New Manav or Old manav

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Posted: 14 years ago
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new Manav in my opinion is definitely gud one...
1. has becum bolder nd richer
2. his love for archana is still d same
3. has becum stronger nd much more open
4. has all qualities whch we wanted frm him.
5. takes stands for his wife when he feels dat she is nt at fault
Bt... i have sum concerns tooo
1.Is he trying too much?
2.has he becum much more ambitious dan he shud be?
3.Of course he luvs archana a lot, bt d quest frm archana was valid dat THEY DONT HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO EVEN EAT TOGETHER?
4.In search of long term and materialistic happiness, is the small happiness of ArMan getting lesser?
5.Of course dere is no problm for now, bt if dis continues, isnt dere chance of differences btw dem?
Over all, New manav is good bt if he gets more ambitious, then i m seeing dangere bell...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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agree with u and new manav is good but he sems to be over ambitous which will definitely be a danger to armaans pavitrarishta
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think he has become ambitious for the right reasons- he is not after money the way Midas was, nor does he want money and position to stroke his ego, rather he wants to earn money so that his family should never have to bend in front of anyone or compromise again- the way it happened when he lost his baby. His desire shows his love and care for his family, and his willingness to give them a good life. He is not really money minded, if you think about it.

I think he is definitely not overdoing anything. He is trying to spend as much time with Archana as possible despite his professional commitments- he came to her Aai's b'day, he picks and drops Sachu to school, he is involved in all the household affairs and is not cut off from his house- he knows what is going on in his house and so on. He is balancing everything very well.

Yes, he has some time issues cos he is a busy man and has to do lots of work to keep up DK's goodwill, who gave him this job inspite of not having any qualifications. In that case I would expect Archana to be the better half and help in managing the situation- I would appreciate her more if she does that, cos marriage is all about complementing each other. It takes TWO to make a successful marriage. Even if they have less time, they can make their marriage successful if they are understanding and sensitive to each other. Quantity time is not as important as quality time.

DK and Ashna too are a couple who do not have much time for each other. But on the whole they are happy. Ashna feels momentarily at times that her husband does not view things in the same perspective as her, but she does not let it affect her marriage too much and handles things with maturity. If Manav and Archana too show such maturity in their relationship, they will also be happy.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Manav is so far so good, he's a matured person to make a healthy balance betn his personal and professional commitments, as he said this is the time to work, he needs to settle down in his career, maybe his goal is to start his own busn once he has earned enough money and for that he really needs to push hard and dedicate most of his time to his work. But the best thing is he is taking his time out for his wife and family , like he made time for Sulo's bday, pampers his wife and spends quality time with her when at home. He's doing these not only for himself but for his family as well so that they lead a secure, comfortable life.

nice topic Ali 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I believe there always comes a time in a person's life where they need to focus more on their career, give it more time. That's a test for the couple too, how they support each other. Manav is going through this time. So far he has been able to manage both sides well. I hope archana was a little more supportive instead of giving tanay all the time. It takes hardwork to earn money and it is a fact that u need money to live today. Manav learned it the hard way and let's hope archana understands this too.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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new manav...she luks more handsome ...nd he has now power ...luv him alwayz...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nt agree with u
bcoz its the tym for him to get pratical in lyf
small happiness matters a lott
but what abt big happiness which was going to come in their in the form of their baby but they lost it just bcoz they dont have money.. he lost everything on that day..
but today he have everything & even his love hvent been changed for archana its just tht he got busy but he still loves her alot & care for her which is most important bcoz he was totally shattered but today he have that confidence that he can do anythng for archana & can give her all happiness
it is not wrong at one point

money is as important as small happiness
u just think if manav still today did nt have these he cant be able to stand
he will be a shattered which will never give happiness to anyone whether i.e. archana or anyone

today they are happy just bcoz he has that confidence level that he can give all d happiness to his beloved wife archana which is more important..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i like old and new manav coz new manav is rich i also like old manav coz he was never late from work and Arman always used to eat together which nowdays happends but sometimes
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with all of you.. Everyone has its valid point..

I am not saying that new Manav is bad.. In fact i like this Manav.. BUT I FEAR THAT IF HIS WILLINGNESS TO EARN MORE MONEY GROWS MORE AND HE BECOMES OVER AMBITIOUS THEN IT WILL BE PROBLEM.. I think in futre track it will be shown that he has grown more money minded and thats what i fear.. At moment its perfectly fine with him.. He is perfect..

Regarding money is important or not.. Of course its very important.. Its necessity of life.. But its NOT MORE IMPORTANT THAN PEACE OF MIND.. Who is more happier ? One who earns crores and have no peace of mind or one who earns lesser but is satisfied with what he has and happy with his family..

The need grows with money.. Its important that one be satisfied with his situation.. And thats my fear bout Manav.. At moment he is perfect.. He has both money and peace of mind .. But what if THE FEELING OF MORE AND MORE GROWS IN HIM?? What if the peace with his family and him is lost ? Thats my fear that if he grows more and more money minded he might have fights with Archana and then there will be trouble..

May be i am thinking too much but its fine absolutely at this moment.. Hope it remains
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Posted: 14 years ago
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your fear is right bt the thing is manav is matured enough he will never b stupid like running after money.. He will never become mercenary.. He is not like dharmesh.. Earning is d necesity of today's life.. If we see satish he is rich from the beginning his character never show such a thing so as manav is also a very good human being. So your fear is waste..

But the main thing is we cant trust ekta she can do anythng with the character but if she has brains she will never show such a thing with manav's character.. Till then enjoy manav's new look, style, character..

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