Originally posted by: bonnefille
I do not post so much coz I am not much of a writer'neither do I put my thoughts across well and since I am just 20 I do not even have great understanding of complexities of relationships and human nature and but I hold my own opinion and perspectives of these characters.
You are so young but I am very happy to see that you have such a good understanding of these complex characters , their social backgrounds and the complexities of their relationships ...
Taking responsibilities and fulfilling them has become his second nature. Don't you think at 16 he didn't want to go and play cricket or have fun with friends, complete his education'..these all were his heart's desires but he killed them the way he has killed his desire to have archana.
What you are saying here makes a lot of sense . my sister says the same thing that just lok at him..He has always been a trained robot , the person whose aim is to serve the family and when Sachin dies in a horrible accident , this man lost his mental balance and instead of the reasonable and understanding Manav , he became the head strong , angry an stubborn Manav who wanted to save Sachin's baby at any cost ...
He felt that maybe Sachin dies due to circumstances related to him so it i his zimmedari to save his baby ..
He may not be ambitious but he is hardworking and has always tried to fulfill the needs of his loved ones'which are equal in quality to being ambitious.
He was ambitious once , when he was saving up to ave his own garage...
Archu 's exit from his life has made him into a very different person ....
To a lot of extent I agree he has been unfair to both the ladies, he neither did let go of archana from his heart and neither did he allow shravani any space in his heart. What is more unfair is that he voiced it out to both of them'.making neither archana move on nor shravani have mental peace.
Yes , that was a big mistake ...
He just could not let Archu go and also could not ever let her back in his life ..
Also his behaviour with Shravani was always as if he treats her like Sachin's girl...when she looked at him as her husband ...
He kept her at an arms's lenght but still in his house ....
One more thing I would like to mention, manav putting the shart in front of archana was wrong'.he should have tried to convince her to the point that she was herself willing and not forced her. But everything aside, his intention was to allow archana to move forward in life and be happy.
Whatever , he should not have done that .That was terrible ..One day he is telling her , I am going to kill someone or get killed for you ....I ma proud to love you and then after a few weeks only he is telling her ...that's it we were never together and now yo ujust have to marry someone else ..
Emotions are not like a switch button ..That you put the button on and everything is bright ..
Espacially with a girl as emotional and vulnerable as Archu ..He knows that she is totally in love with him ..I am very angry with him for putting this unreasonable pressure on her and usin her love for him to do something so wrong ....
What if that girl kills herself out of frustration and guilt ...
I really believe it is hard to accept manav as a hero hugely because he is flawed'but it is what I personally find endearing because you constantly believe that one day he will fight out his complexities and rise.
I always have wanted to give him a chance . But now I am fed up ....he just doesn't do anything . He is only making things worse with each passing day ....
About Archana'I agree to almost everything that has been mentioned till now. She's got an obsession problem'.first she had obsession to sulo aai, then to savita aai, then to shravani and now she has it for manav. It's a disorder with her.
Very very accurate analysis .Out of all her obsession , this one for manav is by far the biggest one ever .......
She may be going into another relationship through weakness but she has the strength to crossover as she always has done. She infact is much stronger than manav'.if anybody will breakdown first'.it will be manav'.move on in life first'..archana'..resurrect her life back to normalcy'.archana. And if ar-jay marriage ever happens'.she will start relying on jaywant'.
You really think so ...I would be very happy if that happened .I just don't see this happening right now .But , maybe you are right ...
Never had as much an issue with the character Shravani as much with the actress'.i hold acting skills very important'.Pooja P. fails miserably. Lot of analysis done on the character'.
She is a terrible actor, her voice is just unbearable ...
She is the worst actor in the entire PR cast Lacks screen prescenese and makes the worst ever pair with Manav ...He still looks like her big brother ....
Similarly Shravani is everything opposite to archana who epitomes best of virtues. She is also perceived as the biggest obstacle in the love of archana and manav'
I think this and her acting are the main reason why she is so much disliked ....