Kool's Commentary : March 3 PR - Page 8

Finally, about ARMAN. I find them boring really. I've said it before and I'm saying it again. They've married the opposite-sex version of themselves, so they're both very boring and very good and very, very stupid. Even after marriage, every person should have their own identity. Their own space, their own opinions, their own hobbies. I dont think marriage is just agreeing to whatever your spouse says/thinks. I want ARMAN to be more hmm..bold and frank with each other---tell what they really think instead of just, boosting the other's morale by saying how good they are and how right they are. Her contradicting statements suggest that Archana wanted to disagree, but didnt because she saw that Manav was feeling bad. Maybe that was not the right time to disagree, but if she thinks something, she should be free to tell him. Disagreements are certainly not the end of a marriage and are sometimes necessary-not for the heck of it, but if you think your partner is not able to understand all the possible consequences of his/her actions, you have the right and the responsibility to show them.

Hi Kools, today was a good episode in that the cat eyes and marwadin saas were teaming up on Vaishu and Manav. The precap sounded interesting. Marwadin Saas for the first time actually gives her daughter in law a harsh scolding to put her in line. Although I want everyone to know his truth. I want Satish to know the most. My one question is, Kools all the things Dharmesh has done to Manav Damodar has done nothing. I mean absolutely nothing. Do you recall when Savita came to the chawl and she was just about to point out his truth in front of everyone including Satish, Damodar just stopped her. When Dharmesh was calling Manav a thief, and Manju, Jaywant and Varsha were all accusing Manav Damodar said absolutely nothing. Savita sounded mad though. Rasika didn't even defend Manav. Oh, by the way Kools if Manav and Dharmesh get into a heated argument will Rasika support Manav or Dharmesh?

Where I found her not totally correct is ,she should have disagreed with him today and made him understand what would be the right possible solution,instead of soothing him with telling yes you are right. Because this statement will give only temporary relief.

I thought it was right situation for her to tell her views and made him rethink of his decision.
But she missed it by again taking his side and always agreeing to it even though her take on it is different.




Agree with these points.This was the right time to broach the subject with Manav since he himself told that he was confused and worried his plan may backfire. She tried telling him after that alternate-day sleeping arrangment fiasco and he told her that he had taken a decision and he wont listen to her. But now, he is himself asking for advice. I think she's scared of upsetting him-but she shouldnt be. He loves her and she has the right to tell him her opinion whether it is what he wants to hear or not.

Oh, by the way Kools if Manav and Dharmesh get into a heated argument will Rasika support Manav or Dharmesh?

Damodar seems to LOVE Dharmesh . Truly . He claims he loves Manav but he cannot be compared to Savita on ANY level where LOVE for a child is concerned . People call Damo good but I find him very self absorbed to love ANYONE ...be it Savita , Manav , Vandu ..anyone . He only loves himself .

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam

. I think she's scared of upsetting him-but she shouldnt be. He loves her and she has the right to tell him her opinion whether it is what he wants to hear or not.

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Tiya, I agree that she's emotional now. But somebody has to do something and soon. The thing is, ARMAN and Satish-Varsha and even her parents when they know about it will support her definitely, but she will have to face Dharmesh and this situation on her own. I mean, you can empathize with her, but you cant live for her or take decisions for her. I was hoping that Varsha will take Dharmesh head on, but that turned out to be a damp squib. Archana is to blame for putting wrong ideas in Vaishali's head, but ultimately it's Vaishali's life that is getting ruined isn't it? Vaishali will have to face the consequences of these actions, Archana will cry and feel bad, but then she'll go back home to Manav, and Vaishali will be left to pick up the pieces of her life. And she's not alone now, she has to think about her unborn baby. Her inaction is going to affect her very badly-her MIL has already heard about the nasty rumors about Vaishali-Manav affair and she has all reasons to believe it. She wont get support from anybody the way she's going. And her parents can only support her so far, and Manju will balk at having to support Vaishali unless she decides to stand up on her own feet. Ideally, she should get atleast financial support from Dharmesh-but she's not going to get it if she doesnt do something very, very soon.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

She contradicted herself today . Yesterday she showed glimpses of her own mind ...today she was back to square one ..........seeking his good opinion about herself above ALL . Thats Archana for u .

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

sowmya perfectly said about Arman👏 its high time Arman leave their mahan idea of social service and concentrate on getting concrete solutions instead of digging grave for themselves and Archu needs to correct Manav if he is at fault dont just be his puppet and in fact yaar in all this mess Madhuri is shinning and her good nature is coming out and the foolishness of K's sisters is shinning in contrast. If vaishu does not want solution then I would say go Madhuri live ur live with ur husband as vaishu is least bothered about her child future and more bothered about what will happen to aai if she comes to know and how to hide it from others. And our brain washer Archu is equally to blame with such idiotism.

I think Arman and Vaishu need a dose of reality for the foolishness they have done!!!

Jaishankar, ARMAN's social service is not the problem. The problem is they take on unnecessary problems and let it fester, they dont try to find solutions for those problems. If they want to support Vaishali, great-they should, after all, she's family. But what they're doing is not supporting-it's letting things be the way they are and very regressive. They are definitely going to have to face reality soon- if they didnt understand even after the chawl fight. But unfortunately, this will be hardest on Vaishali.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I know he loves her a lot and all that but he gets angry very quickly .Archana sometimes foolishly says something that just makes him angry and he gets so mad , he leaves the house ..Remember the day she said ' I don't want to work but will do because we need money ' ..Uff , he left the house and came back so late .....

And then when he was convincing her to marry jaywant ...she was refusing , this man totally stopped talking to her till she said what he wanted her to say .... ...he doesn't shout or anything , he just stops talking ...Like what he is doing with his mother right now ...he just cuts off ( even if he thinks it is for their own good , he doesn't discuss) .

I think Archana is scared to upset him and somewhere a little scared also that all this ( his being with her ) is too good to be true ....This is all like a dream for her , even now .I have neevr seen her smile so much as she does these days ...