Precap HS-Mini convo - Page 4

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ashok was the guy who, when his daughter was harassed by Manmeet in college, showed up to ask her to take her case back....who didn't give a shit that she was resting after a severe headache and trauma🤔.....yeah, THIS is the guy who's perspective on shaadi we need to understand. Sure.

Well mini can understand his perspective on his and Babita shaadi breaking up. But she dosent need to understand why ashok was never the father to her that she required. He will always just be her biogical father not her father. I think mini is better off with no father than having ashok as her father. She needs to let go of her bitterness towards him for her own self and can maintain a cordial relation with him but she dosent deserve a father like ashok. And She certainly dosent need to go and live with him because even there she will feel more like an outsider. I hope the writers are not going on that path here. She better be on her own self surrounded by good friends if the writers don't want her to be with babita hs.

As for learning.....lol Babita ne kaunsa kuch seekh liya? She is back to square one as well.....so then how was HS going to get a chance to "learn" anything.....he's a designated "Non-Baap" now according to the writers.

Even without the baap label, they didn't bother integrating him into the family.....so it was just supposed to be a disjoint, disparate set of ppl coexisting together briefly....Patiala Babes in a nutshell.....family is a farce. LOL

HS was more integrated into the mother daughter before marriage. Here babita nor HS seemed to be bothered about the missing dynamics. Mini senses it but is in I will survive mode. Babita clearly lives in delusion again these days and HS in babita delusion.

I can't believe babita again threw a tantrum like a child of not wanting to eat inspite of being sick and had to be Molly coddled by mini and HS to eat and let HS eat too more importantly. When does she plan to grow up and mother mini properly.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

That was the whole point of it, no? For trio to come out stronger and be a solid family unit because they deserve to, because they belong together, because they were always supposed to. Such a shame, writers ruined their own story.

Abhi story inse samhali nahi jarahi hai, aur yehh chale more progressive and gripping storyline banane... ghanta 🤪

They are very conviniently saying babita HS arc is over. So do they just become gayab from her life. How is it realistic that way. Mini babita have been together for 17 years, a mother daughter relationship like that dosent end just beacause babita story is over and there is nothing left to show in her story, unless they decide to kill off babita. If mini is alive and babita is alive they are bound to interact n meet each other. Wonder what realistic story they have in mind post leap

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Did Babita really want a father figure for Mini? LOL seeing her obsession with only and only HS these days, it's hard to imagine she actually cared about what level of fatherly love and guidance Mini gets. That a mother can't see how put on the relationship between HS-Mini now is pitiful.

And what randomness were they trying to show today with how Babita is supposedly ostracized for a second marriage? LOL didn't all these mohalla people show up at her actual wedding pretty happily? Tab kisi ko second marriage se problem nahin thi? Kuch bhi.....I found Babita's martyr like tone over how koi mujh se baat nahin karta cuz second marriage kinda lame......waise toh all day her only thoughts are about pati this, pati that.....jab pati hi duniya hai, toh why does it matter if mohalle waalis don't talk to her? Didn't she declare that all she cares about is only drowning in pati? lol

The dialogues are laughably unconvincing.

Message toh ghanta hai......theme bas ek hi hai.....all relationships are transient.

Muft ka lunch and dinner.

Originally posted by: naq5

They are very conviniently saying babita HS arc is over. So do they just become gayab from her life. How is it realistic that way. Mini babita have been together for 17 years, a mother daughter relationship like that dosent end just beacause babita story is over and there is nothing left to show in her story, unless they decide to kill off babita. If mini is alive and babita is alive they are bound to interact n meet each other. Wonder what realistic story they have in mind post leap

Exactly my point. Even if Babita and Mini drift apart, they are still mother-daughter at the end of the day who love and care for each other. There is no way it’s realistic for Mini to not be in contact with Babita, and not go meet her mother when they are in the same country because I am pretty sure Mini will reside in India after 5 years (cuz PH can’t afford to show Australian sets 😆). The only way it’s realistic for Babita to not be in Mini’s life is if they kill her off, which I won’t be be surprised if they do end up killing off Hanita. Writers will probably achieve great sadistic pleasure from this 🤬

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Exactly my point. Even if Babita and Mini drift apart, they are still mother-daughter at the end of the day who love and care for each other. There is no way it’s realistic for Mini to not be in contact with Babita, and not go meet her mother when they are in the same country because I am pretty sure Mini will reside in India after 5 years (cuz PH can’t afford to show Australian sets 😆). The only way it’s realistic for Babita to not be in Mini’s life is if they kill her off, which I won’t be be surprised if they do end up killing off Hanita. Writers will probably achieve great sadistic pleasure from this 🤬

They just want to remove babita hs forcibly from minis life. Just because they dont want to keep actors in the show anymore. Replace them if you have an issue. Why make the story suffer

Originally posted by: naq5

They just want to remove babita hs forcibly from minis life. Just because they dont want to keep actors in the show anymore. Replace them if you have an issue. Why make the story suffer

Honest answer: Because they don’t give an eff about Babita and Hanuman’s story arc. They only wanna focus on Mini 🙄🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: naq5

OK the truth is that children of failed marriages even if its due to an EM affair do build good relations with the other parent over time. But for that the other parent is equally involved. Here ashok has never cared for mini. Dint bother if she lived on the road during the divorce track, made her feel inferior for his name. For him it was like mini has not choosen to come and live in my house so I will not bother with her. He was never a basic parent to her. Mini has made it all about him hurting babita but the truth is that he has not cared for mini too and hurt her too which mini hasn't thought about. What reconciliation is she going to do with ashok over this. And what is HS trying to make her understand about ashok. I don't agree with him. I understand the breaking of babita ashok marriage. But I don't understand the breaking of mini ashok relation and why mini needs to see ashok perspective in that because ashok never really bothered about her.

Exactly. Ashok’s side can be explained in his and Babita’s Marriage failure.

But what about Ashok’s nil contribution as Mini’s parent? Even after he left for London, has he ever cared for her? Asked for her wellbeing? Did he even call on her 18th Bday? Was he a lil bit bothered about her education?

Ashok has had no involvement as a parent to Mini. So for what does she have to understand his side and get closure? They don’t have emotional attachment at all except that he is her biological father. The guy came with a doll for 17 years old daughter, common. That says it all!

Originally posted by: naq5

OK the truth is that children of failed marriages even if its due to an EM affair do build good relations with the other parent over time. But for that the other parent is equally involved. Here ashok has never cared for mini. Dint bother if she lived on the road during the divorce track, made her feel inferior for his name. For him it was like mini has not choosen to come and live in my house so I will not bother with her. He was never a basic parent to her. Mini has made it all about him hurting babita but the truth is that he has not cared for mini too and hurt her too which mini hasn't thought about. What reconciliation is she going to do with ashok over this. And what is HS trying to make her understand about ashok. I don't agree with him. I understand the breaking of babita ashok marriage. But I don't understand the breaking of mini ashok relation and why mini needs to see ashok perspective in that because ashok never really bothered about her.

The issue isn't that the children of failed marriages can't have good relationships with both parents after a divorce.

The issue is Ashok himself......we were shown that he neglected Mini for many years, and treated her like crap even after seperating from Babita......so suddenly his failures as a father getting whitewashed will be too much.

Yeah in a marriage, there can be two perspectives.....but there is still such a thing as a baseline for unacceptable behavior....which Ashok demonstrated pretty clearly. So the writers can try to give Mini "closure" on her parents ki failed marriage by understanding Ashok's perspective but to me, it will still feel lacking because they haven't built up to it properly.....all loops are being closed for the heck of it.

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

You guys are being extra negative ..

Tu vishvaas kregi "USPAR " means US BAAT PAR ...He is talking about himslef only and..he never refer Ashok as Minnie's Baap plus HS character is ending so they willl give proper closure to their relationship no matter what...

No, I don't think he's talking about himself. Mini's expression made it clear he's talking about Ashok only. If he was talking about himself, her expression would be different. Any time he's referred to himself as a baap in the past, she's looked at him while talking.

And there is no reason for HS to refer to himself as her baap now.....so that scene only makes sense in terms of him talking about Ashok. Mini was probably talking about Babita's behavior during her marriage with Ashok and that is what must have triggered this conversation.

The "closure" to their relationship has already happened with the scene when she said she's ok with him just being her HS uncle all her life and he doesn't need to feel pressure to be her father. And he seems to have accepted that too.....they are "normal" with each other now....as "normal" as the story will allow at this point.

Originally posted by: naq5

HS was more integrated into the mother daughter before marriage. Here babita nor HS seemed to be bothered about the missing dynamics. Mini senses it but is in I will survive mode. Babita clearly lives in delusion again these days and HS in babita delusion.

I can't believe babita again threw a tantrum like a child of not wanting to eat inspite of being sick and had to be Molly coddled by mini and HS to eat and let HS eat too more importantly. When does she plan to grow up and mother mini properly.

Lol that bit made me laugh. She was back in her standard pouty kid mode and both HS and Mini were treating her like a kid only....jisko samjhaake puchkaarke khaana khilana padta hai.

I don’t think she plans to grow up. Iska aise hi rahega.....she behaves crazily, has no regard for her own health when she she wants to throw a tantrum....all part of her standard stubborn personality.

And HS bhi aisa hi rahega....he can try to make her understand gently but she will still throw childish tantrums and understand when she wants to 🤷‍♀️....this is their established equation as husband wife now.

I don’t know if it’s “realism” that each time Babita so casually says to HS that he doesn’t care about her anytime he doesn’t do what she demands 🙄🤷‍♀️.....she did it again in this scene.

But HS barely reacts to her saying all this now. Lol guess he’s gotten used to it 🤷‍♀️

And yeah overall, both Babita and HS seems least bothered about the overall family dynamics. Bas aapas mein hi obsessed hain....unless some outside person says something and then they start thinking briefly....then forget again. Lol