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Posted: 14 years ago
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niki Varsha........

Archu alone can change the situation ..........she has to tOUGHEN UP . She shud enter the house saying I am bahu , I will enter , throw me out and show ! DERA jamaane ka . Savitas psychosis will decrease when manav starts living with them . Has it struck anyone that she is becoming psycho coz she misses her sons and is badly scared ? Having Manav around and Sachu around will help her calm down . On a woman to woman basis Archu simply has to deal with her quietly but toughly and hold her own .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hai Kool DI. Nice post di.Agree with most but some couldn't agree.

I feel jut like varsha di as said above except archu-jay. varsha di as said it all.

I too didn't prefer ARMAN staying at D's when savita is in rage and that too when she calls archu chudail and the hate sha has for archu.

Its better to be out and far away from D's and K's now and Manav helping and looking after D's from outside and changing the situation slowly as Nikki said.

Even I was first shocked to see just manav leaving with his aai and not calling or saying anything to archu.Again she was the one to run him.But after that he cover it all.The moment he started holding her hand,he doesn't leave her till now.

He might have sounded not correct,But it was savita who has made him tell those words.Those words from her mouth was to hard to hear by a person who loves that person.

I think still he stayed true to his character and didn't seemed disrespect at all.He just voiced out his disappointment is what I feel. Yes,mom has to be respected ,loved and have a special place in our hearts,but at the same time when they go wrong and utterly stupid,sometimes we are forced to do something and say something even though it wasn't 100% right.

I wasn't saying this because he defended archu,Saying this only with respect to manav as a son is concerned.Just look from his point of view.So far he hasn't wished or asked for anything except archu and her love.If his aai doesn't undertsand atleast one of his wish and stubbornly want to destroy it,then is it wrong from his side to tell those words.I think it came out of frustration and disappointment.

Ok savita thinks archu family brings his son only disrespect(which is to an extent true) but does archu is anywhere reason for that except that she is related to K's. so she knows what kind of person archu is.so the better way would have been to keep archu and manav at her house when archu has cut off all her relations with her family.But then savita was adamant.


Then archu's dialogue,I was happy to hear that she cut off her relations with her siblings.Hope she stays to ewhat she as said atleat this year and wish both ARMAN to ignore K siblings in the future if they come with a problem atleat at first and then help.Because these girls deserve to be ignored.

Di,why tomatoes di.Actually very happy and glad to read your commentary . so waited for this.🤗
Edited by umayal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

niki Varsha........

Archu alone can change the situation ..........she has to tOUGHEN UP . She shud enter the house saying I am bahu , I will enter , throw me out and show ! DERA jamaane ka . Savitas psychosis will decrease when manav starts living with them . Has it struck anyone that she is becoming psycho coz she misses her sons and is badly scared ? Having Manav around and Sachu around will help her calm down . On a woman to woman basis Archu simply has to deal with her quietly but toughly and hold her own .

Totally agree...Yes this is the only way Archu can be back in Ds house...Not playing roll over and play dead each time Savita shouts @ her...Archu needs to demand her right and be assertive but not insulting...
Million $ Q is Can Archu be the sherni and not the billi in front of Savita....Archu has always taken passive role in front of Savita and she needs to change herself....Love and assertiveness both together can do the job...Pacifying Savita right now is not the right thing to do...It won't work in ArMan's favor...😳
BTW isn't it abt time Savita moves on from losing Sachin issue? How long will she carry that on? and impose guilt on others? We cant keep giving her that excuse for ever...In life we are dealt with similar situations too and we also have to move on...and so does she...Though I feel for her pain and loss...
Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

niki Varsha........

Archu alone can change the situation ..........she has to tOUGHEN UP . She shud enter the house saying I am bahu , I will enter , throw me out and show ! DERA jamaane ka . Savitas psychosis will decrease when manav starts living with them . Has it struck anyone that she is becoming psycho coz she misses her sons and is badly scared ? Having Manav around and Sachu around will help her calm down . On a woman to woman basis Archu simply has to deal with her quietly but toughly and hold her own .



Yes di.You are very correct and this sound better.But will archu be able to do all this.Thats were I am scared and prefer them to be out as atleast it is minimal safe and they can try to win their hearts from outside.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Kools: I would rather want Manav to visit the D's every single day, spend time and money on them and even express that they both want to come back. This will show Savita that Archu hasn't 'stolen' him from them and she still wants to be truly attached to the house. Love and respect can be shown from outside also.

If Archu goes forcibly in the house, situations will only worsen. No use provoking someone who doesn't want to listen at all, I feel. Damodar tried to be tough with Savita by locking her in a room- what happened? She complained against him instead and hurt him.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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umi I am not saying Savita is correct .Infact I am saying she is wrong , totally wrong in hating archu so much .But talking like this will only WORSEN her ! Its adding oil in fire , this kind of comparison talk between Archu and Savita ! . I repeat .....its all in Archu's hands .She has immense strenghth .she shud firmly enter the house and establish herself .Having Manav , Sachu back in her life will make Savita unconsciously happy and at peace and she will improve . Currently she is like a blinded wild cat who claws anything that comes her way .I agree the burning was wrong but I wudnt give so much importance to the chudail etc part .One has to listen with one ear and throw it out of another for thats Savhita all the way .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

umi I am not saying Savita is correct .Infact I am saying she is wrong , totally wrong in hating archu so much .But talking like this will only WORSEN her ! Its adding oil in fire , this kind of comparison talk between Archu and Savita ! . I repeat .....its all in Archu's hands .She has immense strenghth .she shud firmly enter the house and establish herself .Having Manav , Sachu back in her life will make Savita unconsciously happy and at peace and she will improve . Currently she is like a blinded wild cat who claws anything that comes her way .I agree the burning was wrong but I wudnt give so much importance to the chudail etc part .One has to listen with one ear and throw it out of another for thats Savhita all the way .




Yes.Me too wish to see archu in such a way.Though I love her,fact is she isn't that strong when it comes to manav and his aai.she is so weak in love.
So in that process of gaining savita's trust,in the mean time,will she had to face abuses as she faced in that three month's stay or any physical abuses is what I am scared of di.


agree 100 % with you on how archu should behave and how to take savita's word.But then what I feel is that its not easy to behave as if the words from person who is wrong doesn't affect us. It may hurt more than the physical abuses.
Edited by umayal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Welcome back (am I right?) Kool...& awesomly well said!!
I so agree that Manav should'nt have compared Savita to Archana, and just plainly refused to have walk-in without his Mrs.!
Manju - the cunning cat & Jaywant - the evil wolf have gone down to the drains..& as far as Dharmesh - the big loser - is concerned..no words...I can't even stand his devil looks - how can he ever forget that Manav Archana got his son admitted in Pune, when he was loitering around, and whether he knows Manav knows his SOUR truth is besides the fact, the big guy has no humility left! Disgusting!!!
Varsha / Vaishali - bunch of mindless school girls...!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Actually i thought that manav was very respectful of his mother ...just because we should honor & respect our parents does NOT mean we allow them to be cruel..especially to one's wife or husband... .in fact the opposite..to be respectful to our parent we cannot allow such vile behavior, it is dishonoring to them... ..Savita also has a responsibility towards manav and archu in respecting their marriage....and .i i think he was absolutely correct in comparing the understanding between her and archu...Savita may love him in a twisted way, but she has no understanding or respect for him as a human being. .trust me there were a thousand things he could have shouted at her and didn't. but he did need to make it clear to her that archana is his wife and she needs to understand that. and he did it respectfully in my opinion. If i ever spoke to my daughter-in-law the way savita does to archu i would deserve everything my son would say to me... i can't imagine treating another human being that way.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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welcome back Kools..great post..

yes history repeating itself..yet again..

but savita knew there was going to be a tamasha as told by TDH..so why did she not mention this??

good to see her defend manav but I feel that she needs to understand how much manav loves archana..

she needs them more..she seems to be at a breaking point emotionally....she is in very danger of losing her son..

I also hope that manav and archana stay away from the v gang..

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