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omshreejaanu

@omshreejaanu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#31

Excellent post Hope n i didn't get the opportunity 2 tell u that i joined the forum 2 read a WU n opened ur rambling n i was pleasantly entertained n as from that day i started visitg regularly n became ur fan n that of Kool.
I wont talk abt Varsha again but i'd like 2 point out that i sincerely applauded Sulo n Mano 4 telling the woman 2 go n do her manmaanis if she is so freedom freak n that they didnt want 2 b partners in her abominable crime .
As 4 Manav he helped Varsha not just on humanitarian ground ( Manav of course is a very gud person at heart, he'll help any1 in trouble) but also coz he'll always hav a soft corner 4 the Ks n thats why he wont leave Varsha who is like his younger sis on the street n 2 herself. He took her home as xpected from Manav
But i didnt like his going 2 Satish though.

As 4 Girish i dunno why i'm just never sympathetic abt him. He has always been a gentleman but i just feel he is an opportunist who wanted 2 get rid of his preggy daughter n the badnaami. Now he want a big wedding coz evrybody knows abt his laadli'z kartut . He is concerned with Manav's constant involvement with the Ks n Archu. Natural 4 a father but he shud hav thought twice b4 proposing marriage 2 the guy who didnt n stil havnt moved on in life.
Being an experienced adult he shud hav given a tight slap 2 his daughter the day she was trying 2 hang on 2 a Manav who clearly doesnt want her instead of going 2 Archu 2 plead her 2 stay away from Manav.
4 me this is the duty of a parent - not only 2 love unconditionally but also 2 tell ur children when they r wrong n help them 2 b on the right track
All those who say Girish helped Manav since the age of 16, i'll say he xploited the kid n even sell a bogus garage 2 him

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#32

demonstrating a sensitivity to shravani's insecurities and letting these insecurities take over all other relationships in your life are two different things. the first is a fair request, I think the second is stretching .

Its here that i disagree the most ...........in my opinion its NOT stretching it , its only FAIR . Take a simple scenario , that its aRchna who is marriedto Manav and now he keeps running to Shravni and Girish to help them at every bloody juncture .Archna turns around and sees Manav vanished , puff , a wisp of smoke there , coz he has run off to help Shravni with her endless problems saying oh she was Sachins wife my ex fiancee , I have zimmedari Rishta with her u gotta understand . How wud Archu feel or her maayka people feel ?Especially Sulo Manno ? What do a girls parents feel seeing their girls fiancee CONSTANTLY running to his EX , can u imagine the PAIN ? What maturity are we talking about here , tell me which of us if we r in Shravnis shoes will really like it and show maturity or do Tandav and pull our husbands HAIR .😆😆😆😆

Undoubtedly Devi Archu wud feel NOTHING . But Im not asking of Devi Archu Im asking only of Archu as a normal gal . I am telling u , my sisters wudnt like it a bit .They wud ask me arre why does he constantly get embroiled with his ex ? When will these jhanjhats end ? Which is the cut off point ?

Why is the cut off point talking to Satish and not bringing Varsha home ? With what muh he brought her home with what muh did she come there after insulting him so badly ? Why didnt Manav take her straight to Karanjkar house ............he anyway enters there shamelessly everyday as a driver whether they LIKE IT OR NOT .😆 Same way he shud have barged in and said his piece . It wudnt have taken two minutes for Sulochna to puff up her chubby ckeeks in a motherly pout and say THEEK HAI AGAR SAB CHAHTE HAI YAHI SAHI .Anyways she did that with Archu next day . If Manav had jolted em saying I found ur recently aborted daughter outside railway station running away , that was ENOUGH CURRENT for the cowardly custard Karanjkars .

But Manav brought her home to HIS mom .Oh boy what WISDOM . His Mom whose nature he KNOWS , who had gone just TWO days back to do ROAD tamasha in front of Karanjkar house , he had been informed by Sulo . A delicate issue like ABORTION which needs to never go out of a couples BEDROOM was made known to a woman like SAVITA who promptly told it to a MAN ..........Shravnis Father and who may not hesitate to use it as AMMUNITION in the future to insult the Karanjkars in PUBLIC .............Ek Beti ne Satyanash kiya DOSRI NE ABORTION KIYA AUR USE DHAKKE MARKE SASURAL SE NIKALA GAYA ...............AISI HAI SULOCHNA KI BETIYAAN . Manav didnt KNOW this ? He doesnt KNOW what to hide from his mom and what NOT to ?

As a result shameless Varsha stood by chupchaap listening to Savita telling Grish isne BACHCHA GIRAYA AUR IDHAR AA TAPKI HAI . What a horrible, emmbarassing insult for a girl .

Neither was Manavs decision to get THIS involved wise nor was Girishs question unfair in my opinion . Of course I blame Girish for not walking out with his daughter and waiting for the supreme insult but Manav is in my opinion a fool and Varsha thoughtless and shameless both .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

#33

Hope good post and you have tried your best to give different perspective and is appreciated...

Though I dont agree on Satish part..

I can see manav wanting to help Varsha on humanatarian or having a one time relationship of BIL-SIL....

Honestly Girish, Shrav or I never thought ArMan's 15 days of orig marriage and 3 months of staying together was going to have so much love-baggage and impact on Manav-Shrav's chances of moving forward with their marriage..

Apprently ArMan are after the Mirage nothing more...

Wish Shrav would leave with Sachu and leave the 2 premi atma to their own fate...

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Hope good post and you have tried your best to give different perspective and is appreciated...

Though I dont agree on Satish part..

I can see manav wanting to help Varsha on humanatarian or having a one time relationship of BIL-SIL....

Honestly Girish, Shrav or I never thought ArMan's 15 days of orig marriage and 3 months of staying together was going to have so much love-baggage and impact on Manav-Shrav's chances of moving forward with their marriage..

Apprently ArMan are after the Mirage nothing more...

Wish Shrav would leave with Sachu and leave the 2 premi atma to their own fate...

Totally agreed . Poor Girish and Shravni never thought 15 day of a volatile marraige and 3 month compulsory court order stay wud be such a baggage . It seems it WAS .😆😆😆😆😆 Varsha we r the only two who think this is tall or ridiculous . Many keep on harping about the MARRAIGE that Shravni destroyed , I didnt EVER SEE IT . These feelings between Archu Manav developed LATER and AFTER he gave his promise coz Archu threw herself at him all the time , that was the story I SAW .I didnt see Shravni throwing herself at Manav in her entire 2 year stay . Yet she was called characterless , shameless what not . Fyi Archu succeeded in her womanly unconscious mission she has got thru to iceberg Manav😆😆😆😆 Well GOOD LUCK to her .But I hope Shrav gets some dignity at least thru Sachu and her Dad

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Totally agreed . Poor Girish and Shravni never thought 15 day of a volatile marraige and 3 month compulsory court order stay wud be such a baggage . It seems it WAS .😆😆😆😆😆 Varsha we r the only two who think this is tall or ridiculous . Many keep on harping about the MARRAIGE that Shravni destroyed , I didnt EVER SEE IT . These feelings between Archu Manav developed LATER and AFTER he gave his promise coz Archu threw herself at him all the time , that was the story I SAW .I didnt see Shravni throwing herself at Manav in her entire 2 year stay . Yet she was called characterless , shameless what not . Fyi Archu succeeded in her womanly unconscious mission she has got thru to iceberg Manav😆😆😆😆 Well GOOD LUCK to her .But I hope Shrav gets some dignity at least thru Sachu and her Dad

Hey it is Cewl to be the odd ball which demonstrates that there are others who has realistic perspective...Atleast we have not joined the bandwagon 😆😆

Archu became the other woman who did foo foo and goo goo eyes during her MFs with Manav after divorce by throwing herself @ him...🤢Shrav never did that...No one is calling Archu characterless...Why b/c she was married to Lallu Mannu first...By that rule She has right to him b4 anyone else She has no problem in becoming dude's mistress or the other woman...🥱

Shrav has garnered more points in my eyes in the way she has handled herself and remained with Manav and rest of the Ds...Especially Bappa praying Damo and Popat praying Vandu the goat kept rubbing "Archu vaini" in Shrav's face each chance they got...We only understand and realize how it feels when it happens to us...Not a minute sooner ....😳

Good luck to ArMan and their wonderful PR which will turn into a AR on nov 12th 2010...😈

What i dont understand is the thinking and mentality abt someone wants to keep sacrificing and doing something for someone who is not even asking for it and than they call this person ungrateful 😲 Why ?? Shrav never asked ArMan to throw away their marriage...They really did not even have one..Marriage was destroyed b4 even the divorce hit...So which happy marriage full of love are these ArMan fans talking abt????

Many couples grow to love each other in Compro marriage just like the one with Shrav & Manav ....Nothing wrong with that...

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

#36

Hopester is this your bday??

Happy bday and many many happy returns of the day!! May you be showered with god's blessings with best of everything life has to offer...Best wishes for u and your loved ones..

Lots of love & Blessings

Varshu 🤗

Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 14 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

Girish - a man who accepted Manav's mahaanta to fix the situation of his compromised daughter found his mahaanta in helping a distraught Varsha frustrating and detrimental to his own daughter's wellbeing? Odd isn't it that we choose to accept someone's generosity selfishly for our own purpose but are not equally understanding when the same generosity is used to help others? His daughter falling in love with a man who had only promised her a compromised marriage is his daughter's own cross to bear, in my opinion. I don't condone his secretive liaison with Archu as that is being insensitive to Shravani though I think for anyone to expect him to fall in love with a woman he has decided to marry as a compromise is surreal. He knows Varsha because of Archu but somehow I think that he helped Varsha because he treats her as his muhboli sister rather than his ex-sis-in-law and I see no devious or conniving intentions there.

Excellent post, I totally agree with everything you said here! It was ok for Girish when Manav and Archana sacrificed and went out of their way to help Shravani but it is not ok for Manav to help others in need specifically anyone for Archana. You are right, Manav looks at Varsha and Vaishali as his sisters. I remember him in the past saying that to Archana when he saved money not only for his siblings but for Archana's as well.