1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 43

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I am actually looking forward to Dadu Biji question HS position in Mini's life for a variety of reasons😆

I know at least one of them. I want to see it too for the same reason. 😉

But fir woh Babita ki galati hogi coz she got them in Haveli. 😛 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Batao batao

For one thing, I want to see Mini's reaction.. I want to know who she sides with.. her beloved Hanuman uncle or her jaan see pyare Dadu Biji

Then I want to see Hanuman's reaction as he was the one who planted the idea of Khuranas moving in with them in Babita's head and shot down all her perfectly reasonable suggestions

Then, I am curious how CVs will put the whole blame on Babita on this one because at the end of the day, it's always her fault

Lastly, I want to enjoy the reaction of fans who thought Hanumanand Mini were right and Babita was just being cruel/rude/unreasonable

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I am actually looking forward to Dadu Biji question HS position in Mini's life for a variety of reasons😆

Imagine the convo going

Minnie- “ Biji woh Babes ke husband hain, meri kuch Nahi lagte. “

Babes- Nahi Minnie woh tere papa hain.

Minnie- Babes I don’t want a father, I didn’t ask for one. I thought you needed a husband.

Babes- I didn’t want a husband, I thought you needed a father.

Both looking at each with a 😲 expression. THE END!!!!

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

For one thing, I want to see Mini's reaction.. I want to know who she sides with.. her beloved Hanuman uncle or her jaan see pyare Dadu Biji

Then I want to see Hanuman's reaction as he was the one who planted the idea of Khuranas moving in with them in Babita's head and shot down all her perfectly reasonable suggestions

Then, I am curious how CVs will put the whole blame on Babita on this one because at the end of the day, it's always her fault

Lastly, I want to enjoy the reaction of fans who thought Hanumanand Mini were right and Babita was just being cruel/rude/unreasonable

See the last reason is what I was referring to.

But as I said, they will blame Babita for bringing Khuranas in. Coz HS ne toh decision Babita pe chhoda tha. And Mini never asked for Dadu Biji to be in Haveli. To galati to Babita ki hui na. She is making everyone suffer. Poor Hanuman. Kaha phas gaya shadi karke. 😉

Originally posted by: shazam1

Imagine the convo going

Minnie- “ Biji woh Babes ke husband hain, meri kuch Nahi lagte. “

Babes- Nahi Minnie woh tere papa hain.

Minnie- Babes I don’t want a father, I didn’t ask for one. I thought you needed a husband.

Babes- I didn’t want a husband, I thought you needed a father.

Both looking at each with a 😲 expression. THE END!!!!

🤣

Originally posted by: shazam1

Imagine the convo going

Minnie- “ Biji woh Babes ke husband hain, meri kuch Nahi lagte. “

Babes- Nahi Minnie woh tere papa hain.

Minnie- Babes I don’t want a father, I didn’t ask for one. I thought you needed a husband.

Babes- I didn’t want a husband, I thought you needed a father.

Both looking at each with a 😲 expression. THE END!!!!

Babes aisa kuch na bolegi. Babes ko lahu muh lag gaya. She has tasted the “good” side of the Marriage. Ibb yehi bolegi ki chahiye husband. 😆

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I am actually looking forward to Dadu Biji question HS position in Mini's life for a variety of reasons😆

these scenes will be great. mini already took HS side when lovely called him sautela, i want mini to see how selfish the khuranas are. and what mistakes she is making by forcing Hanita's hand and getting the oldies home.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

these scenes will be great. mini already took HS side when lovely called him sautela, i want mini to see how selfish the khuranas are. and what mistakes she is making by forcing Hanita's hand and getting the oldies home.

That was a very half hearted side taking to be honest.. though understandably since Hanuman did shock her by questioning her intention.. but this time it's not Lovely bus but precious old Dadu Biji... Fun it would be

Problem with this show is that they started off great which raised everyone's expectations and then went downhill beyond belief.. I mean if you are picking up a sensitive topic like a divorced woman picking up her life with the help of her daughter again, you gotta show it sensibly but the show has failed in that

Not to compare, but i think punar vivah did a much better job, despite the over the top dramatics and illogical tracks..

Originally posted by: inlieu

Pehle to Gur, aapke liye bada wala 🤗

You said everything that I've been wanting to about NB and HS. I don't know if they will get so much focus on their bond here but I really really hope we see some of what you've mentioned, in particular a conscious attempt on HS' part to make the most of this second chance to be a son. It's amazing how we've inferred all this about NB and her suffering without long conversations, rather through small sentences inserted here and there over the months, and have been able to form a picture of what she must have gone through.

@bold, yes it was and I think NB herself feels that she couldn't get through to him or do enough for him.

I want them to have some heart to hearts, not just in this matter but also for him to go back to her for advice as he has always done before the wedding. That pre-wedding conversation also needs to be completed, but right now I want the focus to be on her issues and not his. I think at this point he's the only one who can understand her and whom she can really open her heart to. She must be hurting so much! I also do hope the issue about her husband abusing her comes up - HS alluded to it after the court scene but I would like them to dig into it a bit more. Why did someone like NB put up with it? Was she also like Babita when she was younger? Did she ever feel majboor? Or did her husband eventually become like HS and learn to respect women?

I also agree that as her son it is HS' responsibility to do right by her and give her whatever support he can and more. NB is an independent, strong woman, and there won't be many opportunities in his life where he gets to do something for her. Mamta ka karz can never be repaid but if he can do his bit that would make him feel so much better. She has not only been his mother but also his guide and mentor in so many ways. I hope he refers to his mother too here and some of what he said to Minnie about doing penance for keeping quiet when both his mothers suffered.

I know what you mean about NB not being able to see her son in that state. The scene where she first walked into his house was where she scolded him but we kind of understood how she felt about him wasting his years away, and then there were others like in the sharaabi scene where you could see the years of worry behind her scolding.

They really are so precious! I love this bond.

🤗🤗🤗

It's a shame really. I know the story is focused on mother-daughter, but I genuinely want to know more about HS and his side of the story. We know he has a cousin sister, so there obviously has to be an aunt or uncle. What's their story? Why didn't they come to the wedding? Can we learn about Lala & HS? How long have they been working together? Or even Naeem Bi; when did she move to the area? How did HS get along with Irfaan or Rubina? There's an obvious history between HS & Irfaan and Irfaan respects HS a lot as well. But if HS tries to interfere with his plans, I can see Irfaan bringing up the khoon ke rishta, and ghar ka mamla angle up with him.

I agree. Right now, Naeem Bi is the one who needs support and honestly, there's no one better to give it than HS.

We don't know how abusive Baig Saab was. I know abuse is abuse and it shouldn't be excused for any reason, but we don't know how bad it was for her. She might have stayed back because divorce wasn't an option for her (am not really sure how divorce is handled in the Muslim community), and it also could have been for her kids.

Agreed. This may be his only chance to show Naeem Bi how much she means to her, but it will still have to be done on her own terms. It's a delicate matter and he can't just barge into their family matters. It sucks again for him because through actions he is her son, but his blood fails him to prove him so. If Naeem Bi chooses to take legal support, then he can stand by her with no hesitation whatsoever.

With her own children, there's a different kind of ache for NB. They live away from her so she has to live with their absence and yearn for just a glimpse of them. But with HS, even though he was right in front of her, she still couldn't reach out to him and protect him from himself. That's a whole different kind of ache that a mother should never have to go through.