR Ovi (even though it wasnt their fault that they didnt know) - i can see where Tej is coming from. And what is the big deal, Tej basically said Archu is not her aai, so it shouldnt surprise anyone that she said Purvi isnt family.

And in my opinion, she was muuuch kinder to Purvi and Sulo than she was to Archana (obv because her main anger was towards Archana). But if you noticed she sat down and cried and spoke normally about how she missed her mom all these years and how she considered them family and they kept this secret from them. And then she got up and got really mad when Sulo started saying Archu is mahaan.

When Purvi tried stopping her at the beginning she was okay to her I felt. And Sachin wouldnt have counted, because he is family. Manav's brother's kid is still part of the family - so it wont be as correct to say you arent part of the family. He's still Savita and Damodar's grandson and Manav's nephew.

While the not-family comment was uncalled for, it wasnt the worst thing that Tej did.

And the worst part is, however sad that episode made me feel, if I was in her position, I ouwldve been that mad. If i was brought up saying my mom abandoned me, and then I spend 3 months with my mom and she showed no special attention or didnt tell me after she knew all this while that I was her daughter. And everybody hid it from me, I would be mad and think she didnt like me.

So while I dont think she's right (only because I know what Archu was going through), i can understand Tej (mroe than Ovi).

Grrr SAVITA!

And I'm sure Tej will be angry at Manav and Sachin as well. Hopefully CV's dont make a mess and show her being okay with them! 🥱

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s.pip23

@s.pip23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi
The only way Purvi could be part of their family is by marrying Soham. I am waiting for the day Purvi becomes her bhabi then she can take revenge on them. And also show Savita that she is not another Archana.

That can never happen 😕 Archana is purvi's and soham's mom. Well she did adopt Purvi but still. Its her daughter and if Sachin is her brother then DEFN soham is her brother!

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Kalapi
I know everyone here is for Purvi, but the fact is that Purvi doesnot belong in the family...the matter involves the immediate family members, including Sachin, because Sachin is the son of Manav's brother (a blood relation) and was taken care of by Archu and Manav from beginning, Archu even went to the extent of sacrificing for the baby Sachu...sorry, I have nothing against adopted kids, but Purvi was not even in the picture before the leap...and if Teju considers Purvi as a friend, even then she doesn't have a reason to interfer within a personal family matter/...I know of course, this angel will never be considered, but it isn't just that easy to accept a 'new' human being as a 'relationship' as was shown by the Cvs for Manav and Purvi...my POV of course...

Thanks Kalapi...You saved me a post..

I totally agree with what you have said and Nirvan too..

Its not about Adopted child..

It is about Deshmukh family. Manav-Archana Twins and Sachin as Archana raised Manav's nephew. Tej's reaction was totally normal for a child to be abandoned by mother and lived 18 yrs of life being raised by father who tried to be mom-dad with the help of Aaji.

Ofcourse this forum is pro Archana and Purvi...But fact remains that Archana gave 2 hoots abt her own kids and than dealt with her guilt by adopting Purvi..Good she was able to pour all that Mamta on Purvi..Purvi is luky but Soham, Tej and Ovi were not that lucky..Sachu even got bit more than those 3 kids...

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Old username: salvatore-nina

@FireLordPhoenix

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

@arshi_arvi - Purvi won't marry Soham because when she comes to know about him, she'll consider him her brother.

I think Purvi should have just kept her mouth shut. She is part of the family but at the moment Tej was very angry and she wasn't going to listen to reason.

I was disappointed at Tej when she showed up to Sulochana's door and just glared and then created a scene in Sulo's house. She should have just grabbed her things and left. I know Sulochana and Purvi were demanding an explanation but sometimes it is better to say nothing and just leave.

Someone mentioned how Tej said Savita was like their Aai, so then why did they feel the lack of a mother's love all these years. I wonder the same thing. Tej has constantly said how Manav filled that absence left by their mother, so why gripe about not having your mother in your life?

And Archana was also a disappointment. When she grabbed their hands and dragged them into the room, I thought, yes finally Archana will give it back to Savita. But no such thing happened. The girls and Savita didn't even let her get a word in. And why does Savita constantly treat Manav as a child? I am just disgusted at the jealousy she feels when she thinks Archana will take her son away from her. I know people assume almost every mother is a little jealous of her son's wife, but Savita goes beyond her limits. Manav is in his 50s, isn't it time he makes his own decisions? And why doesn't Manav ever fight back Savita? I know he wants to defend Archana but then Mahaan Archu gives him a signal that he shouldn't talk and then goes on to bear insults. Mana shouldn't care about what Archana says anymore because she's always giving him mixed signals. He should go to Sulochana and demand an explanation from her why Archana is doing this. Sulochana wanted to say many times the truth about what Archana is doing, but Archana made her also promise🤢.

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: salvatore-nina
@arshi_arvi - Purvi won't marry Soham because when she comes to know about him, she'll consider him her brother.

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Someone mentioned how Tej said Savita was like their Aai, so then why did they feel the lack of a mother's love all these years. I wonder the same thing. Tej has constantly said how Manav filled that absence left by their mother, so why gripe about not having your mother in your life?

Someone trying to be a Mom to an orphan and being successful is, two different things...the truth is even though a single parent (or a Grandmom) tries to fill the vacuum left by a mom/dad, no one in reality can fill it in the truest sense...if it was - couldn't mom or a dad become dispensible like most relationships, right?...ask a child who doesn't have a mom or a dad and he/she will say, yes, the living parent was successful, but still...sad truth about life dear...

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