Minnie's Father, From Ashok to HS - Page 8

Originally posted by: tk2015

SAME! I really want this facet explored. At this point I'm not even asking that she open up to anyone in particular. I just want a sneak peak into her emotions regarding Ashok especially.

And I want it to happen quickly. Sometimes when you let some time lapse after the incidents that hurt you, you get a distorted idea of them in your head.

I don't know if this makes sense. But unless you consciously think about your emotions regarding something nasty that took place or you talk about how you felt, sometimes you don't even remember yourself. You suppress and hide so much, you start believing your own lies.

It's already been a year and we haven't seen a single time when someone's walked up to her and asked her to voice out her emotions regarding her father. Yes, she never had a bond with him but it would've still hurt so much.

It makes absolute sense....you are bang on about this....this is why timing is so important. You can't just let things fester for so long or they start taking a life of their own inside your head...things start twisting inside your mind and you start to believe your own delusions if you suppress things that much.

I really don't want that to be the case with Mini since she's already suppressing so much inside her vis a vis Ashok....she needs to let it out.....it really has been way too long.....a whole year has passed and everything has begun and ended with how Ashok made Babita feel, how HS is a hero for marrying her Babes.....but what of YOU, child? Where are YOU in all this? Please, for once....let it out....don't hold it inside.

I so wish HS was able to coax this out of her.....sigh. But his own insecurities about being able to be her father hold him back....catch 22.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Sigh...this would be ❤️.....I really want them to talk naturally too....as you said, their convos always flowed naturally with a balance of joyousness and candid/heartfelt things....it's been so long since we got that....

But Babita and conference? NOW?😆.....usko pati ke prem, pooja, vrat wagairah se fursat ho tab na....she won't go anywhere😆

Toh Vaishno Devi bhej do. Let HS get caught up in a case so she has to go alone. 🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

Oh yes! I love their banter and no problem if he cooks jali hui daal roti for her. ❤️

Par yeh to hone se raha. She doesn't even want to go to the shop, so I doubt she will even think of leaving the city and being away from him a single day.

Uss jali hui roti ke saath omelete bhi toh banayegi Minnie. 🤣

I just want to see Lala's reaction to this father-daughter's cooking. 🤣

Originally posted by: tk2015

Toh Vaishno Devi bhej do. Let HS get caught up in a case so she has to go alone. 🤣

Oooh now THIS is a good idea....waise bhi aajkal Babita ko badi khujli ho rahi hai har dusre din VRAT rakhne ki for HS....lol toh direct Vaishno Devi hi bhej do pati ke naam ki koi special mannat maangne ke liye.....she'll be happy doing that😆

Peechhe se HS-Mini bhi apna sort our kar lenge.....indirectly shaayad Babita ki mannat puri ho jaaye in dono ke liye aise hi😛😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

To be honest, I think she needs HS to also help her realize that her own dreams and wishes are important. You remember what he told her after the proposal that she shouldn't stop chasing her dreams.

I wan't them to talk about such things and for him to make her realize that she needs to think about what she wants and the direction she wants to take in life.

I am sure she can tell him this in one of their heart-to-heart conversations but I'd love it more if it comes up during an outburst. I remember their audio confrontation scene where HS was stunned when she told him exactly how much she idolized him and how much she wanted to be like him. That has stayed with him since, so the other day when he asked if he was still her hero, the confrontation came to mind. It was painful to watch.

Dancing? Main to party karungi.

That one conversation after the proposal had my hopes soaring so high. I want my Japani kushti practice! 🥺

Yes, same. If there's anyone she opens up to to this extent, it's HS. Only he can literally extract these emotions from her. Plus, he needs to be that guiding light for her future.

That audio confrontation scene was so very well directed. Every single thing about it was performed perfectly. Even while hurting, they showed so much care and love. They were oozing disappointment and heartbreak. It was truly beautiful.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

It makes absolute sense....you are bang on about this....this is why timing is so important. You can't just let things fester for so long or they start taking a life of their own inside your head...things start twisting inside your mind and you start to believe your own delusions if you suppress things that much.

I really don't want that to be the case with Mini since she's already suppressing so much inside her vis a vis Ashok....she needs to let it out.....it really has been way too long.....a whole year has passed and everything has begun and ended with how Ashok made Babita feel, how HS is a hero for marrying her Babes.....but what of YOU, child? Where are YOU in all this? Please, for once....let it out....don't hold it inside.

I so wish HS was able to coax this out of her.....sigh. But his own insecurities about being able to be her father hold him back....catch 22.

RIght now, I think he's the only one who can coax this out of her.

Again, I think he has to step up and be the parent, take the lead. She's too lost to do anything about it and looks like she will be preoccupied with Babita's new obsession.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't mean he gets a free pass, I just mean that eventually she should forgive him after all the conversations and mann-mutao are sorted out. I think she wants to, but can't.

The GP scene proved just how special he is, but he doesn't know or feel that he is that special to her. HS ne to bol diya Minnie ko ke woh uske jigar ka tuda hai, but what is he to her and why does she have these expectations, why is she afraid to talk about them, etc.

Oh, my bad. I misinterpreted what you'd meant to say.

Except for them both, the entire Patiala and we all knows how special they are for each other. I really want to shake some sense into both of them sometimes.

Originally posted by: tk2015

That one conversation after the proposal had my hopes soaring so high. I want my Japani kushti practice! 🥺

Yes, same. If there's anyone she opens up to to this extent, it's HS. Only he can literally extract these emotions from her. Plus, he needs to be that guiding light for her future.

That audio confrontation scene was so very well directed. Every single thing about it was performed perfectly. Even while hurting, they showed so much care and love. They were oozing disappointment and heartbreak. It was truly beautiful.

Yes, I too want the Japani kushti, etc. Perhaps by doing everyday normal activities with each other they can bond. Sometimes simply spending time is enough, but they don't even do this anymore.

Remember how he made tea for her late night and then they went over to NB's climbing on to the terrace and he was impressed by her abilities, thanedaar ki beti, etc. It's ALL there, they just need to reach out to each other.

The potential for beautiful scenes is endless.

Originally posted by: tk2015

Oh, my bad. I misinterpreted what you'd meant to say.

Except for them both, the entire Patiala and we all knows how special they are for each other. I really want to shake some sense into both of them sometimes.

Shake them? I want them to get into a ring and fight with each other, let the frustrations out and then speak up about the real issues. They need to stop worrying about Babita all the time and fix this, or at least start taking baby steps towards it.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Thank you for this post. you said everything I always felt. HS is Mini's father in every sense. Only thing is she hasn't realised it. Her realisaton will come when she starts living for herself.

Thank you! 🤗

For her to live for herself, she needs a push. I just hope it doesn't have to come at the cost of her relationship with her mother, HS or her losing the catering business. She has been through so much, I really don't want her to go through any more yet.