Isn't that Ironic?? - Page 5

girish is a selfish man like any other father but he forgets that shravani was in the same situation as varsha is but when manav supported shravani it was ok but he is supporting varsha which is wrong. he is stupid since he knows manav will never accept her daughter he should convince shravani to move on. his daughter was ten times wronger than varsha but stll he supported his daughter. varsha is not looking at herself like wat she did to her baby and now expecting her mom to support her and everything. i have some sympathy with her but deserves the treatment she is getting so she can learn a lesson for suture not to repeat it.

Hey Happy birthday .. 😛 .. Think I am kinda late in wishing u..

Hope di 🤗 u share ur birthday with ma love Awwww!!!😳

Happy Birthday and Many Many Happy Returns of the day👏
May God bless u n hope u have a gr8 lyf ahead 😊

Happy Birthday Hope. 🥳

OMG😳

thanks so much guys. so many wishes. 😃😃😃😃😃 and treats and balloons and flowers and a picture of a sexy lady😆

Kools dyo borein korun😃

b'day was very quiet this year on homefront. MIL gave me money to go on a dinner date with hubby. she wanted him to take me for special dinner😳😉😆 I got $100.🥳. I was a cheapo so I kept the money to buy clothes, took a raincheck on the dinner and made him buy dinner instead for the whole family.

jeeju got me the most GORGEOUS dozen yellow long stemmed roses. love yellow flowers. they were holland roses. just gorgeous. will take out a pic and post it online. ok?

anyway for some reason was totally beat after dinner and just crashed, so I could not come online to check and respond to these wonderful messages. but thanks a billion, a trillion😃😃😃😃😃🤗

Hope

Originally posted by: piya_10

apt title.
Girish and Shravni arent malicious ppl they plain opportunists. Sachins sudden demise and Shravni's insistence on keeping the baby made Girish apprehensive and left with very few choice. He cleverly asked Manav who would marry his daughter under such circumstances knowing quite well Manav's magnanimous heart and as he expected Manav offered to marry his daughter. Shravni too at that point had no option but to agree to this alliance so that she could keep the baby, so both father and daughter took this opportunity that came their way nothing wrong in that. But after that the way entire situation changed with Archana coming back and Manav unable to forget or forgo his love should have made both Shravni and Girish realise the futility of this compromise relation. Girish has the money and the status to provide Shravni and his grandson a better life, Shravni likewise is educated enuf to have a career and start life afresh. Decisions taken hastily under emotional duress or coercion often fall flat. Both father-daughter duo should realise this and make a dignified exit.

Many Happy Returns of the day Hope 🤗

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@ bold totally agree. the only think I would add to the last bit is for Sachin's sake.

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

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It is gud that he helped varsha.I only hav prob with the help he offered.He cud hav helped varsha without creating so much fuss.Moreover,I dont get one thing..varsha has no friends in whose house she cud stay for a day?.I agree he is fundamentally a good person so he wud naturally help varsha...but think the way he didit was stupid.

Archana asks for help.Her family does and so manav willingly helps them.He is more enthu abt helping all the Ks put together thn bothering abt attending Girishs' parties.That shows whr his interest lies.He saved Ks izzat during vaishus' marriage...hardly bothering but Girishs' izzat n tht of phoons.

Ultimately,both ArMan r relying on each other n want to help each other.Such behaviour will call for mistrust and irritation frm other family members...tht is obvious.I can understand Girishs' frustration at this point...its 2 yrs already...thr is difference in how Manav treats Ks n phoons-girish.

Girish may not be the best or ideal father....but what he feels today is somewhr due to both Archu-manavs' inconsistency.His wisdom is telling him Manav still cares for Archu more thn more his own daughter...thts not something any father of a bride-to-be wud like to feel.

Manav cant afford to be so forthright with his helping ways...if he wants to help Ks he shud...but maintaining a balance btwn phoons n Ks...he goes out of his way to help the Ks,completely ignoring phoons.This makes the whole divorce-for-sacrifice thing lame and idiotic.

Archana too went ahead to slap dharmesh.I didnot like one bit of wht she did then.Neither do I like manav offering his house for varsha to stay....going against savita,girish,phoons and going to advice satish.

Dont see anyone penalizing Manav for what the Ks asked him to do....but then he was a willing to help as well...what I say is his willingness to help is getting misinterpreted by ppl and it can not be helped.

and this is my biggest disappointment with Manav. I have no problem when someone helps another using means at his disposal on humanitarian grounds. I do have a problem when a person overextends himself beyond his capacity and his situation to help someone else. that in my mind is not charitable but foolish. manav's actions have been consistently foolish (for the most part) since Sachin's death.

helping varshu was a reactive decision - he did not think he just acted because of a protective concern/ affection. offering her shelter was not his first but his last resort. thinking of friends - I don't think Manav can process that much or think that rationally under stress and that is why we have the bermuda triangle. his decision to meddle with satish was all archu and there I found he crossed boundaries.