Heyyy nice funny post 😉 ... I was away (and still am 😆) yesterday! ... Missed it 😳. Hopefully tomorrow night will finally attend a "Total Indian Wedding" of a "True Grand SCALE" 😆👏. There are so many plans for me too in it 😳😉😆😊.
So Satish did come to know finally, and so he was able to analyze the Fatman 😆👏, but ofcourse, as always, the one with some sense. How unfortunate of him to get into such uneasy mess. It is good that he finally dissolved the partnership. Someone who is not faithful to his most important relations cannot be faithful to a business partner either.
So the fatman slept with the woman and didn't have the guts to accept the responsibility of a child which came with it?😕 The woman though, equally responsible in this, cannot be let go of the blame either. Very naive of her. I know some girls back in my university days, usually from Warsaw, who would end up pregnant by the 3rd year of their education, and had to leave their studies and end up working their lives out to raise the child and have some kind of life. It is not really so "attractive", the single mother scenario, as shown is stupid hollywood movies. It is a painful thing. Some women complain about the man for it, but I think that is very selfish of them. Did the man rape her? No ... she herself chose a low personality person, probably because he danced well? He was rich? He used to be the life of a party? Very cool? ... well you must pay the price for what you choose for yourself. Sometimes such men even make po*n out of the women they sleep with. Such men are always going to behave like that, and they are always giving out a fake message of "fun, social and high living" to all those foolish women who only go for whatever is shiny. I am sorry, but I cannot help but blame Madhuri for it more than I would blame the fatman. AS THIS IS What the FATMAN is ... it is his way of life ... but for Madhuri to claim a higher standard of morals, her choices should've been reflected in that ... there are atleast 2 good men for every bad man. I believe in this firmly ... a girl only needs to look properly and be near him enough (and rightly) so that he comes near too Smile, and he cannot deny if you are looking nice, and Madhuri is pretty!😃
Again very surprised to hear about Vaishali's rights! She have no rights because the previous marriage makes her marriage void? How can this be! She is not responsible, she did not know. The crime then is done by the Indian Judiciary aswell! Why did they enact the marriage? Was Vaishali's marriage not done with all the legal documents? If so, then every legal establishment which recognized and accepted the documents (signed and stamped it) must also stand trial for forgery. IF NOT, then Vaishali is not illegitimate. She is definitely a person with all the rights from the Fatman as he was the one who cheated her. Also, if Madhuri knew about everything, legally she is an accomplice. I don't know about Indian law, but were it Poland, then I can only see Vaishali's rights being much more protected than that of the Fatman and of Madhuri. No matter what Madhuri's personal thoughts were, she has certainly helped a crime.
I think Madhuri and Fatman, also Fatman and Vaishali were married inside India? This makes the case very clear. I don't know why they don't bring a lawyer. Or is it that there is no such law? If so, then it is very sorry for the Indian girls. Cheats will be everywhere, specially in arranged marriage circumstances where you always have more "perceptions" than "real knowledge" about the man. In such a case, how vulnerable all the girls become? How can this be tolerated? Please don't mind, I only wish good for you all ... after all I have a space for India in my heart ... I hope you know it.
Why should Vaishali or Madhuri become bondage to the Fatman for their children? Even if Fatman didn't care, they could always work and earn for them and their children. This is very shameful to become a slave to such kind of a man. How insane. The Fatman is not even a man he is a user, as rightfully expressed by koolsadhu, he is a dangerous person who much impregnates women, or just practices his lust on them. How can only live with someone like this? 😕 Why society will blame?
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I think even metaphorically a woman must not put herself through like selling herself to raise her child. It kills the child's soul, and no one deserves it. Even if the body dies, the soul must live, atleast this is what I can add to the discussion here 😉. In our belief, this is the way it should be. She must work hard, perhaps live with Fatman (who is afterall the father of the child, and husband too ), but she need not even consider selling herself in market for Varun. She must do everything, even give all her blood, but never sell her soul. If she sell her soul, it will never benefit Varun in the long run ... he will hate himself. So sometimes, even mothers must give space to fate after a struggle of life. This may sound controversial, but it is my thoughts ... 😊
Manav and Archana were behaving like children trying to get a few revenge on Fatman 😆😳. They are sweet little people with less brains 😆😃, and still some people (Vaishali) come running to them for advice 😊. No wonder Manav and Archana rush forward with their Mystery Advices 😆. It makes life so much adventurous ... so irresponsible ofcourse but so childish too ... somehow very understandable 😆😉 ... 😆😃 ... but not advisable or nothing that can be learned but only for the wrong reasons 😆
See you! ... I miss your thread, maybe will miss more as now is wedding time 👏😳. I hope my sister in law have a beautiful life... do pray too if you get time 😊🤗, you all are sooooooo nice and warm 😊
--------------------------------------------- Just came across this~!
Heyyy ... you know Lisa Ray?????... I read here: http://www.india-forums.com/bollywood/style-o-meter/18884-cover-lisa-ray-for-femina.htm#1396735
Here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lisa_Ray
She feels both Indian and Polish😳: http://www.telegraphindia.com/1050206/asp/look/story_4323775.asp
Her mother's name is Basia 😉. She is some girl fighting against cancer. But while I made a research on Indian customs before coming to India (the one where I learned the touching of feet ritual), I saw her name as a "Polish Indian" 😳. Her mother is a Polish woman 😊! ... lol ... very inspiring and strong woman.
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
