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@TheRowdiest

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Gur those who r saying abusing members shld not be allowed r liking those posts which are abusing the members means they r agreeing with this 😉 ...actions r saying something else and words r saying something else 🤣 and plz tell the definition of abusing members ... they r getting confused ...

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@GuardianDevil

Trailblazer

+ 7

Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Gur no use of this thread as no one wants change...

And i didnt knew people laugh at liking the post as well ... Very beautiful people wid beautiful minds are here 😆 Get ur thoughts cleared always liking doesnt means u agree 😉😆

sorry i cant tolerate as she is pointing out me as i just like salman's post 😛

Edited by --nIdHi-- - 12 years ago

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Shehnaz Khan

@Shehnaz.K

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: --nIdHi--
Gur no use of this thread as no one wants change...

And i didnt knew people laugh at liking the post as well ... Very beautiful people wid beautiful minds are here 😆 Get ur thoughts cleared always liking doesnt means u agree 😉😆

sorry i cant tolerate as she is pointing out me as i just like salman's post 😛

When one does nt have any base to speak then trivial things r pointd at.Like,dislike is nt an issue nd none can poke nose into one's likes/dislikes as that's nt affecting the forum.
It's out of the topic nd better to avoid such comments dear.

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vidhisalot

@vidhisalot

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Thnx gur for this post...

Using words for characters is not okey for me
I dont like using a word like leech even for a negative character...coz i m against it...using such words is nt @ all ok for me...

n also nt for memebers n it should go for both the grp..
bt now-a-days some do that intentionally..its clearly evident

Other problem is people never respected each others opinion...if a person dont say anything ...then they interpret what a person has nt spoken..

Also if a person dont agree with a persons's opinion Then instead of politely rpling they open a new topic n saying that a person wants this n then it starts

People act innocent when they knw that their comment is gonna be read by everyone...

Also...reaction is also very fast...giving opinions fro what wrong is going with the show is acceptable bt first that thing should happen...reacting immediately after an article or a segment or a promo is nt right na...it means negativity na
First let it happen in actual ..then speak up na...

N b4 issue was raised twitter issues should nt be brought here or discussed then i feel ...we talk abt twitter or fb msgs to be send to the concerned is done...either both should be allowed or none should be allowed..it is unfair.

KC fans r biased ...n they make fool of his fans saying dont say anything against kc ..otherwise his fans would start up...n it was intentional...u knw na nthn should be said against it...

tit-tat proverb is being followed over here...
Also many times this thing is said siddhi was bashed b4 a lot...n so nw that grp started the same thing with kc...i agree siddhi was bashed a lot...
Bt her fans were never bashed or never made fun of them..n nthn against them was said..as per my knowlege...bt with kc bashing or whatever u say...things have been even said abt their fans..

i feel kc is butchered more over here then what actually cv's r doing

I doubt even after this thread everything would be stopped...
Its better stay away from the forum...which i m following

Thanks

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chitsss

@chitsss

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

I have no issues with any character being 'called names' in the sense suggested in your posts , how can you possibly criticise a character without using adjectives?😕

As with many my problem lays with the intent behind a particular post or comment, if intent is to discuss -great but if it's to instigate then it's an issue , simply because I believe this open forum is also considered to be a mature and sensible one and not a a platform to indulge one's junevile traits!😕

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vidhisalot

@vidhisalot

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#26

What my concern more is
Yeah i dont all these things...bt i cant change a person's POV when he dont even wanna understand so
let people do what they want to...coz it wont afffect my love n respect for that character or actor...
Bt after doing all this bashing n speaking abt fans...n then acting as if they have nt done anything..n acting innocent...thats utter nonsense..this thing is very bad to look upon...n then when a person tries to figure it out ..fingers r raised @ that person n nt @ that person who is doing all such stuff..

Thank you

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Rush2220

@Rush2220

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

First of all thanks Gur for the post.👏

Have no prblm with name calling (for characters only) during constructive criticism. Problem is with the intentions here. If my intention is to hurt a particular person/member or a group, trust me without using any of these words and using very flowery language I can still get better results.😛 So the basic problem is not with words but Intensions. No one can really stop this, No DT or anyone; there is nothing wrong with the forum rules or the DT. We members have to stop this ourselves. We have to be matured enough to see the intensions and then react. In my opinion the best way to stop this is to ignore such comments. (Taking about myself and everyone involved) if you don't react and just ignore then a time will come when the person will stop himself/herself.

We love this show and the characters, Kunal will not be good or bad without the help of other character and vice versa. Being a KC fan and seeing his character being butchered is very frustrating in itself and then to come and see that even if he sneezes around R he is criticized (intentionally to hurt)is like rubbing salt so one reacts (me too and am sure is the case with Sidhi fans too). I admit that I have used these words to criticize KC but at times don't like when others do it. It is like I can scold my child but won't allow anyone else to do it.😆 This attitude is wrong and have tried to change myself, hope other try to do the same.

This forum should be a fun place and along with that the right place to give our feedback good or bad to the CVs and the PH to make 'OUR' show better.

Edited by Rush2220 - 12 years ago

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ramya

@rainbowgirl

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Gur,

This is an open forum we come here to discuss about the show and characters, if the show lacks to deliver the viewers expectations then obviously the forum will react out of frustration. Like wise if the characters are shown in a bad light for a short while or continuously, its apparent that particular character won't be praised 😕. If people take offense on criticizing the character just coz the actor happens to be their favorite and make instigating comments on other characters and mock other members in a round about way, that's what creates ruckus on the forum.

Name calling to insult,provoke,instigate and rile people to indulge their woolly notions and being hypocritic about it a definite downer. Am assuming we all are adults here and are able to draw fine line between reel and real. If Mods are claiming to be fair to all, let them show their impartiality to everyone. End of the day, we come here to unwind to not get tangled in the absurdity of the atmosphere.

Edited by rainbowgirl - 12 years ago

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su369

@su369

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#29

hey GK...😃 i think this type of calling is not allowed to the forum especially when there is two different groups of liking leads ..😭 if our old forum where all like SiNal together then its all ok for that but now the situation is totally different so i suggest to stop name calling like this cause in future it may convert war in forum then no body interested to come in this forum... once the particular group done this type of name calling then next time another do the same so its batter to stop name calling and its really hurts a person who attached with particular character c'mom yaar that celebrity its ur favorite how u can listen this type of words against him/her character...😲

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DiVa

@Dihiva

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#30

How did I miss this post!! Just came across this! Thanks GK for giving us a platform for expressing our concerns before you call the shots!

First for your question, I would not mind name calling for a character as it helps us to express ourselves better. The intention behind the name calling is what should be taken into account. As long as it is relevant to the character at that point in time, I don't see why it should bother anyone. For example, Kunal was shown to be a loser post leap.. what else are we supposed to say other than a loser.. since when did the word loser for a character become bashing? Of course if the term is used with an intention to instigate some members, then it is wrong. Similar adjectives like dumb, loser have been used for Siddhi as well. I myself have used them to express displeasure about a certain character. Similarly, terms like witch and chudail have been used for Richa ever since the character turned into a vamp.. then why is it wrong now?

Now, since you think most of us are of the opinion that DT members are biased, I would like to ask you something.. the DT members have asked us to report posts if they are abusive or hurtful and have repeatedly asked us to ignore such posts and report them and that they will take necessary action as soon as possible. I have respected this request and have always stayed away, ignored and reported such posts. For the past few days, I have reported such posts several times but why has no action been taken against them till now? Why is that member still putting up posts just with the intention of hurting the forum atmosphere? It is not hidden from anyone as to the intention of this member in putting up such abusive posts. I myself have been putting up a disclaimer at the top of my posts to maintain a healthy discussion atmosphere. Why are the DT members still not taking any action against such posts? And what are we to make of this?

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