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Tanyaz thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

Archana was wrong in the party to give the child to Varsha .Like Satish she was also fooled in believing that varsha was cured .She never wanted to give Soham away for good but made the mistake of givng the child in the party ...The result of which was that Sloham died ,...

Even satish was happy in Varsha takingg care of Soham ...
Neither satsih or Archana had any idea that Varsha ahd managed to fool the specialists for one full year ...
In my opinion losing her son is a big enough punishemnt itself and Manav i s wrong in taking the other girls away forever ...
Speciall ywhen he himself was so ready to give away Soham for his own nephew ...forever ...not just for a few hours in a party ...
Anyway , this is my opinion and this is what I believe in ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Sowmya and bips


Just see that scene . Archana was LEAST interested in Ovi and Teju being taken away . She was looking hopefully at MANAV's receding back . She wants HIM . Totally in love with HER . Like BEFORE . POORANEWAALA MANAV .😆😆

This is now CLEAR CUT .

What I simply do not Get is ...Why did it not STRIKE her pretty head when she did the court case that she may lose him emotionally ?

Why did it not strike her lovely head that if she defies him on Soham issue it MAY RANKLE as he really really has made it abundantly clear that he does NOT trust Varsha ?
You know that's what I don't get either. She was cocky when she filed the court case that whatever happened, Manav would always think of her as his world even if she destroyed his. But it didn't work out that way. She knew that Manav was going away from her after the court case and that their children were keeping the family from breaking at that point. Even if she didn't have any special maternal feelings for the kids, she shouldn't have lost them if she wanted to keep Manav. Especially to Varsha when he expressly forbade it. That's common sense. Well, maybe too much sense for Archana to understand.

I agree totally with sowmya that ONLY Manav is thinking of the kids . He is in a frozen zone and a haunted man emotionally , but he is thinking of their SAFETY .

What SAFETY ? What he saw in the nightmare . Varsha returning , telling Archana I am sorry I LOST Soham , U have 2 babies , gimme one or I may go crazy and Archana forgiving her and giving .

Archana's boundless love for her sister has finally ETCHED itself in Manav's brain . He is now AFRAID of it . He is fleeing to a foreign land , far from Archana , before a FOURTH DEATH occurs in his family .
Yeah, Manav the father is finally here. Though among Archana and manav, Manav always seemed to be the better parent. From when Archana was pregnant with their first baby and he told her not to do hard work like carrying bucketloads of water and she just laughed it off; to the effect of losing their first baby on Archana and Manav; to the possible loss of their second son. Manav's always been more sensitive to his parental side than Archana's been. That nightmare of his could very well have been true; that would have been perfectly in character for both Archana and Varsha. It's good that he's finally understood the danger his children are in as long as Archana remains attached at the hip to her family; and leaving the country to keep them safe.

His bro Sachin , the Miscarried baby , Soham , now perhaps one of the remaining children .

Someone will get at them . Manju , or Varsha or that kameena Dharmesh . One of Archana's baggage .

Is he so wrong ?

I feel he is completely justified .

Sowmya those dialogues by Archana ...I know U will be the BEST DAD , r put in by CVS so she can lash righteously at him later , watching the BARBAADI of the spoilt children .
I think that's what will happen from EK history, but that would be so unfair. This is not going to be a cakewalk for Manav, he's not jumping with joy that he's finally away from Archana. He's in pain as well, but doing the right thing for his children. They can instead show that the kids all grow up to be good people who love their dad, but wondering about their mum and why she's not part of their family and going in search of her. The love triangles and quadrangles with Manav's daughters and Archana's adopted and all that crap can still be shown; why show them as spoilt as well. That's unnecessary and unfair.

She peels vegetables with that taut jaw and firm don't care attitude ...LET HIM GO . And its supposed to be sumthing great .

I hope OVi and TEJU BLAST her later for giving them up so easily when Archana's Purvi will bag DK's son and Archana will support her over the twin who will fall in love with DK's son [ My assumption ]

Just like the chawl case , Archana will side with someone else against her own daughters .

I am NOT blaming Purvi here , the child is not at fault and the story has not even started . But I will feel very bad for Ovi Teju .
I think they'll show that one of the two girls and Purvi will both fall for the same guy, and this guy will love Purvi. But being Archana's sanskari and mahaan daughter she will sacrifice (and force the guy to marry) so that Archana's real daughter can have him and everybody can know just how good Archana's sanskaars are and just how bad Manav's.

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Posted: 13 years ago
Off topic, Kool di y did u stop writing ur chronicles?? It was nice..
It worked as my stress buster for a while😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rash2222

no im not saying she is involved in dat but my question is y savita is not bothered about her daughter now for whom she wanted flat y she not tagging vandu along wid her now... first word wat savita always say is me... she is selfish and cares about money ad her luxuries


Look , Savita is greedy and likes the good life , but I will not blame her about Vandu at least at this point .

What can she do at this point ? Decisions and choices were taken out of her hand long back by Vandu herself when she opted to marry that horrid man Ajit .

Savita told her hundreds of time to COME BACK . She was willing to take responsibility of her and her granddaughter . This Vandu JUST did not listen .

Savita went on helping her as much as she cud in her own ignorant , uneducated way . She gave Vandu presents when she became rich .In poorer days she used Sachins insurance money and satisfied Vandu's saas's demands so daughter cud be happy .

She befriended Rasika when she became rich and tried to keep Rasika KHUSH So Daighter wud not be troubled . Savita personally NEVER liked Rasika .

For Vandus sake she danced like prostitute in Rasikas party in her poverty days .

She was ready to give flat to Vandu and was coaxing her son to do it .

That deal fell off coz Archana refused to give the money as she found out abt Ajit's plans .

What more can that ignorant woman do ? Vandu is in an advanced stage of marraige now , she has a kid and it is HER wish , decision and option NEVER to come back and NEVER to leave Ajit .

Even here she is not visiting maayka often . She hardly comes .

What more can savita do before daughters obstinacy ? Her place , in the Indian sense , is with her son ! So she is going to Canada . Its not just greed . She also has no choice . She is old , she needs son to look after her ,Daughter will not come to look after her as per Indian tradition ...her saas will not let her .

I dont fault Savita here .
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Posted: 13 years ago
after her first child death archana never forced manav to forgive varsha it was his own decision and when it comes to your child u never see will it e childish or it will create tamasha ur child is ur first prioirity... in my opinion both r equally responsible...
archana is very regretfull dats is very well seen when she say ... y didnt trust manav she is really feeling bad ... no mother wants to harm her child...
during adoption case it was not archana it was savita who instigated... first in d office den when archu was getting soham ready and couldnt attend sacchu ad he goes down crying den savita again tells manav see ur wife doest care for sacchu...archu was never in favour of giving soham legally to varsha
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Ankifan

Off topic, Kool di y did u stop writing ur chronicles?? It was nice..

It worked as my stress buster for a while😆


may complete it ...😆😆 ...thinking . I may show Bhavna's ghost talking .
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


may complete it ...😆😆 ...thinking . I may show Bhavna's ghost talking .


An idea...you could do baby talk of Soham. I think that will be interesting. Pavitra Rishta of his Aai-Baba with constant interventions by Varsha bhooth. 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


may complete it ...😆😆 ...thinking . I may show Bhavna's ghost talking .

Continue it😆.. It was really coming out well😊.. U can as well write chronicles of Satish..
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz



But Tanya, Satish is not Soham's parent. Archana is. Satish is Varsha's husband and he's partly responsible for Varsha's antics, not completely coz Varsha is an adult. Soham is a child and not in any shape to decide or defend himself. That's where Archana and Manav come in. I'm not a mom yet; but I know I'll be responsible for my child(ren) when I have them. Who I choose to leave them with while I work, babysitters or relatives; their schooling or whatever; they will be my responsibility. Not my sister's , not my mom's, not my friend's. Just mine and my husband's. If I found that a relative or a friend was sick, I would keep my children away from then even if there was no direct danger to my children, because they would my responsibility. Until they can take their own decisions, they depend on me to take decisions for them and to keep them safe; and I would not give that responsibility to anybody else unless I absolutely had to. I think that's where we differ; while you think everybody's responsible for Varsha being loose in the streets and hence Sohams' kidnap, I believe that only Archana and Manav can be responsible for Soham's well-being, in this case, it is Archana. Of course, it is possible that Soham was kidnapped by Dharmesh or somebody else for ransom; that would be nobody's fault. That's not the case here; Archana went against Manav the father to personally entrust Soham to Varsha who had a history of obsession and kidnap with him. Would any mother do that? I dont think so. Of course, you're entitled to your opinion and I'm to mine. And I respect it too 😊

Edited by sowmya_jairam - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago
Its Not a question of loaning for few hours and forever .

What is a man supposed to do when the wife tells him I SIMPLY cannot manage ur kids ?

They r men . They come home tired from a days work to hear this rubbish daily , of course they will snap .

He did not oppose her even for a minute when she stopped it dramatically due to Sulo's advice . Infact he felt rather RELIEVED that at last she was showing some normal reactions .

Everyday he came to see his kid being loaned , wife making excuses , wife firmly telling him I cannot manage , kids rightful place is with Varsha .

That trial and error frustration period for Manav about HOW to deal with his wife is OVER .

He decided to keep his kids and kick wife out . Now even the passive aggressive techniques wont work . Now she has NO control over ANY part of his mind .

At that time he fell for her passive aggressive tactics .

This time he bluntly decided to fight it out in court .

Good for Manav . He sHould take the kids away as his fears r really not unfounded . If Varsha really comes back as per his nightmare , Archana indeed MAY give baby up just like he visualised .

Thers NO CHANGE and NO repentance in Archana . She made him lose FAITH in her .




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