Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
U know Hope , I agree oh so absolutely . . What i find very shocking is no one tells Manav Archu that they r being downright abnormal . That their lack of feelings is freakish .Whats there to be so careful , cautious , guilty of wanting to be with each other , to love eacxh other ?Why r the elders deciding the consummation of two grown ups ? Why is the honeymoon being decided by Savita ? Why is the sleeping together decided by muhurthas ? . How come it struck neither Manav nor Archu that Savita who decides THEIR sexual life , already has enjoyed that part of HER life and had not one but 3 children and still flirts with her hubby ? What permissions they r waiting for ? Archus coming and going from HER house to Manavs chawl was monitored by her family .Manavs each move was monitored by Savita.
.It was refreshing to see Ajit Vandu returning to an empty house , putting on the lights , talking , and hugging like a normal couple . Manav Archu need alone time .Not by going to Saptashrungi etc . STaying alone .
I agree Kool
you know this sex in marraige thing is handled abysmmally all the time
Even in Pratigya, how come Dadi did not sit down prats and say what the hell? why are u not acting like a wife??? They all seemed happy and excited that she was preggers. How the hell was she going to get that way without having sex? when they found out they said nothing. No advise nothing. let her continue to think her husband is a brute.
Now, in the epi, Krishna is ticked that she lied and some of the girls on the forum are saying Oh he is not angry becasue she lied, he is angry becasue she did not give him sex. he only has one thing on his mind and she shoudl give him sex. and to that I say
a) load of maha maha crock. the guy has feelings too and he is not a robot to want only one thing
b) that is just a sick suggestion. men find sex during a fight very very manipulative. in fact if you are having a fight with a man that you love and you use sex as the solution rather than communication that is disrespecting your hubby as a person
silly stupid girls
in PR
would Sulo have been so casual about the whole thing if Manju and her son did not have a physcial relationship because RA was constantly looking for shubh muhurats???
would Sulo have been so casual about the whole thing if Manju had told her son that she was not ready to give his parents grand children because she was afraid? would she have been equally casual?
I think not. I think she would have given everyone an emotional complex and she would have sat in that bedroom until they did something.
Sulos dream is to make her daughters brides and housekeepers but not to tell them how to live happily marreid lives as wives.
the reason I never liked Sulo was becasue her only mission in life was not to marry her daugters off to men that would take care of them and love them but to men that were richer than RA and Ajit.
I was ashamed with the way they treated Manav. he was a very good husband considering his many shortcomings. he actually tried to defend archu to his mother during the first fight but it was none other than Archu who told him NEVER EVER do that again in fact she made him promise and told him that it would upset his mother. Archu glorified Savita always even when she was treated like dirt. So to lead a normal life does Manav have to fight mother and wife???
I joined this show to see a refreshing love story and I thought Manav as a husband was refreshing until the Shravani epi. Then I was very disappointed in Manav as a husband
yet I can say this much I was disappointed in Archu as a wife WAY BEFORE I was disappointed in Manav as a husband,
I did not mind that she left after the pics came out. she was in a state of shock and it was understandable but for her to severe all lines of communication WHEN THE MAN REPEATEDLY TRIED AND TRIED TO TALK was simply unacceptable to me.
If the dude was not so crazy in love with her like Krishna is also with Prats< i would have suggested that CVs show a divorce last september when she was being indifferent and weak as a wife.
but no they had to glorify her before they showed the divorce. twits