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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: bips

I just don't understand archu's attitude towards the kids ... Fine, they wanted them to seperate but couldn't they have shown archu and manav fighting in court over kids and manav winning ... that would be more believable ... What is this "i know, let them go" nonsense ?

What kind of a mother sits at home peeling vegetables while her children are being taken away ... All she cares about is her imaginary pavitra rishta and getting back the "puraane" wala manav


She still believes that she is being misunderstood ... and once manav realises his mistake he will come running back to her ... till then she will sit with a saintly smile and wait for him...

Seriously, what rishta ? She seems to be least bothered that her one child is dead, others are going away forever, her husband is leaving her and her marriage is over ...

btw, does anyone find this dialogue irritating - "main jaanti hoon ki aap se zyaada achcha pita mere bachchon ko nahin mil sakta"
She has said this dialogue at least four times yesterday ... Hello! he is the ONLY father they will ever have ... the way she says it makes me think that she advertised for, interviewed and employed manav as a father


btw, enough of these foolish K-sisters ... Does anyone give a damn about VANDU ???



LOL!! for the underlined parts. She probably did, and found out that the few who came for the interview ran away within the first few minutes. JK!

And I hope Vandu and her daughter are taken to canada as well, somehow. She deserves a good life out of all the people in the show, and she's the only person who won't even complain rightfully of the abuse and injustice done to her in fear of burdening others. She may be meek and not actively trying to improve her life and getting out of her marriage, but she's fundamentally good and deserves a fresh start and a good life. Or I hope Satish marries her, if Satish can love Varsha and Vandu can love Ajit, then they will be so happy with each other. This way, Vandu's daughter will also get a (decent) father's love.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rash2222

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no offence to anybody in my opinion both are equally responsible for dere child's death...

I agree
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Sowmya and bips

Just see that scene . Archana was LEAST interested in Ovi and Teju being taken away . She was looking hopefully at MANAV's receding back . She wants HIM . Totally in love with HER . Like BEFORE . POORANEWAALA MANAV .šŸ˜†šŸ˜†

This is now CLEAR CUT .

What I simply do not Get is ...Why did it not STRIKE her pretty head when she did the court case that she may lose him emotionally ?

Why did it not strike her lovely head that if she defies him on Soham issue it MAY RANKLE as he really really has made it abundantly clear that he does NOT trust Varsha ?

I agree totally with sowmya that ONLY Manav is thinking of the kids . He is in a frozen zone and a haunted man emotionally , but he is thinking of their SAFETY .

What SAFETY ? What he saw in the nightmare . Varsha returning , telling Archana I am sorry I LOST Soham , U have 2 babies , gimme one or I may go crazy and Archana forgiving her and giving .

Archana's boundless love for her sister has finally ETCHED itself in Manav's brain . He is now AFRAID of it . He is fleeing to a foreign land , far from Archana , before a FOURTH DEATH occurs in his family .

His bro Sachin , the Miscarried baby , Soham , now perhaps one of the remaining children .

Someone will get at them . Manju , or Varsha or that kameena Dharmesh . One of Archana's baggage .

Is he so wrong ?

I feel he is completely justified .

Sowmya those dialogues by Archana ...I know U will be the BEST DAD , r put in by CVS so she can lash righteously at him later , watching the BARBAADI of the spoilt children .

She peels vegetables with that taut jaw and firm don't care attitude ...LET HIM GO . And its supposed to be sumthing great .

I hope OVi and TEJU BLAST her later for giving them up so easily when Archana's Purvi will bag DK's son and Archana will support her over the twin who will fall in love with DK's son [ My assumption ]

Just like the chawl case , Archana will side with someone else against her own daughters .

I am NOT blaming Purvi here , the child is not at fault and the story has not even started . But I will feel very bad for Ovi Teju .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Sulo was asking YEH KAISA RISHTA HAIšŸ˜‰šŸ˜‰šŸ˜‰

Archana answered PAVITRA RISHTA
so true...its her patented dialogue.. 🤣



Manohar did Chamchagiri of Sulo . TUM YEH KYA KEH RAHI HO SULOCHANA . APNE AAP KO DOSH DENA BAND KARO . Guys , actually , Manohar badly wanted to go to the LOO .
🤣🤣🤣 OMG going to loo...kool di where do you get such ideas from.🤣



Varun has saved his step mother . Dharmu has sent gundas after her and is saying DARN IT .šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†LOTUS EYED JEEJU SATISH has gone to save her .

di ure so observant...really his eyes resembled lotus...kamalnayan bichara mrugnayani ke chakkar mein phas kar ghar barbad kar liyašŸ˜†šŸ˜†




I am sure after the leap it will be shown that Bhavna DIED . Just like the mysterious JAIPURWALLAS . It will be shown thus coz after that conk on her head with a statue by bahu , she was never the SAME again . Her brain wobbled . And wobbled . And Fyi she had a STROKE and died . MAYBE THE STORY.
oh no...what will happen to your chronicles...death would be so early...abhi toh bichaari bhavna ki age hi kaya ya!šŸ˜‰ But your post mortem report was amazing...HILARIOUS🤣🤣🤣




What I wanna know : WHO will SACHU marry . I vote for Vandu's ANGEL . She shud be a lovable shy desi , the type who NEVER goes to discotheques but only temples with fresh marigolds on every TUESDAY to ask for a PATI . Btw , marraige between Uncle's son and aunt's daughter is ALLOWED in Marathi caste.
WHO has been finalized as VANDU's daughter .
ye lo..abhi toh bade bhi nahi hua aur apne puri ki puri ram katha suna di !🤣🤣

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Manav was giving the child away legally , forever ...he was seconds away from signing away the boy ..At that time it was Archana who stopped him ...

At that time Varsha was not even declared mentally sane ...
still he accpeted the option of legal adoption in seconds ...
Both Manav and Archana have been unfair to Soham ...



Tanya, while it's true that both manav and archana were unfair to soham, i think overall the major responsibility lies with archana. Correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't Archana go along with the legal adoption idea of Manav's? She didn't stop him when he agreed to legally give Soham away; she did that later during the signing of the legal documents. At that time Manav didn't stop her and insist on Soham being given to Varsha, he was relieved that Archana stopped him in time. This time, Manav expressly forbade her from letting Varsha near Soham, several times. He actually took Soham away from varsha when Archana gave him to her the first time in the party. But Archana asked him to let Varsha take Soham based on manav's trust on archana. She didn't give credence to manav's role as Soham's father, instead gave more importance to her role as Varsha's sister. In this case, she is wrong and the only one responsible for Soham's kidnap. If Manav had given away Soham legally and Archana didn't stop him, they both would be responsible. If Manav gave him away inspite of Archana's refusal, only Manav would be responsible. In this case, only Archana's responsible, no one else. Not even Varsha who's sick and needs treatment. Yes Satish and everybody else also has their part in it, but only Archana and manav are responsible for soham and his well-being as his parents; and Archana wasn't up to it.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


What I simply do not Get is ...Why did it not STRIKE her pretty head when she did the court case that she may lose him emotionally ?

Why did it not strike her lovely head that if she defies him on Soham issue it MAY RANKLE as he really really has made it abundantly clear that he does NOT trust Varsha ?




Very simple ... It never did strike her because he was her pooranewala manav ... the man who worshipped the floor she walked on ... the man who always ended up doing what she wanted him to do ... who always thought what she wanted him to think ... she has always been able to get her way - she tries her mahaan act, her i-love-you trick, her pavitra rishta patented dialogue, a couple of tears and manav is hopelessly lost ...

The worst part is that she is not a intentionally manipulative person ... say in the way of manjusha ... she is sort of a passive manipulator who has supreme confidence in her own righteousness, her smugness about her own moral superiority ... Her way is the right way and she can talk decent, honourable people into doing what she wants ... by guilting them, by appealing to their higher nature ... it is the chalu ones that trouble her
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rash2222

y everybody is saying she didnt file any case in d court... if she would have done wat will u all say den ... nobody saw savita's reaction after knowing she is going to Canada did she bothered to ask how will vandu stay here without me... ajit is such a terrible person now she dont care about her daughter... is she not being selfish here...i think archana is already on a guilt trip for soham's death... she has already realised her mistake and once a person realises his/her mistake den dey should be given one chance... didnt manav gave chance to varsha after her first child death she was equally responsible as dharmesh is so is manju ad rasika...

one more point i wanted to share ... fine on d party day archu did forcibly told manav to give her child to varsha ... manav could have opposed also and could have theratened her dat he will leave d party or something like dat ... he also gave d child simply little more pressure on archana could have stopped her from giving soham to varsha
no offence to anybody in my opinion both are equally responsible for dere child's death...


Arre baba rash , what to comment on Savita who has NO ROLE in this rift ...The Case and the kidnapping , in both she was not involved ...As far as her one minute screen presence goes , with that Dhun Dhun Tun Tun background music , its HAMESHA KA thing ...her greedy thought and that background music ...just like Damodar's Archana Jap and displeased look at Savita ...Why comment on these silly things when main interesting issue is going on ...

Hey guys . Sulo has got SOLID ...and I repeat , SOLID thappad on face by FATE for tomtomming about her great SANSKAARS and PARVARISH . All her 3 Betis r without husbands and ABNORMAL LIVES . At least the BAD Beta and BAD bahu r sticking together and r a family with their daughters .
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rash2222

y everybody is saying she didnt file any case in d court... if she would have done wat will u all say den ... nobody saw savita's reaction after knowing she is going to Canada did she bothered to ask how will vandu stay here without me... ajit is such a terrible person now she dont care about her daughter... is she not being selfish here...i think archana is already on a guilt trip for soham's death... she has already realised her mistake and once a person realises his/her mistake den dey should be given one chance... didnt manav gave chance to varsha after her first child death she was equally responsible as dharmesh is so is manju ad rasika...

one more point i wanted to share ... fine on d party day archu did forcibly told manav to give her child to varsha ... manav could have opposed also and could have theratened her dat he will leave d party or something like dat ... he also gave d child simply little more pressure on archana could have stopped her from giving soham to varsha
no offence to anybody in my opinion both are equally responsible for dere child's death...




- had she filed a court case, i would be cheering her and saying she is a mother. no one has the right to take away her kids ... but guess what ? She doesn't give a damn

- agree with the vandu part... why the hell is no one thinking about her

- manav did not want to forgive varsha at all ... archu talked him into it ... she hounded him and cried and cajoled him till he gave in

- he did put pressure on archu to keep varsha away from soham ... so many times ... did you see archana's body language ? It was always like 'how can you talk to my precious sister like this'

- threatening to leave the party or something like that would have been childish ... archana already made a big tamasha in the middle of the party among his business clients ... it is one of those situations when you see the other person is obstinate, you back down to diffuse the situation and talk about it later

- was manav at fault ? of course ... and he knows it ... that is why he can't sleep at night . becuase he knows that had he been more forceful and not listened to archana's whinings all the time, his son would have been alive. he can never forgive himself for listening to archana ... and he said so

- archana has not realised her mistake . not one bit . that is what irritates everybody . she is still saying manav don't blame me. she still thinks that she is misunderstood. after the incident , she has never gone and cried in front of manav and genuinely apologised ... she is too focussed on her pavitra rishta to care about the kids
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Posted: 13 years ago
Even during first time SOham adoption to SaSha, Manav was against it...It was Archana's convincing she could not handle Sachin & Soham...manav aap kuchh keejiye na...Finally Manav gave in...Again CVs proved her to be mahan by having her take credit for stopping that adoption @ the last minute as Sanskarki devi mata Sulo talked her to stop that nonsense..
Why did sulo not stop her abt court case?
Why did Sulo not stop her when Archu handed Soham to Varsha after Manav warning numerous times and forbidding Archu to let Soham near Varsha???
This time it is Archana who bares sole responsibility in letting Varsha have Soham and inturn possible death of Soham as she allowed Varsha in kidnapping...Accessory in kidnapping..
I think sometimes we mix issues when we want to lessen the blow on our favorite...Manav is not at all at fault this time in court or soham case..
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His fault is in pacifying his wife's behavior and obsession with ehr maika like a silly henpecked husband...never took a strong offense or stand...Never told Archu when she was wrong instead always first one to bow down and say sorry...Lead this woman to take not only Manav as a husband , his love, his family and finally their kids for granted..
It is not Archana's love for her sister, its the obsession and the invisible guilt-responsibility Sulo has put on Archana to take care of her siblings as mother...Constantly archu is putting her mayka over her own family...
Poor Vandu could have been saved long back had Archu opened her mouth and let Manav or Savita know abt the abuse she is going thru...But no Archana did not think of Vandu or her daughters safety...had it been abt Varsha or Vaishu she would have run and also dragged Manav saying "aap kuchh kijiye na" 😔
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
no im not saying she is involved in dat but my question is y savita is not bothered about her daughter now for whom she wanted flat y she not tagging vandu along wid her now... first word wat savita always say is me... she is selfish and cares about money ad her luxuries

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