Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
TB and Hope ........ . the camera swinging to Ganesh idol is so true .TB that mechanic and his delicate flower story never took off . They spoilt it and made it mush . . What i dislike is the constant suggestion that good girls dont even THINK of sex . That its something BAD . That ur not SANSKAARI if u have desires . / A 27 year old lady like Archu and a 32 year old man like Manav r the abnormal ones , its NOT vice versa .
Kools:
when I was little. I had an aunt and she was the most peverse women you could ever find (someone like Amma from Pratigya). she was just horrid and in a totally saccharine voice she would tell my older sister and my older cousin that sex is bad and dirty and that everytime a girl had sex she was being raped ( she used to say it like a mantra) she used to also tell us that men who wanted sex were being like animals. my sis was 9 years older than me and my cousin 13 years older than me. she had been telling them this almost daily for years. my mom was always timid and shy (she never ever talked to us about sex or anything).
my sister and my cousin were so badly affected by this hypnotic mantra that they never got married. they are very very successful career woman and totally financially independent.
I on the other hand was little and had a mind of my own. was not taken in by her crap. I asked this aunt point blank one day "If you think sex is so dirty, how come you had two kids???"
I got beaten for asking that question by my aunt. she said that I was back talking.
but I am married today (happily) and my sisters are not. I asked my older sis once why she did not get married and she hesitatingly told me because she did not know if she could handle All the demands of marriage. I could kill that aunt and that is why hearing the same message in these Indian soaps ticks the hell out of me.
no matter whether it is a casual touch or an intimate one, my husband treats me like porcelain china. he is a very strong dude yet he is acts tenderly with me and my children. he is not an exception. I know lots of guys back home who are NORMAL and yet very considerate human beings.