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bips

@bips

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

I don''t even have words enough to sputter in rage at the absolute nonsense archu was sprouting, trying to blackmail manav into falling on his knees again ...

Did any of it even make any sense ? ... what pavitra, pyaar aur aatma ka rishta she was talking about ... the same aatma ka rishta compelled her to drag him to court for fraud ???
... What about the utter rubbish about how the parents relationship has eclipsed the husband-wife rishta ... I usually admire people who have the ability to focus on themselves as couples rather than just parents, after kids are born ... but what awful timing ... You don't evoke individual love when your child is dead ...

Only thing archu cared about was manav should be here for her ... HER ... HER ... Only HER ... no thinking about the little girls or thinking about let us grieve together for a life lost ... NOOO ... it was all about why manav is not here for their love-shove, like they are some teenage couple ...

And archu refuses to fight for her kids ... Again ... she is more concerned that manav thinks badly of her rather than wanting to part of her children's life ... what kind of a mother is she ? ... btw, did she apologise for soham ? ... becuase all i heard was her begging manav to not blame her ... because in her mind she is not at fault ... she did not say forgive me, she said don't blame me

Awful dialogues, pathetic attempt at blackmail and emotional attack ...

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@cs-07

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Posted: 14 years ago

bingo!

reading the posts are exactly spot on with what i am thinkin watching the utter crap.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ok here my take on todays episode :

I would term it as SELF OBSESSED ARCHANA . I was thinking of making a seperate post but I will not as bips did it and she has spoken very very correctly about all what Archana did in todays episode .

She was trying to regain emotional control over Manav . Just like the 3 month stay , she was using shakkar philosophy . Buttering him up .

I am sorry to say , but Archana is a pathetic mother . She is disinterested in her own kids . Her unborn was promised to Varsha without even asking Manav , Sohm when he was born was lent to Varsha for indefinite periods of time till fyi Varsha fled with him forever , and She does not mind if she loses Ovi Teju .

She will file case against Manav for chawl wallahs but NOT for Ovi Teju . THAT much Archana is disinterested in the kids . The chawlwallahs mean MORE to her than her kids .

I am Worried about chawl wallah's bachas she had said .How true . She proved it today .

Do not Ovi Teju need a mom who wud fight for them like a tigress ? Did not Soham need a mom who wud have clawed her sister for him ?

What have the poor children done to deserve this ?

I can totally understand where Manav is coming from . Death of baby and the marraige NEVER remains the same like before . The two individuals who gave birth to that baby don't remain the same so how can the marraige be the same ?

The way Manav tossed and turned in his bed thinking about the safety of his kids and dreaming about Varsha returning to emotionally blackmail Archana into giving up even one of the twins ...was so NATURAL .

His dialogue to Archana ...I am scared u will destroy them with ur mahaanta .

His dialogue ...I have come here for THEM not you .

Go do Court Case . Try claiming them in court .Will fight you .

How Archana BROKE her marraige with her own two hands .

How she went away from her husbands heart .Oh How .

Dharmesh did NOT engineer the kidnapping of Soham .

Neither did Savita .

Dharmesh did NOT ask Archana to file case against Manav .

Neither did Savita .

These were Archanas karmas alone .

And she was more worried about being blamed UNFAIRLY by Manav from HER POV ...U can take the babies , do whatever , just don't BLAME me for Soham she said .

Don't blame you ? Then WHO should Manav blame ? Whose Sister was Varsha ? And who gave her the baby ? And WHO loved her more than her own babies ?

I wish Manav had proven her an unfit mother in court . I would have preferred that .

What hurt Archana was the fact that Manav did not once ask HOW R YOU .😲 You have changed . You did not onceask about ME . This .That .

Was he expected to ? Lady , a baby has DIED from his POV ! R u ok in the head ?

U seriously feel a man will LOVE U LIKE BEFORE after u try to prove him a FRAUD and an embezzler In court ???? And After his Baby DIES due to ur stupid mistake ?

WHO gave Manav the fear and message that SISTERS r more important to u and ur priority than ur babies ? Archana !

Frightened out of his wits , Manav is clutching his babies and going to Canada coz this mad woman and her mad philosophies frighten him .

Is he to be blamed ?

The Canada returned Kids will be shown as SPOILT and Archanas adopted Kid will be shown as the best behaved , best educated kid .

The CVS will vilify the West to glorify Archana .

Don't Kids who r Raised in Canada behave nicely ? And Are ALL kids raised in India excellent only ?

This is the supreme height of the MAHAANTA MESSAGE of this serial ...when it is time to fight a court case thisArchana does NOT do it , but she does it for RANDOM people .

And ALL her rubbish behaviour will be glorified by showing her adopted Kid is BETTER than her own kids .

To make Archana mahaan , foreign countries and their culture will be vilified . Poor Manav who is rightfully pissed will be made to look like a fool .

This is my assumption .It has not yet happened but I think it will .

I have not still understood what Archana wanted . She looked so HAPPY to lose all . Her saintly smile sickened me .

ATMA KA RISHTA ? NO RISHTA CAN SEPERATE US ? NO PAPER CAN SEPERATE US ?

She had told exactly same words to Shravani . No paper can seperate us .

Whose ATMA was she joined with when she was proving him a FRAUD by sitting with his enemies in the court ?

If CVS want to redeem Archana they better show REPENTANCE . SOUL SEARCHING . Not such subtly arrogant MAHAAN dialogues hogging self glory .

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576259

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Posted: 14 years ago

i wud had totally liked & appreciated ... IF MANAV WUD HAD DONE BIG TAMASHA OF ARCHANA & SULOCHANA IN COURT IN FRONT OF BIG PUBLIC ... shameless women

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bips

@bips

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Posted: 14 years ago

That what truly sickens me ... that saintly smile, like you said ... In her mind, she is still the wronged party ... in her mind, her good work for the chawl has been misinterpreted by manav ... in her mind, she is being unfairly blamed for soham's death

She actually wants Manav to ask "how are you archu darling ?" ... Is she out of her freaking mind ? ... you have just lost a kid and all you can think about is sulking because your husband is not panting after you like a young boy in love ?

Somebody should put a halo on her head ... she was giving such a "check me out, how awesome i am " look ... look how morally superior my sanskars are

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bips
That what truly sickens me ... that saintly smile, like you said ... In her mind, she is still the wronged party ... in her mind, her good work for the chawl has been misinterpreted by manav ... in her mind, she is being unfairly blamed for soham's death

She actually wants Manav to ask "how are you archu darling ?" ... Is she out of her freaking mind ? ... you have just lost a kid and all you can think about is sulking because your husband is not panting after you like a young boy in love ?

Somebody should put a halo on her head ... she was giving such a "check me out, how awesome i am " look ... look how morally superior my sanskars are

She needs to be told ...GROW UP .

Only two things matter to Archana

1] Emotional hold over Manav where he should pant after her like a teenager

2] Sulochana

Bas . NOTHING else , and todays episode clinched it . She was unhappy that Manav did not ONCE ask about HER . The babies or Soham was not even in her head .

Then at a point in the conversation she got RILED coz Manav spoke curtly about SULOCHANA"S BRINGING UP OF CHILDREN .

She cud not bear it and she tried to fight him on THAT ONE . Say whatever u want to me , not to MY MOM .

But the babies did not matter .

Manav is RIGHT . She wud distribute the rest of the babies too like pedas and burfis to needy ones .

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: prasad1991
i wud had totally liked & appreciated ... IF MANAV WUD HAD DONE BIG TAMASHA OF ARCHANA & SULOCHANA IN COURT IN FRONT OF BIG PUBLIC ... shameless women

Sulochana has done so many tamashas in front of Manav's chawl ...on Satyanarayan pooja day by slapping him , on the day Archana ran away from mandap ...truly Manav shud have done big tamasha in court and describes these two ladies in his language and POV to the court .

THis is SECOND death in Deshmukh family and they needed this public shaming .

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sushkita10

@sushkita10

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Posted: 14 years ago

@ kools di i want to say CV already make archana MOST HATRED CHARACTER in PR if they wanted to glorify the character they can show archana and manav 50/50 responsible for soham.bt they potray with their best effort to butchered the character and make responsible 100% archana for soham.so how cv saying this damaged character as MAHAAN😕ARCHANA how hatred pers in PR we can see it in every thread most harsh and condemning word used for archu and sulochana.may b its was cv's intention.NO LEAD character in any ser never b so condemned like ARCHANA its credit goes to CV👏👏even some one saying she is SEX-DRIVEN woman who make manav dadi dont know in any forum so mean and harsh word been used for lead character😲i think ekta should show archana's terrible death it would b better atleast ppl can b mentally free frm this horrible and hatred chracter and now they will show ashna-manav relation so it would b easy for CV to enlightened manav character[bc of his wife death he is in relationsip with someone else].there is my another intention if archana would b death ankita can b free frm been a mom of five adult 😆

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: poas
@ kools di i want to say CV already make archana MOST HATRED CHARACTER in PR if they wanted to glorify the character they can show archana and manav 50/50 responsible for soham.bt they potray with their best effort to butchered the character and make responsible 100% archana for soham.so how cv saying this damaged character as MAHAAN😕ARCHANA how hatred pers in PR we can see it in every thread most harsh and condemning word used for archu and sulochana.may b its was cv's intention.NO LEAD character in any ser never b so condemned like ARCHANA its credit goes to CV👏👏even some one saying she is SEX-DRIVEN woman who make manav dadi dont know in any forum so mean and harsh word been used for lead character😲i think ekta should show archana's terrible death it would b better atleast ppl can b mentally free frm this horrible and hatred chracter and now they will show ashna-manav relation so it would b easy for CV to enlightened manav character[bc of his wife death he is in relationsip with someone else].there is my another intention if archana would b death ankita can b free frm been a mom of five adult 😆

poppy u r misunderstanding the CVS .

This is their formula glorification . They r NOT butchering Archana dear . Just be patient for few days and u will see the spoilt kids returning from Canada , a helpless and harassed Manav and a fulfilled Archana with a well raised kid .

Balaji Productions LOVE their female Leads . Its the MALES who r battered .

Btw Poppy , She will look beautiful as mom of 5 adults and I really really ADMIRE Ankita for taking this risk as the role demands it . She has the makings of a TREND SETTER who is FEARLESS . I give her a thumbs up for that although Im not a FAN . I am among those who never mind if actors put on aged make up to essay a role . They r ACTORS and they shud do what role demands . Ankita proved it . U shud be proud of her . U mark my words she will come out FINE from this .

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Superb acting by Manav...👏

Archana the drama queen doing every thing in her power to do emotional atyachaar to throw a guilt trip including those tears, throwing her body on Manav to make him realize their rishta-romance-physical relations all why because now she realizes she has lost the control she had over him...The emotional control...

She does not understand Manav is worried-concerned abt his children and not her...For crying out loud he lost his son and now does not want to lose his twin daughters either and here Archana is making it all abt her..She is the last thing on his mind right now...

Thought you came for me...Bhai kyon????? You are still alive and still stubborn as a mule..not realizing the extent of damage you created woman..

She took her husband to court and filed a case for aire-gaire chawl walas but she does not want to even fight for her daughters?? waah

Good riddens...She did not show a single moment of offense or upset that manav was asking to take their daughters away from her...Calling her unfit mother...That should anger her right but no emotions for that...😳

She was giving him lecture on their PR of 6 yrs..Now he sees her as a murderer of Soham and not a WIFE who loved him...

Why should her love be more important when he lost his son due to her stupidity?? Is he supposed to worry how she is doing at her wonderful mayka..

I was sickened not only by her saintly smile but was grossed by her throwing her body on him to try that manipulation...Than pulling back just to make him realize what he would miss if she went away from his life...

This whole track is build up to make Archana mahaan yet again with raising an adopted girl to be sanskari but we all know she will have the same social skills as Archana...ruining many lives but the kids raised by Manav in canada will be obviously spoiled rotten kids...

Why westerners do not raise good kids? only kids in India are good people? Seen more the other way around...All EK and KJ movies show westeners raising faltoo children...

SUperb acting by HT...Loved the bedroom scene where he was tossing and turning in so much pain and anguish over the whole issue..than nightmare abt Varsha begging for one of the twin girls to Archna and she is handing one over to Varsha yet again...Look on varsha's face as she walks away with the lil one...Which father would trust his wife after losing his child?

Archana had promised their first born to Varsha within the first trimester w/o consulting her husband...2nd child Soham was practically given to Varsha to raise and now lost due to Archana's stupidity in letting psycho sister have it again..why should he trust his wife with the remainin twin girls????

Let archana go fight him in court and I want to see the izzat aarti of Archu and Sulo both in front of all strangers...then they will know how it feels when one gets humiliated time after time...How it feels to lose a son or a child..Sulo has not lost any child...her son is alive...

Its Savita who has lost Sachin and Manav who lost 2 kids one already dead and Soham god knows if he is alive or dead..

Manav is right and this is a short lived glory for hinm...Because Archana will be mahan as soon as the leap is here..

BIPs thanks for the topic...I totally agree...

Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago