Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
tiya , viram , shooting star ................
My 2 cents on the many points brought up ..........
1] ARMAN shud have told as early as possible to give Vaishu her choice ...........whether she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy or not .If Vaishu was not pregnant , yet she shud be told as early as possible as she shud walk away without getting pregnant . I repeat .........personally I am anti abortion . But this is a womans LIFE .Its not Archanas life and everything is NOT about ARMAN .I am going to answer this in detail when Archana flings this same answer on Vaishus face .that no one wud have believed us so we sat on it . I am waiting for it . . 2] tiya , unless its a teenage pregnancy ........a woman becomes 'ready' the moment she becomes pregnant . She HAS to . This cannot be an excuse .........that I AM NOT READY . What is this 'getting ready' ? Its a never ending thing tiya . Its simply a mental doubt ..........very fashionable nowdays for us who imitate western culture blindly and use this phrase to shirk responsibility . f ur young , healthy , in ur twenties or thirties and educated , u shud have no problems getting 'ready' . WHether I am ready or not shud be decided bEFORE the life comes in the womb . Not AFTER it comes .After it comes , U must mature overnight and take RESPONSIBILITY for bringing it in the world . . For that matter what makes u think darling that VARSHA is still ready ? Till recently , she was constantly saying I AM NOT READY . What changed in two months ...the lady is not mature enuf to even let 6 months pass after abortion before she decides she wants a baby . ONe minute she feels she is ready one minute she feels she isn't . Varsha is the most unsuitable candidate right now to be a mother ..she needs therapy is my firm opinion . She doesnt know what she wants in life and is confused all the time . . Giving the baby to Varsha and watching it grow will be painful for vAishali .It all sounds very well but it doesnt work that way . . Life has its ups and downs .HUsbands cheat , divorces happen .Does that mean we give up our children and then move on ? No , we bring up our own children .Unless there is extreme poverty , or some extreme case , giving up child for adoption is not advisable . Its not the childs fault .........it desrves its biological parents . One has to learn to pick up the pieces and move on , sheltering the child . . Besides , its NOT vaishus child alone .LIKE IT OR NOT , Vaishu will now have to face a bitter truth . Dharmesh will have a say in this too . If Vaishu doesnt want him in her life thats her decision but there r no two decisions about his role as parent in the childs life .HE IS THE PARENt .And if he is willing to take financial responsibility , VAishu has to keep her personal feelings aside and think of the child alone and accept the help from afar and give him visitation rights . . What they r showing in PR is horrible .Bring children in the world then give them up saying we r not ready . Thats ridiculous . Its not a joke , u better be ready then is the answer . . If Vaishali has been shown roaming the roads in a jhatak sari at night and if this makes her NOT READY for the child due to immaturity , the person u suggested .Varsha , has snuffed out a life in momentary rage .I dont see how she is 'ready' simply coz currently she feels she is on her latest whim .
shooting star I have elaborated about my POV to niki . What Archna said as an afterthought was only coz Madhuri told her the story , I didnt see any sensibile handling of the situation on HER PART .Infact I saw too much interference , bias and stupidity again . Like I told umi .her character is a mature character and there r some characters in this serial whom I dont expect to go to this level in anger . Had Archna turned to Dharmu and caught his collar and told Vaishu Dont blame the woman , talk to THIS gira hua Admi first , I wud have liked it more .
viram I totally concur with ur views , caspies views and mandys views today .Young tiya's views were interesting so I elaborated .And shooting star , well , she is a cutie pie Archu fan who somehow still likes me .😊Its a well known FACT that most Archu fans dont like me . I dont expect them to .😆
hey, sorry for the late comments, was busy with JDJ... sushant is soo dreamy. anyways,
when i posted my POV, i hadnt considered your opnions/POV, and so thanks for that. a lot of it makes sense, and i agree with you. miss whimisical varsha hasnt been a paragon of virtue or patience or selflessness.
but, lets assume, that ArMan, told the truth: would vaishu have accepted and belived it? the answer is NO. on one hand, the moral thing to do, is do YOUR SISTERLY DUTY. but at that time, doing so, would have caused MORE PROBLEMS. whats to say that dharmesh, wouldnt havetaken a more drastic step, and silenced ArMan, moved madhuri else where, thus risking the fact that the truth wouldnt come out.
HOW can VAISHU get angry at archu, when few days ago she was fine with NOT talking to her??
only manav was witness to them being in pune, would vaishu have believeed Manhoos Manav?
so arent ArMan risking sukh chaain of the families involved? and without proof, it would have been blatant mudslinging and all would have gotten an opp. tto insult them?
one thing though: archu should have told her parents. let them get to the bottom of the issue.
another thing: manav came to archu house, saying" jaywant is not a good guy" what was everyone's reaction? they threw him out of the house.
to some extent, you have convinced me on the bacha issue. but so far, it only involves the MOTHER. in conservative indian society and in general, what about the CHILD?
isnt it better for the child to have TWO loving parents, a LEGAL NAME?
what you said abt me" young tiya" 😆😆
Pyaar Kii Ye Ek Kahaani
