Originally posted by: omshreejaanu
Today's show proves one thing, Bhavna is a sophisticated n educated short minded person.
I am personally very sensitive when it comes 2 kids, being myself a person who has strive a lot to conceive so i know the value of children.
I hated Varsha for aborting the child without giving a damn 2 her husband n his feelings n without caring n bothering about the repercussions of her action.
It is equally true that the MIL was not a very easy person 2 live with. Varsha, too independent n too opinionated hated the MIL constant interference in her life n taking her pregnancy as an illness n going like a broken record, "dont do this dont do that", talking abt the baby on evry single occasion n on top of that her relatives whowud come n give free advice but even that, cannot justify wat Varsha did n as some of us have said, i accept, since Sasha were living with the parents, it was bound 2 happen n in a sense Varsha shud accept the grandma's concern.
It was also very understandable that Bhavna was hurt knowing about the sterility of Varsha which has happened only due 2 Varsha's irreparable blunder. Besides as Sawmya said she didn't get the time 2come to terms with the shock like Sasha had. Her insisting on the pota() at any cost yelling that Satish shud remarry if needed cud also b excused by the rush of adrenaline n outbursts of emotions at the realization that her dreams have been shattered.
But wat she said 2day was monstrous n so cheap. Such strong words coming from an educated person is very condemnable. She may not approve of orphan kids being reared as her grandchildren but shud she b so harsh n mean? Besides this is Sasha's decision. They r well off, if Varsha cant conceive n they want 2 adopt n give the care n love they have 2 an orphan craving for these basic necessities, why not? To hell with Bhava's pettiness n antic thought that she needs her blue blooded heirs 2 preserve her coming generation.
I'm waiting for today's written update, so I don't know what exactly happened. But seems like Bhavna was very mean about orphaned children, which is very, very wrong. Children are the most innocent beings with no malice whatsoever, and a form of God. That said, I think Varsha should give Bhavna some time to come to terms with the fact. If she keeps pushing her then it will only get worse. Bhavna has to be given time to mellow down first, and then talk to her about adopting. Or Satish-varsha should move out and live independently if they dont want interference. This is the same thing that happened with Savita that has come so far---Manav, Damo and Vandu kept pushing Archu in Savita's face without considering her own feelings. Bhavna probably has no rights since it's Satish-Varsha who have to take the final decision, but she does have feelings and as long as they all live together, those feelings have to be acknowledged. If Bhavna is the one pushing SaSha about "pota", then they can just tell her they're meeting experts for help on conceiving which should put her off for a while at least. Which, btw, they should be doing--taking the help pf experts I mean. Instead, they're telling her one day that Varsha cant conceive coz of her hasty mistake, and the very next day they are telling her they want to adopt. They need to give her and more importantly, themselves some time to think it over. Adoption is a very serious decision and responsibility, and everybody involved should be ready for it. Especially Varsha. I just hope Varsha didn't make the mistake of bringing a child home and Bhavna was hostile to the child directly.
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