Bhavna's obsessiveness about a POTA

We have been paying a lot of attention to Archu's, Vaishu's and Varsha's stupidity or whatever you may call it as a result of which Bhavna's obsesssiveness is completely ignored or forgotten:-)) I think her behavior yesterday and the last few episodes was shocking! PLEASE - I am NOTTTTTT supporting Varsha or her abortion - she is a first class jerk but Bhavna was plain disgusting. First her wanting a POTA - big deal, when I hear a WOMAN say that any resepct I have for them is wiped out, sorry. Then forcefully taking or trying to take Varsha to a Gyno. What nonsense. She has every right to request for a GRANDCHILD (Not Grandson) but no right to force it down their throats. And her main reason for worrying about this is because people are talking - she is more worried about people and society commenting. Disgusting is a mild word for her. 😡Wonder what I would have done if my MIL was like that.😃 And the way she demanded about wanting a Grandson, like you can buy him from a market! And last but not the least her telling Satish that he should remarry. OK, OK, that was a slip of tongue but hey she is an adult, and not a very young one at that - where is her control of speech and tongue?! She has every right to be upset at Satish and varsha for hiding the truth but she is plain obsessed - a complete psycho. Sorry, just IMHO.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

If bhavna was out of line than the act which was done in haste and impulse of aborting a baby w/o husband's consent or knowledge was darn right stupid and inhuman..Varshu never thought the worst possibility that can happen...How many people in both families she could hurt by this let alone Satish..

Bhavna may be over bearing but she had right to say what she did..Minusing abt remarriage..she admitted that it was slip of a tongue..

Sowmya jairam brought up a good point abt POTA...In english we say grandchild but in most of our mother tongue we do not have a word like "Grandchild" she Bhavna probably did not mean "BOY" as a gender...Possibly grandchild..I am going to give her BOD..

Satish handled his mom and supported his wife properly by admitting their faults..Bhavna will come around I am sure..

One does not know what they would do unless they are in that position..If Bhavna as MIL should not do this than Varshu as a DIL should have never done what she did..

I would not ever go abort a child w/o the father's consent PERIOD..

Originally posted by: prasad1991

in bhavna varsha relations i dont think bhavna was wrong anywhere .... she was always right & varsha always wrong
bhavna didnt like varsha in d start ... & she did try to stop sasha marriage but in decent ways .... & finally wen she had no choice she accepted varsha open heartedly & never did any politics against her
wen rasika had told bhavna about varsha's past ... bhavna didnt believe on rasika ... even though they were friends from so many years .... just bcoz ultimately rasika was an outside person bhavna didnt believe her & had faith in her own bahu
& wen bhavna believed ashwin .... i dont think she was anywhere wrong .... i mean any indian lady would believe her son in law rather than daughter in law ..... 1st of all son in laws are given more imporatance & moreover ashwin was in thier lives from some years & varsha was newly wedded
..... so wat was wrong if she believed ashwin
(not all r like stupid fool sulochana ... who didnt believe manav & spoiled her own daughter's life )

& wen bhavna realised her mistake she did apologise to varsha .... but varsha over-stretched the matters .... she shud have forgiven bhavna atleast for satish's happiness ......
but did varsha ever care for satish's happiness !!!!!!

& varsha aborted the child just bcoz she wanted to take revenge from bhavana !!!

Originally posted by: prasad1991

bhavana is not at all wrong .....

she didnt slap varsha .... she didnt give her bad foul abuses ..... neither did she bring her parents's sanskaars in between

bhavana has always been decent & y shud she suffer bcoz of varsha

Originally posted by: prasad1991

y cant she demand ???

a mother shud bear the pain while delivering her son ...... raise him throughout his life ...... make him a successful human being ...... & then leave the son bcoz of a whimisical bahu ????

she has full right to demand from her son !!!!!!