1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 41

Originally posted by: _Reka_

Also, HS unable to handle Minnie's anger was the scariest part. He was really holding back but instead has to step up his game real quickly before she does something irreparable to herself or others.

NB is sooo smart and I seriously think she should open up a senior citizens' home at her place 😁 it was also remarkable how NB and Biji were bonding over the fact that their children have emotionally slighted them. And I can connect with Ruksana too, because education and work is important for women to be independent, but with young children around it can get physically and mentally exhausting and Immu is not that old yet

Yeah, I think he should stop holding back because of his insecurities and concerns about haq. I think seeing Minnie in that state would trigger the father in him and he will do what it takes. Frankly, he's the only one who can help and I really hope she doesn't land in jail because Khatri files a complaint. Insulting her grandparents isn't a punishable offense or one she could justify beating him up for.

Her show of anger and violence should have given HS sufficient warning. She didn't even listen to him, which has never happened before, and he just let her go!

She did not listen to HS as she blames him for the change in Babes, when she said that Babes is busy playing the good wife for HS.

As she thinks that Babita should look after them now which is sad as it is there Children's duty not Babita.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

a choice will not be fair, and there is actually no choice to be made. mini has made a choice in her heart which only needs to be voiced with conviction to put all fears and insecurities to rest, but mini needs a realisation.

she needs to understand and realise that her grandparents are not what she thinks of them. babita has indeed been the bigger person always taking care of them, even after the divorce and now after her marriage.

mini needs to see things without a lens and realise that she had to beg the khuranas to come to the sangeet, her dadu broke all relations when she removed her surname, that the khuranas only maintained a cordial relation with babita becuse of mini. they are not as good or helpless as mini thinks of them.

mini needs to understand that babita & HS are not responsible for khuranas and that ashok/ lovely should care for them. she needs to understand that she has to maintain her own relation with her grandparents without expecting babita to maintain any relation with khuranas. khuranas are mini's blood relations, not babitas.

babita's not wanting mini to meet khuranas is not right, but taking them in her home is not right either. even if NB's homes is sold, they can move to another rented house in the same area if they want to stay close to mini, but to move into the haveli is inappropriate.

though we donot get such scenes, but with ex-in laws moving in it would certainly hamper Hanita's married life. babita will become responsible for the oldies and them being around at all times would make make it awkward for Hanita. Imagine the selfie scene with khuranas sitting on the sofa, or looking down from the first floor. 🤔

i think this was what mini was trying to make babes understand when they left khurana house after EMA came out. that daadu beeji dont really care for you they will choose their son over you & me. But babita was very adamant that daadu beeju care for them and its ashok's fault not theirs. And babita has maintained this stand till the wedding day, even rushing to their house whenever daadu beeji needed her. I think the sudden not wanting to do anything with them is what mini couldnt understand. Suddenly mini felt care and worry for them because babita stopped doing it.

getting them into the haveli permanently is such a bad solution to the issue.

And knowing of nb's situation if instead of supporting her if they have conveniently moved to haveli then they have still not learnt to not to be selfish

Originally posted by: guddi01

She did not listen to HS as she blames him for the change in Babes, when she said that Babes is busy playing the good wife for HS.

As she thinks that Babita should look after them now which is sad as it is there Children's duty not Babita.

She was the one who made this big push for the marriage and now she's blaming HS? come on.

Originally posted by: guddi01

She did not listen to HS as she blames him for the change in Babes, when she said that Babes is busy playing the good wife for HS.

As she thinks that Babita should look after them now which is sad as it is there Children's duty not Babita.

Mini’s - tum patni dharm nibhate nibhate baki sare rishte bhul gai.

Was so out of line. She basically blamed her mother for putting HS before Khuranas.

I fear this is gonna happen again. When Khuranas are in the Haveli and Babes prioritize HS over dadu biji, Mini is not gonna like it.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mini’s - tum patni dharm nibhate nibhate baki sare rishte bhul gai.

Was so out of line. She basically blamed her mother for putting HS before Khuranas.

I fear this is gonna happen again. When Khuranas are in the Haveli and Babes prioritize HS over dadu biji, Mini is not gonna like it.

She's somewhere still affected by what Kammo and Khatri told her about the new couple being busy with each other?

She's never seen that kind of relationship between her parents so she can't related to it. Even after the GP, she is going to end up making herself an outsider by imagining problems that don't exist.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am willing to bet it will be like this, if not worse. She's going to hurt HS in a big way and then it will indeed be a test of his love and capacity to be her father and find it in his heart to forgive her after that.

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I am so done with Minnie and hurting her parents. And I don't get why HS has to be the one who has to constantly prove his love. Why can't the mother-daughter do it? HS has done more than what Ashok ever did for her and he's still being asked to prove himself?? Why isn't the same being expected from Minnie? Why isn't she doing something that proves that she's worthy of being called his daughter?

Originally posted by: inlieu

What specifically about Friday?

I talked about it in that aa jao sarey thread. 🤔

It was mostly me being majorly disappointed by the way the shaadi was handled, how unnecessary drama was brought up for TRPs, and how characters are being needlessly butchered to create issues when they could have been introduced in better ways.

On Saturday however, my heart just broke for Babita. Because I write all my stories in her POV, I know what she's thinking and the deep level of pain she carries. So for her to be mistreated like this by the CVs is excruciating for me. She's being trapped in a certain mentality and is not being allowed to grow and learn from her mistakes simply so that they can keep using her to create more drama. 😵

I can't even explain to you how disappointed and horrible I am feeling right now. 😒

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

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I am so done with Minnie and hurting her parents. And I don't get why HS has to be the one who has to constantly prove his love. Why can't the mother-daughter do it? HS has done more than what Ashok ever did for her and he's still being asked to prove himself?? Why isn't the same being expected from Minnie? Why isn't she doing something that proves that she's worthy of being called his daughter?

She has learned from the best.

I just know it that she's going to keep hurting him and because she knows he will do anything for her, she will continue to take him for granted. She doesn't think of him as her father, fine, but he's still her family and she needs to be considerate too. She has to learn a lot in this regard from HS and NB.

HS will never ask her to prove her worth as his daughter because of the kind of person he is. He's more than happy that she's in his life in whatever form, just to keep her close but she doesn't get this and won't get it until something major happens. She has to feel that she's about to lose him for good or if he withdraws from her when she does something next to unforgivable, before she realizes his value in her life. I am not blaming her but as she grows older she has to become a responsible adult at some point.

Originally posted by: inlieu

And to think she ended up with a son like Irfan who's doing this to her. 😡

Ugh, agar beta aisa hai toh phir beti na jaane kaise hogi. 🤔

And didn't he pull a stunt like this before when Naeem Bi was going to invest in Babita's business? He said something like Babita had just tricked her, taken advantage of her innocence so that she can get the money or something?