Kool's Commentary : Jan 25 PR - Page 6

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Seemed more like an emotional , angry outburst to me. You see Kools, last time when Madhuri had left saying I have genuine problems, Archana was deeply puzzled. Today, when she saw her sister coming face to face with the truth in such a bad manner and reacting in such a way (running away without talking to anyone- that too in a pregnant state), then she probably got all emotional and hyper and fired up Madhuri- who she sees as the second woman currently- someone who has, in her eyes, destroyed her sister's life. In such situations, emotions simply burst open- calm rational thinking- that no, I should give benefit of doubt, no- I should not be judgemental etc.- seldom occurs in such a situation. I do agree that Archana should have heard out the whole story first and not chosen to be judgemental, but somehow I felt it was an understandable, realistic reaction on seeing her sister heartbroken on discovering her husband doing 'ahem' with someone else. Any other reaction- on an impulse- I feel would have been hard to digest. Later maybe we can have a scene of Archu thinking to herself that she shouldn't have been judgemental.

@Kools: People don't think about attitude and being judgemental and stuff when they are angry. You agree about the anger part right? I think she was angry and vented it out on Madhuri, just like she had vented it on Dharmesh too earlier. She didn't have any expectations from him, but she didn't think too badly of Madhuri since Madhuri had given clues of some majboori. So obviously she was shocked more cos of Madhuri and more angry too.

I agree Archana was judgemental. But who doesn't make mistakes in anger. And the anger was very realistic.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@Kools: People don't think about attitude and being judgemental and stuff when they are angry. You agree about the anger part right? I think she was angry and vented it out on Madhuri, just like she had vented it on Dharmesh too earlier. She didn't have any expectations from him, but she didn't think too badly of Madhuri since Madhuri had given clues of some majboori. So obviously she was shocked more cos of Madhuri and more angry too.

I agree Archana was judgemental. But who doesn't make mistakes in anger. And the anger was very realistic.

Archu doesn't control her anger well, especially if her loved ones are hurt. I know you will give examples of Savita's abuse etc. like you gave when she slapped Dharmu, but Archu was never angry with Savita due to the abuse. She chose to simply bear it (like a fool, I must add).

Kools, I am not saying that girl whom Dharmu ditched should have given him bad-dua, or that Archana was right. I'm judt speaking of impulsive reactions, which may be right or wrong, but understandable, just like I understand Savita's anger behind abusing Archu or calling her words like 'Dayan'. Archana had shouted at Dharmesh too, remember. She didn't shout today cos he ran away after Vaishu, so she fired Madhuri instead. My point is same as I made at that time, when Archu slapped Dharmu- nobody thinks of right, wrong, attitude, judgemental etc. when loved ones have been hurt. We had to agree to disagree then, and I think we have to do the same now as well.

I must add though, that I want Archu to apologize to Madhuri

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Archu doesn't control her anger well, especially if her loved ones are hurt. I know you will give examples of Savita's abuse etc. like you gave when she slapped Dharmu, but Archu was never angry with Savita due to the abuse. She chose to simply bear it (like a fool, I must add).

Kools, I am not saying that girl whom Dharmu ditched should have given him bad-dua, or that Archana was right. I'm judt speaking of impulsive reactions, which may be right or wrong, but understandable, just like I understand Savita's anger behind abusing Archu or calling her words like 'Dayan'. Archana had shouted at Dharmesh too, remember. She didn't shout today cos he ran away after Vaishu, so she fired Madhuri instead. My point is same as I made at that time, when Archu slapped Dharmu- nobody thinks of right, wrong, attitude, judgemental etc. when loved ones have been hurt. We had to agree to disagree then, and I think we have to do the same now as well.

I must add though, that I want Archu to apologize to Madhuri

Nobody likes it Kools. But I said na, gusse mein log pagal ho jaate hain and regret later. I myself said I want Archu to apologize later. I have nothing more to add here. Going to study. Bye.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

umi Archna is not a pagal aurat like SAvita or Varsha . Anger makes one pagal but mature people handle their anger and KNOW their bounds . Thats what makes them seperate from others . . Somehow I cannot see the characters of Satish , Archana , Manav , Sulochana or even Manohar call some person GIRI HUI AURAT or pass comments on CHARACTER . They r perfectly capable of blasting the person and getting point across in their own mature way . . Thats ALL i have to say today . I rather meant this as a compliment to Archana , not as a criticism . Regarding Varsha I have no expectations . She goes overboard in anger .