hypocrisy..? - Page 2

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Agree with u completely on many counts. But i think Sulochana's mother wants to get a 'perfect' boy for Archana to shut the mouths of all those people who think that Archana cannot get a proper bridegroom (Her neighbours were discussing it on the first day). She wants to prove that on no count is she inferior to other girls and should compromise on marriage when her sisters are bound to get good proposals in future

She knows that Archana has sacrificed a lot for the family and particularly for her, so she wants her to marry someone who earns well (That can come with education only) and can keep her happy. That seems to be her primary goal, since she always keeps stressing on a good pay package of the bridegroom.

Originally posted by: sushmac

i don't know if our forum posters are in india or the US but ladies (and men - if there are any), education is not the only way to make money.

Teachers - with Masters degress make 40-60K here. Car mechanics, plumbers, electricians, construction workers can make upwards of $100K. and all witha high school eucation or less.

Originally posted by: *payal_15*

i completely agree with you on this one! it is hipocrit of her to want a guyswhos well educated and earns lots of money, while on the other hand she yelled at the guys family for wanting the same in their daghter in law.

good to see you here, seen you lots in DID😃

agree with the general thought out here.....sulochana/archu's mom does value education in the groom but doesnt think of it as a necessary quality in her daughter.....i agree archu has done a lot for the family and it was really mean of th e family who'd come to see her to refer to her in such a demeaning manner.....but archu's mom views about education and for that matter money change when it comes to Archana........for instance in that scene where varsha talks bout the kinda husband she would have would have to earn more that the kinda kinda archu would get coz she herself was earning nall....i mean i agree it was a bit selfish of her to go bout comparing her worth to her sister's n all..........but the fact i wanted to point out was that sulochana snubbed varsha and stopped her from talking such stuff with the admonishments that "paisa ghi sab kuchh nahin hota".....dont weigh all matters in terms of money etc.....and then the other day when her husband tries to explain to her that archu could get a good boy who would keep her happy depite being low on monetary count ....and points out that the guy who earns a lot need not necessarily be a good guy......and archana's mom replies......"30/40 hazaar kamaane waala kaisa achha nahin ho sakta......kuchh toh punya kiya hoga ke woh itna kamaa rahaa hain"......!!!!.........huh??!!!.......her ideologies change when it comes to her daughter.......but i guess its a mother's love talking here....who wants the best for her daughter....

Originally posted by: angad4life

hii payal!! thanks for replying 😊
and ya, im in the DID forum a lot lately 😆😆 please don't think im always that aggressive though, its just that i've kind of gotten fed up of all the negativity towards salman there and couldn't really stop myself from giving tit for tat 😳 but when it comes to PR, well lets just say everytime i see ArMan share screen space a melt into a little puddle of joy😆 i absolutely loveeee your avatar, cant wait to see that scene in the US!! 😃