Hanuman Singh - Page 3

I would agree that now after so much thought and discussion, I too feel that somewhere his reaction was overdone. I think the writers wanted to show something else, wanted to show HS accepting Babita with ALL her flaws (not only ego in particular) but messed up the situation, especially with HS saying mere andar kuch marr gaya.

They need to rectify and clarify this.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I would agree that now after so much thought and discussion, I too feel that somewhere his reaction was overdone. I think the writers wanted to show something else, wanted to show HS accepting Babita with ALL her flaws (not only ego in particular) but messed up the situation, especially with HS saying mere andar kuch marr gaya.

They need to rectify and clarify this.

@Bold - Yes. for me - This was extreme. How can this happen based on just one act from the one you say you truly love & understand. Your apology was heart-felt. This is a very strong sentiment and if HS feels this way, it raises question on the depth of his love which am sure is not what the writers were aiming for.

But this statement has stayed with the audience.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I would agree that now after so much thought and discussion, I too feel that somewhere his reaction was overdone. I think the writers wanted to show something else, wanted to show HS accepting Babita with ALL her flaws (not only ego in particular) but messed up the situation, especially with HS saying mere andar kuch marr gaya.

They need to rectify and clarify this.

Mere andar kuchh mar gya is not a small thing to say. Its big. If something died inside him he will never be able to love the way he used to. These five word are very powerful to say.

Originally posted by: Peace_Seeker

Mere andar kuchh mar gya is not a small thing to say. Its big. If something died inside him he will never be able to love the way he used to. These five word are very powerful to say.

@Bold - and I felt completely misplaced. This took the situation to an extreme. How can HS simply turn back from here? Also, his love cannot be this weak.

This feels like a miss in writing.....

I agree with what you said. I sometimes feel that we get to harsh on babita. Yes the way was surely wrong but what she did or wanted wasnt. I just have this problem in this track that why all her emotions are labelled as ego. We all have ego but more than ego, to me it comes out as her insecurites,her fear. She is still holding onto past bcz she still doesnt know where she went wrong . Her bubble burst and now she will do everything opp she did in previous relaltion. In normal relations verbal reassurance of love might not be that impt actions may suffice. But this is women who thought her marriage was perfect for 17 years then she came to know that only she was holding onto this marriage, she got cheated upon . And now the man she fell in love with also has past where he loved his first wife so so much . Somewhere this time also she have to compete with a women. How can she be not insecure. She surely nows the depth of feelings HS had for imarati but does she know the depth of feelins he have for her. No . She needs assurance from him that she does hold impt in his life and he actually loves her as a women not as her daughters mother.

I dont understand how this ego came. If she had so much ego, she wouldnt have cared for meeta when she was abused. She took care of her and even had it in her to forgive her. Heck difficult for every women. Khuranas didnt support her, still she cared for them. If she had this much ego , she wouldnt have botherd this much about them.

Well i think the problem in their realtionship is that they dont trust each other enough to share insecurities. I just want them to sort it out and enjoy this wedding for two reasons

1) this is not show where we get to leads multiple marriages. This is there first Nd last maariage and i want this to filled with love.

2) if babita later comes to know that HS wasnt happy during marriage and it was all.compromise boy i cannt even imagine what she will go through it will be 2 time when her illusion will be broken and this time she wont be alble to handle herself.

Writers will and will be covering up for this. I'm more than confident that we'll end up loving these two more than ever.

Originally posted by: ARCH21

@Bold - and I felt completely misplaced. This took the situation to an extreme. How can HS simply turn back from here? Also, his love cannot be this weak.

This feels like a miss in writing.....

I know most will disagree to me but there is little problem in the writing of the show. Characters are not real they are fictional. They are saying what has been written. There was no need of paraya mard etc and now no need of this.

Originally posted by: ARCH21

@Bold - and I felt completely misplaced. This took the situation to an extreme. How can HS simply turn back from here? Also, his love cannot be this weak.

This feels like a miss in writing.....

Another member here explained to me yesterday that how HS now gets to face the dirty sides of her personality, which he already knew of but how he is facing them for real.

I think he did accept the ugliness but his idea of their perfect relationship shattered. Perhaps that was the intent of writers which bombarded as something 10 times powerful than what was intended.

Originally posted by: sheen97

I agree with what you said. I sometimes feel that we get to harsh on babita. Yes the way was surely wrong but what she did or wanted wasnt. I just have this problem in this track that why all her emotions are labelled as ego. We all have ego but more than ego, to me it comes out as her insecurites,her fear. She is still holding onto past bcz she still doesnt know where she went wrong . Her bubble burst and now she will do everything opp she did in previous relaltion. In normal relations verbal reassurance of love might not be that impt actions may suffice. But this is women who thought her marriage was perfect for 17 years then she came to know that only she was holding onto this marriage, she got cheated upon . And now the man she fell in love with also has past where he loved his first wife so so much . Somewhere this time also she have to compete with a women. How can she be not insecure. She surely nows the depth of feelings HS had for imarati but does she know the depth of feelins he have for her. No . She needs assurance from him that she does hold impt in his life and he actually loves her as a women not as her daughters mother.

I dont understand how this ego came. If she had so much ego, she wouldnt have cared for meeta when she was abused. She took care of her and even had it in her to forgive her. Heck difficult for every women. Khuranas didnt support her, still she cared for them. If she had this much ego , she wouldnt have botherd this much about them.

Well i think the problem in their realtionship is that they dont trust each other enough to share insecurities. I just want them to sort it out and enjoy this wedding for two reasons

1) this is not show where we get to leads multiple marriages. This is there first Nd last maariage and i want this to filled with love.

2) if babita later comes to know that HS wasnt happy during marriage and it was all.compromise boy i cannt even imagine what she will go through it will be 2 time when her illusion will be broken and this time she wont be alble to handle herself.

Very well said.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Another member here explained to me yesterday that how HS now gets to face the dirty sides of her personality, which he already knew of but how he is facing them for real.

I think he did accept the ugliness but his idea of their perfect relationship shattered. Perhaps that was the intent of writers which bombarded as something 10 times powerful than what was intended.

But then Mishti wasn't Hanuman wrong at assuming a 'perfect' relationship... it's not like he's a saint either or without flaws... that's what is bothering me... we (or rather Hanuman) gets to see one flaw and he ends up saying things like 'mere andh kuch mar gaya' and drinking the poison... I mean then why did he said 'mujhe tu daughter ki mother puri ki puri chahye' which meant including her ugliness... I still can't understand the shock Hanuman had...