Originally posted by: prasad1991
mods look at the way varun has taunted & made sarcastic comments on kool aunty & varsha aunty
these 2 ladies r not at all like somebody else who types that my age is so & so ... & so give me respect for my age
my aunties dont at all unnecessarily bring age factor in between just to play emotional blackmailing & symapthy gaining ... still they r being taunted at
just bcoz i am a guy ... a member has found it very convenient to say that i am demeaning women characters ... it is very convenient to portray a guy as a male chauvinist under the name of mahila mukti
in the thread which i created to condemn against calling ,me a male chauvinist ... i had clearly stated that the posts & views of the very women of this forum were extremely sadistic , regressive etc etc against shravani ... some female mods were highly silent about it & some were actively participating in it
so now why a hue & cry is being made ... & my thought r being camouflaged under the name of women demeaner
had i been posting against savita then these same members wud had danced by keeping me on their head
such a high hypocrisy & double standards ... or shud i even call it low & cheap standards
how easy it is to portray a guy as a women basher in general if he says something some selected women
& THIS BEHAVIOUR HAS BEEN DEPICTED IN PR ITSELF
pr was the first show to depict that in today's world even husbands & son in laws r been tortured ... sulochana never raised her hand on manjusha but slapped manav thrice & now even his nephew ... that gradeless woman never slapped her bahu but always slapped her damaad because there r no laws for exploiting ur husband or damaad yet
i just hope these ardent sulochana fans dont take inspiration from her in their real lives also !!!!!
1 member constantly points that i post violance against women ... i read so many posts which were saying that sulo shud had slapped sacchu with her sandals ... & even she shud had slapped manav
now wasnt that violence ... how can people even say that a woman who is living in manav's house ... eating , sleeping , urinating , defecating in his house ... & then she shud slap him & his nephew with sandals ???? huhhh ??????
To the Mods,
I sincerely request that you take whatever action you deem necessary with regards to Prasad, because he is instigating tension and negativity in this forum. I'm speaking about his perceived problems with me.
Please read the sections @bold in particular.
Here he is referring to me, yet he doesn't have the decency to refer to me either by my real name or my username.
First @bold...the reason why I have to mention my age is that I am a respectful person, was raised to respect all people regardless of age, so I don't appreciate being disrespected.
I'm not so weak that I have to mention my age as a means of emotional blackmail. I don't blackmail people at all, and certainly not emotional blackmail. I'm not a desperate person.
I also do not need sympathy on the forum. I have enough friends here who understand me and support me in all circumstances, so sympathy is not something I need, at all.
Second @bold...Where have I ever said that this great Mr. Prasad is a male chauvinist?😲 I have been asked on two occasions to not read between the lines, (though I was not doing that at that time). Here, Prasad is reading between the lines and assuming things then he accuses me of something I haven't done. Why didn't he ask me if I was calling him a male chauvinist and if I said yes, then he could berate me. But don't assume something (which is wrong), and then get all upset about what didn't happen!
My finding the abuse and degradation of women offensive...is that wrong? I am a woman and find such actions hurtful. I don't support abuse of any king to any gender...male or female. Would Prasad like a man to talk about his mother the way he speaks about Archana, Sulochana, and Poorvi?
Would he like it if a man suggests physical abuse of his mother? Would he like it if a man said he would want to stuff anyhthig up his mother's orifice? I would think not. So don't do so to others, real or fictional. Your thoughts and views are a reflection of who you are as a person.
Third @bold...Prasad should refrain from lumping a group of people together and assume things. Not everyone wants any character to be abused, whether emotional or physical. I'm one of those. I've never supported abuse of any member or character.
I was one of those who was extremely upset with the member who said that Manav and Archana should urinate on Savita, should spit on her etc. Prasad can check my post in that thread if he wants to see the facts.
Prasad should be the last person to talk about hypocrisy and double standards. What he needs to do is point out members posts to you the Mods, say what offends him and why. Don't generally accuse members and then he doesn't even have the decency to refer to them by name!
I have not responded to Prasad's post for some time now, yet he keeps referring to me over and over again, as Jia has pointed out he has been doing to her. We try to stay away, but he keeps referring to previous posts and ancient tracks (e.g. the Shravani track), to try and make a point.
He needs to know when to stop.
Two wrongs do not make a right, so if the negative things that were said about Shravani were wrong, (and by the way, let me point out that I was not an active member then and did not participate in those threads, in case Prasad wants to assume wrongly again), if these Shravani posts were wrong, then similarly these demeaning posts against Archana and Sulochana are wrong also!
Here, let me inform you the Mods (and Prasad as well), why I posted those posts after the warning was given (that Prasad has referred to in his post that I've copied here).
When I'm going through a thread, I read from the beginning and respond whenever I see a post that I wish to respond to. After responding to that post, I return to that page and continue reading the posts. For example, if I'm on page 9 and respond to a post, after posting my response, I return to page 9 and continue from there. I don't read the other posts on the last page before returning to page 9. So in Prasad's thread that is being discussed now, I posted those 4 responses before noticing the Mod's warning about not posting more responses in that thread.
So, unlike what Prasad has said about some members ignoring warnings and rules, I did not ignore any warnig or rule. I saw the warning after my comments had been posted. Unlike Prasad, I have a deep respect for rules and regulations.
Thanks in advance for reading my comments and I hope they clarify any problems you may have with any of my posts regarding this matter and you will understand my problems with Prasad.
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