Kool's Commentary : March 3 PR

sowmya

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Damodar seems to LOVE Dharmesh . Truly . He claims he loves Manav but he cannot be compared to Savita on ANY level where LOVE for a child is concerned . People call Damo good but I find him very self absorbed to love ANYONE ...be it Savita , Manav , Vandu ..anyone . He only loves himself .

Damodar seems to love Archana though. Even more than Manav maybe, or maybe he loves ARMAN. But I never understood why-I havent followed PR from the beginning.

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sowmya

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I know he loves her a lot and all that but he gets angry very quickly .Archana sometimes foolishly says something that just makes him angry and he gets so mad , he leaves the house ..Remember the day she said ' I don't want to work but will do because we need money ' ..Uff , he left the house and came back so late .....

And then when he was convincing her to marry jaywant ...she was refusing , this man totally stopped talking to her till she said what he wanted her to say .... ...he doesn't shout or anything , he just stops talking ...Like what he is doing with his mother right now ...he just cuts off ( even if he thinks it is for their own good , he doesn't discuss) .

I think Archana is scared to upset him and somewhere a little scared also that all this ( his being with her ) is too good to be true ....This is all like a dream for her , even now .I have neevr seen her smile so much as she does these days ...

So what if he gets angry. Let him sulk for a few days if he's being unreasonable. In fact, someday she should get angry when he doesnt listen to her and give him bhaav. That will teach him and her. Maybe, since it is still in the beginning of their marriage, but I want them to be more open with each other without fear of offending the other. She cannot live in the constant fear that her dream will break or he will get angry and leave if she upsets him-that is unhealthy.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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So what if he gets angry. Let him sulk for a few days if he's being unreasonable. In fact, someday she should get angry when he doesnt listen to her and give him bhaav. That will teach him and her. Maybe, since it is still in the beginning of their marriage, but I want them to be more open with each other without fear of offending the other. She cannot live in the constant fear that her dream will break or he will get angry and leave if she upsets him-that is unhealthy.

Sowmya.. Archu is not a confident person at all. SHe is focused, loyal but confident, no way. And she is a conflict avoider. The only time she becomes a tigress is when her manav is attacked. I am still wondering how she is tolerating all this kichad on manav's reputation? She is very incosistent..

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

So what if he gets angry. Let him sulk for a few days if he's being unreasonable. In fact, someday she should get angry when he doesnt listen to her and give him bhaav. That will teach him and her. Maybe, since it is still in the beginning of their marriage, but I want them to be more open with each other without fear of offending the other. She cannot live in the constant fear that her dream will break or he will get angry and leave if she upsets him-that is unhealthy.

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you don't reall yknow their history , do you ??

After 15 days of mariage there was a misunderstanding and she left him ...as you said gave him some bhav ...never stopped loving him though and then tried to get back ...Since that day to this ..This girl has been running after this guy ...Till today she is the one who keeps apologising for not trusting him then ..even after doing so much for him she still keeps feeling guilty at the slightest given oppurtunity .

Their relationship is totally in his hands ...It will always go in the direction that Manav decides ...

Even the day they eloped, she was looking at Manav and it was only when he spread his arms and gestured her ' Now it is Ok to come to me " did she go running to him ...

he decided when they were to end it ( without even telling her ) and he decided when they were to start all over again ...

Getting angry with manav and giving him Bhav .....😆😆, that will be the day ...

Archana is a terribly boring person , never expect her to do exciting things like getting angry , getting jealous ...etc etc .....

I have totally given up on her eevr being angry at him properly .....how badly I wanted her to eb angry in the Shravani phase but I fell flat on my face...she just kept praising him ....😕

In fact it is pretty strange to see her smile and laugh like a little girl these days when she is alone with manav ....

Archana has major issues with low self esteem ....really really low self esteem ...It was like that right from the first show ...

even if she ( by mistake ) does gussa on him it is only to praise him , like ' Why are yo uso good or why yo udon't answer back ? ' etc etc ...🤔

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: goblue
All the sachai ki ladayi that is based on pack of lies is bound to boomrang and that is exactly what the trio deserves and now we can add the third sister too. They should get not the "fool of the day" award but "maha fool of the serial" award. Everything is just so stupid and dumb. May be we are stupid and dumb too to watch these fools. From now on I will clap for every dumb thing that will boomrang and can't wait for marwadin to do izzat aarti. I wish savita comes there too and then she can do bhanda bhod with FBD's hotel sagas. The two mothers will bring the truth out in a bid to save their sons izzat and we viewers will say'' FInally and end to this saga and have a restful weekend. I can have this fantasy, can't I?

Take Care.. Anjali

Absolutely . In my opinion ...........till Dharmeshs Sachhai comes out only those people shud be nominated as FOOLS who SUPPRESS Dharmu's SACHAAI and AID him . Madhuri shud be an exception to this as she is his LEGAL wife and has everything to GAIN by having Dharmu's good books . And THE STARS nominated shud be all those who do IZZAT AARTI of these fOOLS who aid DHARMU"s SACHAAI . Till this is done , CVS get NO message .😆😆😆

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I gave my vote to Vaishu for Fool ...but that is all my power in in that thread ( just that one vote ) .

Rest is up to the members ....It's their choice and it has to be respected na ...

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I gave my vote to Vaishu for Fool ...but that is all my power in in that thread ( just that one vote ) .

Rest is up to the members ....It's their choice and it has to be respected na ...

Oh yes . I just remarked in humor .

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Posted: 14 years ago

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That's Ok Kool ..To me the Fools were ...

vaishali , Varsha , Archana , manav and damodar .....

I voted vaishu because she is carrying the baby and she is giving promises to everyone to keep the secret .🤔

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I am shocked at todays development - CVs are packing off Dharmesh and hence Kudi to an abroad land?! wow! CVs are BIG time escapists. They are taking the most easiest route after people here kept rambling that they cannot make Vaishu go back to a bigamist.

But must say Madhuri is really too good, even at this hour she thinks about Vaishali. Dharmesh doesn't really deserve Madhuri at all. But if he can take her abroad then probably it would be good for Varun with the advanced medical help. That is *hopefully*. If they are packed off, then anyway they are not going to be shown further and all we can hope is that they are doing good. Especially Madhuri and Varun.

With this latest development, I really don't care about what happens to Vaishu. All she wanted was Madhuri out of Dharmesh's life. Never once she thought that it is she who is illegal wife and all rights as wife was of Madhuri's. Too selfish.

I really liked those lines of yours - "Then she can sit and do BHAJANS with Archana in a temple ." Agree!

Sheesh! What has happened between the cat woman and Marwadin ... Why Marwadin had to go this route?! Eventhough she saw Vaishu here and there with Manav and felt she is being lied on, but giving money to a chawl woman and asking her to report .. that was not a sensible thing to do. But again if Vaishu gets to listen to an earful, is going to be the outcome of all this, why should I complain.

The other day, as someone said - "the bun face" Sulo (nice name!), really did lie to Vaishu's MIL .. she was fluttering her eyes and coolly lying. And Sulo was so irresponsible not to call Vaishu, Archu and reprimand both and demand what the actual issue is! By the way things were going with Vaishu and the way her MIL was inquiring about her, any mother would've sensed there is something wrong and how come Sulo never took any action?!

I too wished, Marwadin went to Sulo and complained about her daughter and given her(Sulo) an earful too in aiding her daughter's lies.

In that para, I liked the lines - "I am Vaishoo's SAAS said the poor Marwadin trying to draw herself up haughtily and failing miserably at the attempt at dignity ."

How shameful for a MIL and how pitiful.

Damodar just "sees" the goodness in his DIL and fails to be a good husband and never ever has seen any good in Savita. The useless husband.

About Behen-Behen senti scene, maybe Varshu should have garlanded Vaishu and given an award as token of appreviation. Faltu sentiments and faltu dialogues.

ABout the demand to CVs (chawl woman giving an earful to Manav when Savita gets to hospital with no one by her side), count me in.

Great commentary, Kools. Thanks.

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sowmya

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Posted: 14 years ago

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And then when he was convincing her to marry jaywant ...she was refusing , this man totally stopped talking to her till she said what he wanted her to say .... ...he doesn't shout or anything , he just stops talking ...Like what he is doing with his mother right now ...he just cuts off ( even if he thinks it is for their own good , he doesn't discuss)

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