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Posted: 14 years ago
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Arayyy ab to shaadi ho gayi aur larai bhi! y r u all discussing now if the marriage/love was rubbish or not😆


What if Vaishu gets pregnant😲
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Kools, why compare Dharmesh with the leads all the time? Why not look at it from an individual perspective of evauating Dharmesh only?

One night before marriage, he proposed this girl, whom he had not told his feelings earlier. At the same time, he was still committed to another girl and even went back to marry her.
I frankly speaking didn't like it. Anyhow, lets get back to the original point of discussion.

My dear I said so coz u said Dharmu was way out of line for saying about BADNAAM rishta as HE needed soul searching .
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Make no mistake , ARMANs rishta indeed is a badnaam Rishta .
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Dharmesh if evaluated independently as u say .........still comes across as forthright .See how he told his Dad today , I didnt tell her to go , she went herself .My business IS my priority , its the bloody TRUTH , she is asking me to LIE to her .
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He may be bad but I admire him as he is true to HIMSELF .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dont admire Dharmesh but he is not wrong when he is honest. Y shud he lie to Vaishu. Everyone has different priorities. Nobody can or shud force him to change his priorities. His priority is his business and he wants to achieve a lot in life. Many ppl r like that but that doesnt mean they dont care abt other things.

When the love is blind u dont see these things ab bhugto! Vaishu and Dharmesh shud hav talked abt this b4. I dont know y this suddenly came up now
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ Jasmine (red bold): I agree sometimes you don't know how a man will behave as a husband, but at the same time I think it is dumb how Vaishali and Dharmesh's love story carried out. A lot of times you don't know how a man will behave as a husband, but it IS possible to figure out how he will treat you by evaluating and observing how he treats others around him. In Vaishu and Dharmesh's case in particular, she went from despising him to loving him overnight? Pathetic! She didn't even have time to understand him before they got married.

There are times like in your friend's case where a person completely changes colors after marriage, but at least your friend had known him very well before she got married. Some people are just really good at hiding their true colors from others, maybe your friend's husband is one of those people. I'm just saying Vaishali should have spent more time getting to know Dharmesh and how he makes decisions and how he treats others and what his priorities are before getting married to him.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: unknown18

I dont admire Dharmesh but he is not wrong when he is honest. Y shud he lie to Vaishu. Everyone has different priorities. Nobody can or shud force him to change his priorities. His priority is his business and he wants to achieve a lot in life. Many ppl r like that but that doesnt mean they dont care abt other things.

When the love is blind u dont see these things ab bhugto! Vaishu and Dharmesh shud hav talked abt this b4. I dont know y this suddenly came up now


That's exactly what I'm saying. They should have talked about it before they got married. They are both childish and not ready to be married to anyone. They both need to mature. Dharmesh needs to learn to prioritize his life better and make better decisions. Dharmesh also needs to get a reality check and he needs to learn to seperate his professional life from his personal life and give them both equal importance.

He was absolutely wrong in making a fuss over all of that in front of all his guests. He has an ego issue and is flying high and he needs to be brought back down to earth before he falls from the sky on his butt unceremoniously.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: unknown18

Arayyy ab to shaadi ho gayi aur larai bhi! y r u all discussing now if the marriage/love was rubbish or not😆


What if Vaishu gets pregnant😲


Haha! That's probably what's going to happen and its going to force her to go back to her baby daddy and her baby daddy will hate her guts for getting pregnant while he has business to attend to.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Today I felt varsha rebels for the heck of it ..
I mean , she was all ready to quit the job , but changed her mind when bhavna asked her to ( before she could inform her of the decision herself.)
I dont think bhavna is against varsha working .. she just wants her to take a break till after the child is a few months old...
Why is varsha getting so hyper ? Hasnt anyone heard of a maternity leave ?
And I know this isnt related to the topic ... but it irks me that everyone seems to have forgotten about those three lakhs that they owe manav ... he lent it to them and took the debt on his own head ..
Damnit , it isnt a small amount .. especially for a mechanic and his family.. the k's should raise the money and give to him as soon as possible ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sereaishitedare


That's exactly what I'm saying. They should have talked about it before they got married. They are both childish and not ready to be married to anyone. They both need to mature.well, I didnt mean that. They r both adults. I think Dharmesh is very mature compared to Vaishu. They r not childish. They r just not compatible. Dharmesh wants a big business and Vaishu wants Dharmesh all to herself. There is a clash between their priorities. Maybe this wudnt happen if they had talked abt this b4. Everyone has different choices and priorities in life. U cant always find everything u want in one person. Dharmesh is definitely not the kind of guy Vaishu was looking for it seems. She wanted a fairytale. Dharmesh wanted something (Vaishu) and he got it. Dharmesh needs to learn to prioritize his life better and make better decisions.I think he clearly told Vaishu what his priorities r. He is not confused. If Vaishu (or someone else) doesnt like his decisions that doesnt mean they r wrong or he shudnt take his decisions. Dharmesh also needs to get a reality check and he needs to learn to seperate his professional life from his personal life and give them both equal importance.I agree abt giving equal importance but some people r like that😳

He was absolutely wrong in making a fuss over all of that in front of all his guests. He has an ego issue and is flying high and he needs to be brought back down to earth before he falls from the sky on his butt unceremoniously.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well , Keeping my disgust at manju aside , I can understand why she is getting worried ...
These two run the house with their income .. and vinod being a TC doesnt probably draw in that much salary ...
(Just a hunch , but I think Manju earns more than him) ..
They have their own kids to think about , they are taking care of mano and sulo ... and if in the future both V&V get divorces and land up in K house .. boy oh boy .. I can imagine manju is going to burst a nerve..
But right now , Varsha seems to be hell bent on going to work .. so even if tomorrow she breaks up with satish and tapkofies back to k house ( I think thats going to happen soon..) she can support herself and her kid ...

But if due to some reason varsha doesnt go to work .. and maybe manju refuses to contribute to the household expenses .. I wonder whats going to happen ??

Will Manav turn superman and take .. uh .. zimmedari of the k's ?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why should A,V&V wait till manju cribs and then take up a job as a reaction to her taunts?
I mean , unhe khud utni samajh honi chahiye na .. it isnt like they dont know their financial condition isnt that good ...
They shouldnt be waiting for anyone to spell things out like manju ...

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