Show Chat : 7th July 2011 - Page 22

Originally posted by: shootingstar27

rachu,give us updates na...online videos not uploaded yet😭

i don't watch todays episode.what happens.does our tyagi archu give soham back to drama quean varsha.

Shuridh I wrote a short update earlier in the same page.. 😃

Archu did not give Soham to Varsha.. Infact she acted smart and called Satish to inform about Varsha 😛

Divya deal deal... Me all happy 😆.. Omana also wants Soham so asked her to come here when she has leave and we can go there when we have 😉.. I know many here will join us... 😆

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

I was about to write abt the same..

Varsha is addicted to Soham like an smoker is addicted to cigarettes or alchoholic to drink.

There is no slow or gradual way of quitting. In both cases addicted has to go cold turkey. Than they follow 12 step program. First they need to admit to their addiction and wanting help. Counselling needs to take place to find out what makes them crave for a drink or smoke. In this case Soham. Which is Varsha's need for a child. But why Soham and not any other child? Million $ mystery. Varsha has alot to deal with from within working with Dr. a professional.

I am no expert but know this much Varsha seeing Soham twice a week or even twice a month is not a good thing right now. In past all 4 ArMan and SaSha are to be blamed for putting Soham in this type of arrangement-situation. Going forward Varsha needs psychiatric help-couselling to understand and accept her mental situation. Needs to understand and accept Soham is not her child. He is ArMan's son and she has no right on him. It was wrong of her to take and keep him for so long even though ArMan pacified her behavior. Satish needs to support her in that. Others should only do what is recommended by the psychiatrist. I can bet million $ that per professionals Soham visiting Varsha at this point is harming and hurting them both than helping.

ArMan should enjoy and protect their child by taking care of him. Varsha changing her position from Mom to Mausi is going to take a while and not anytime soon. None of the family member is an expert so they should not do their own cockamime way of treating Varsha. No need to feel sorry or guilty period unless there is a reason for it. Let SaSha handle Varsha's condition. Let Joshi family take care of that while Deshmukhs handle and enjoy their own family.

I am against Archana taking Soham to Varsha or Varsha coming to Archana at times to visit Soham at this juncture as it will not help but hurt this lil innocent child.

BTW What Varsha is going thru crying, not eating and all is her way of grieving process for losing a child. She thinks she has lost her child which is not true. She is lost mentally. not thinking intellectually or logically. Her thinking process is scewed. So she needs help.

Varsha di im glad atleast somebody felt the same lik me about

thanks for update rachana.after reading your update.i am now starting to hate vinod & ajit.both are disgusting.
archana again gives soham to varsha.i don't like it.
manav in a dilema again he has to chose betwen work & love.

Originally posted by: LovePRSoham

Shuridh I wrote a short update earlier in the same page.. 😃

Archu did not give Soham to Varsha.. Infact she acted smart and called Satish to inform about Varsha 😛

how cool😎 archu acted smart😎😍

Rachna,

Originally posted by: LovePRSoham

Divya deal deal... Me all happy 😆.. Omana also wants Soham so asked her to come here when she has leave and we can go there when we have 😉.. I know many here will join us... 😆

guys no more sharing😡😳 im a very possessive girl😳😛

Originally posted by: mijanur

thanks for update rachana.after reading your update.i am now starting to hate vinod & ajit.both are disgusting.
archana again gives soham to varsha.i don't like it.
manav in a dilema again he has to chose betwen work & love.

Originally posted by: Ankifan

guys no more sharing😡😳 im a very possessive girl😳😛

me, Rachu and Omana thats all.. v 3 will shower all love to the baby, let the onscreen parents do wat so ever they want, go zombies if they want who cares, let soham be happy with us😛 😍