All discussions regd Epi..keep here ONLY Note pg 63 - Page 108

Manav doesn't deserves to be lied to , not at all...Bu the should understand tha tArchana was put in this position by her mother ...Tha tArchu would never ever lie to him otherwise ..

Tanya @ slapping Archu Gosh wish he would do that 😆 but we all know Manav will never do that ..

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Manav doesn't deserves to be lied to , not at all...Bu the should understand tha tArchana was put in this position by her mother ...Tha tArchu would never ever lie to him otherwise ..

Manav always told Archana that he will always be with her and never leave her , but he did ...for a good one and a half month ..He was seen around in the city with another woman but he still did not call Archana .Archana was going insane with worry and grief ..

When he came back she even slapped him ...but then understood his majboori and forgave him immediately ...

What I am saying is that manav should do the same ...fine , slap her 😆 , scream at her ...but then try and understand her majboori and be angry with the person who put Archaan in this situation ...

Things do not always go as we want them to ...Here Archaan is making a mistake and she should be punished but the punishment should not exceed the crime because the person who would get hurt more than even Archaan herself will be Manav ...

And yes, you are right ...yu did say that under no condition should Manav get involved with another woman ...I agree

Hi Tanya Di,

I agree to your post, once Manav finds out that Archana hid this from him, Archana should be lectured very sternly, just how like Archana gave Manav a slap when he ran away. I personally don't think slapping is a very good way to handle things, either it be Archana slapping Manav or Manav slapping Archana but Archana should surely be scolded.

Even I want Manav to tell off Sulochana, but I don't think he will. He treats Sulochana as his mother, and he won't even scold her for leaving and forcing her daughter not to tell this news to him. Manav will never take action against Sulochana, despite him being slapped by her thrice. While I do wish for Manav to scold Archana, he should mellow down when he feels like it, and then tell off Sulochana

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Judging someone making a mistake and punishment both are extremely subjective. Who is to decide what or how many mistakes are to be forgiven and how much to punish.

Depends upon how much hurt and betrayal one gave and the capacity of the person who is bearing it. Someday kit becomes enough is enough and a lil thing can become a reason for something big.

Archana is so naive, Sulochana is only saying she'll meet everyone after a few days so Archana can keep her mouth shut. Sulochana is not being forced to live there, it is her choice to stay there and abandon her family. She is selfish and its a shame Archana can't see that. Archana can't even look Manav in the eye because she is so filled with guilt to lie to him, she is not doing the right thing by keeping this from him. Manav should blast her when he finds out the truth, Archana is wrong to continue keeping this a secret from her husband and sisters.

Kool, I also feel angry at her for her foolishness bu tif manav goofs up his career then I think it is his fault ...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Exactly .

I don't agree that it is largely Sulo's fault and NOT Archanas .

Of course it is majorly Archana's fault too .

Who constantly kept her babies like disposable teddy bears and ran out looking for Mom ? Babies r ALWAYS with Varsha , Savita or Sundari . Do we do this ? Do we keep our babies and run around or do we run around only if it is possible ?

Manav cud have gone alone to search . Why Archana was needed ALL THE TIME on the roads?

Why was option not given To Varsha ? Tht u dont have babies so U run with Manav , I will look after my babies ?

Archana has come across as grossly neglecting her babies in her Mommy Love .

If U r only a Mommys little gal , why u married ? If u cannot grow up , dont marry ! Sit stand pee at mommy's diktats !

What goes for Manav goes for her too . He was supposed to grow up . Cut HIS mom's apron strings . Well he did . Should not that go for Archu too ?

So Manav should not be the Mamma's boy but Archu should continue being the Mommy's girl?

How can archu not be as responsible as Sulo? How old is Archu today ? 26 when married . one year divorce , remarried at 27 , ...4 year leap ...31 today .

31 year old woman is seeing with open eyes how much husband is running around for her mom inspite of having such a workload but is HIDING from him that mom is found ?

So when she wants she uses her hubby to run around for Mom but when it comes to telling him real facts about her mom she dumps him and listens to mom ? This is equally selfish as sulos selfsihness .

Archu is 31 . Shravani at 23 or 24 was supposed to show IMMENSE MATURITY .

This Archu who is 31 is supposed to be AAI and Tai of younger women and she does not know basic rules of sansar ?

If u MAA BETI only want to do some Khichadi all the time Why drag Manav in it then saying Manav aap kuch keejiye ?

The kasam given to MOMMY means everything , kasam given to Manav in marraige means nothing ?

Why was this question not put by Archu to Sainted mommy who is on a Money earning spree herself after making buddas around her bhikaari ?

People around her r going to NEWS CHANNELS etc , this lady is running with them to various addresses PRETENDING to search for Mommy when MOMMY DEAREST actually HAS BEEN FOUND ?

whats more ...Manav sees her OUTSIDE that OLD HOME and ASKS her WHY HAS SHE COME TO THAT OLD HOME . STILL she lies ?

How blatant a lie is THAT ?

Once trust breaks and u lose control , and things spiral out of control , u cannot judge if THIS MUCH will be enuf as punishment for Archu or THIS MUCH IS TOO MUCH ...It is as Varsha said , subjective .

She herself will push her Husband , madly in love with her , AWAY .

That said , I do NOT wish any harsh punishment for Archana this time .

I do not believe for a MOMENT that Manav will go in ANY woman's arms on the rebound for Archana's gross MISUSE of his trust in her .

if he DOES land in anyone's arms , its due to a carefully woven SNARE .

Those people came in his life due to Sulo only . He was Sukhi ...going to office , working hard , doing his work by himself . He did NOT NEED an assistant . Sulo pulled a missing stunt , Archana involved him in it and took away his attention from work by consatnttly barging there and weeping .

Now that her mom has been found HAS Archana relieved him of his tension ?No .

This one good opprtunity Manav got in life ...his sasural has SPOILT it for him AGAIN.

Archana is equally responsible for listening to Sulos nonsense .

Sulo was SO dedicated to her ghar sansar that she gave it top priority ...to be with Punni Ruchi , she took everyones wrath but tolerated Manju .

Has Archu shown one fourth of that decication to her OWN KIDS ?

She has given Sachu Soham scant importance .

This time I feel sorry for her , I dont feel like blasting her .She is foolish . But not Bad . She is going to pay for her foolishness by watching hubby slip from the hard earned ladder of success that he climbed with such mehnat .

100% agree Kool Di, especially at blue parts, I found it wrong of Archana to lie to Manav that she was going to the ashram. I do find Sulochana to be more at fault though because knowing that her family is still worried for her and is spending their whole time on just looking for her, she is just refusing to allow her daughter to inform everyone where she is. Very selfish lady😡

And why did Archana have to lie to Manav? She got emotional and hugged him, she wants to tell him the truth, so why doesn't she?

I agree also that Archana is neglecting Soham. Archana really is not a good mother to Soham. To Sachu she is a good mother , but not Soham.

Tanya Manav is not the type who will do one night stand with someone like Riya.

I no longer see Manav as naive, no one can be that naive that they can't see when a woman is coming onto them. Riya hasn't exactly been subtle about her motives, she wants Manav and she is making it known. This is not a lonely girl looking to make a friend. I am disappointed in Manav for not telling Riya he is not interested and is happily married to Archana, he is showing disrespect to his marriage by encouraging Riya

Marriage Vows have no meaning or importance and are thrown out in comparison to a promise made to drama queen of a mother for a baseless stupid reason. 😲