Kool's Commentary : Oct 5 PR - Page 6

Originally posted by: sherma

@nikitagmc

so now will she b fine if dharmu strts torturing or abusing vaishu,d way ajit used to do to vandu.and d guy u r tlking abt is her exhubby sumbody fiance and if she loved him so much so y dey got divorced.now because of eagerness to save him jay being her fiance(dey r stii engaged) satish,dharmesh her bil her sister husband will get third degree torture(ant even dey r innocent,their only fault is dey r owner of d company and hav employed two fools lik manav and archu)i wld hav thrown bth of dem out after manav and prakash fight.AND D excuses he is given and how much i saw in sbs is right,he said 1)u shld care abt jay more den manav wich is true.

2)manav is using u it has been discussed already and even i agree deshmkhs hav used archu

i dint hear ant other excuse. u know honestly anybody in dharnesh shoes will try to save himself here dharmesh is not guilty even if sumbdy has murdered sumbdy he will try to sav his butt first however wrong it is, but it is human.i know nobody will agree dis right now but dis is a fact.OUT of 100%,95% will sav themself and 5% will b mahaan lik armaan and if dharmu doesnt want to b next armaan y is it wrong. v all critise armaan mahanta so y trying to mke dharmesh mahaan.

Originally posted by: archanamanav

but why is court case better than slapping?..that will also get relations in trouble..kools..😕

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

And please lets not get into why-she-divorced-him-if-she-loves-him so- much. That is another topic. My point is only- when a loved one is tortured to such an extent and you get angry suddenly bcos of it then no one sits and thinks about all this- right, wrong, valid, invalid and all. Its an impulse bas. If Archana was still married to Manav and then this whole thing had happened, then her slapping would have been justified kya? Nahi na? So why bring up the 'why-did-she-divorce-him' issue now????

Well then let us put it this way ...............she is doing it once too often now . Its nOT a one time thing with her anymore she seems to have made a habit of it and hence its NOT understandable at all anymore .And Doc , don't be so impatient . Neurosurgeons require a lot of patience .😃

btw sherma , I agree with each word .Very valid observations !

I didn't go away cos I was impatient- I just felt we were going nowhere with this discussion. Sherma (di?) is convincing me that Archu is not justified whereas I have accepted LONG BACK that she is not justified. The only point I am stressing on, repeating in every post, is not acceptable by you guys. So we must agree to disagree.

Docs must also know when to admit that their attempts are going in the wrong direction- and leave the field for a senior to take over. Hopefully after I leave someone else will come and plead Archus case, better than me. Waise I see things the psychology way, having immense interest in the field- and I just placed myself in Archu's shoes- a woman whose love has been thrown in jail and she finds out the culprit. No wonder she would feel outraged. I had written these same things when Manav had wrung Archu's arm after the jail fiasco- the scenario was same- he behaved foolishly, angrily and was most unfair- but that was all due to anger since he had seen his mother and sis being beaten.

Must go to sleep now. Good night.

Waise this is the first time I have ever fought so vociferously for Archu.😃

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

No . Court case for her principles is one thing .Slapping will not be forgiven , not in Indian culture .Ive seen brothers doing court cases on property and coming back together , thinking it was business .But slapping is way too personally insulting .Saying sorry doesnt help .Each of Shermas points is very apt and correct . Simple thing ..Imagine ur brother in law or sister in law SLAPS u on the face .Will u forgive her in this life ? And then talk guys .

if i am wrong then of course i deserve it..😊...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Its UNDERSTANDABLE if Archu goes around slapping people but its NOT UNDERSTANDABLE when like 95 % people Dharmu saves his own butt over someone elses😆

Sherma ur my twin .

Would have been understandable, if Dharmesh had made a single attempt to save all the innocents involved, and later realised that it isnt possible to save Manav and himself both or if there had been some sort of dilemma like as shown in Satish's case. Him I can relate to, and I pity him even though he is doing the same as Dharmesh- saving his butt.

Originally posted by: archanamanav

if i am wrong then of course i deserve it..😊...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Its UNDERSTANDABLE if Archu goes around slapping people but its NOT UNDERSTANDABLE when like 95 % people Dharmu saves his own butt over someone elses😆

Sherma ur my twin .

I guess we must agree to disagree kools. I suppose I've made quite a fool of myself here tonight anyway.

Did you refer to me as archu kools..i didn't understand..
Anyway..i have no problem accepting and apologizing if i am wrong..or someone punishes if i wronged them..i am different than you kool..😊

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Ok , but from whom ? Savita ! Dharmu may understand that .But who is Archna to slap for Manav ? For tricking the signatures by all means catch fiancees collars , slap him or break engagement .......i gave her clan chit for tht .But why whack Dharmu across face ?

Btw Usha I really dont believe any of us will forgive our in laws slapping us even if we r wrong .I wont , I cant pretend otherwise , even to win an argument😆 I'll hold it in my heart till I die , bas

my inlaws know better than to slap me....😉whether i am right or wrong...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Btw Usha I really dont believe any of us will forgive our in laws slapping us even if we r wrong .I wont , I cant pretend otherwise , even to win an argument😆 I'll hold it in my heart till I die , bas

I may appear very hoity toity and fake to you now, or even pompous, but I think I could do that- if I understood the other person's psyche and what they are going through. Same reason- I always put myself in everyone's shoes and think what I would have done in their place. Its not like NOBODY does it.

And I'm not saying this to win the argument. I've admitted defeat anyway.

There has been an incident twice actually when this happened. Not with in-laws of course 😆.