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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: BHAVI1972


Agree changing looks is acceptable changing her values is not acceptable


thats what i am saying too...siddhi just changed her looks for her son...not her values...manners...she is still the same old siddhi...she knows what is right and wrong...she needs to reform her son...so going by AD way...she can put her values and manners in him...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Harjas-

I understand what you are trying to say, but this is a transformation that most people were waiting for, and once its here, everybody starts to criticize it. Not too good. From where i see, CVs are doing their best to make their viewers glued to their seats, but its us who are always not satisfied. They try to live upto our expectations, but our expectations get even higher once achieved. We always try to find faults in CVs' work, but rather, we could be patient and let them do something. I think we should wait and watch, because its too early to say anything.


spot on...i agree with you completely...👏👏👏
like sammy say...be patience...
everyone was waiting for siddhi's new look...once its shown everyone is giving a negative comments...the worst part is the look is just shown for 1 day...and everyone jumps into conclusions...and seeing it in a negative light...there are more to come in coming days...be patience and see what they offer...

i felt siddhi's makeover is good...though i feel black is not her colour at all...i wished they gave her red...or some other beautiful colour...keerti look gorgeous in red colour...but whatever was shown...keerti/siddhi...both look gorgeous...i am satisfied with this gorgeous look...i was quite tired to see siddhi in simple look and repeat boring sarees...this change is welcome...

i find it funny...pre-leap everyone wanted siddhi to go for a makeover...have new sarees...now the the wish has been command...everyone is complaining big time...set your minds guys...what you want to see...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages



spot on...i agree with you completely...👏👏👏
like sammy say...be patience...
everyone was waiting for siddhi's new look...once its shown everyone is giving a negative comments...the worst part is the look is just shown for 1 day...and everyone jumps into conclusions...and seeing it in a negative light...there are more to come in coming days...be patience and see what they offer...

i felt siddhi's makeover is good...though i feel black is not her colour at all...i wished they gave her red...or some other beautiful colour...keerti look gorgeous in red colour...but whatever was shown...keerti/siddhi...both look gorgeous...i am satisfied with this gorgeous look...i was quite tired to see siddhi in simple look and repeat boring sarees...this change is welcome...

i find it funny...pre-leap everyone wanted siddhi to go for a makeover...have new sarees...now the the wish has been command...everyone is complaining big time...set your minds guys...what you want to see...


I do agree we viewers r really impatient. I really liked SC / keerti over all looks. Its good for a change. Now regarding topic every one pov r different. Being mom i think what sc did is right. As we say to change kid first u hv to be kid and need to understand what ur child wants from u. Later slowly make her/him understand what u want and whats good whats bad. These days kids r like these only they always hesitate introducing their parents if they cannot spk well english, if they r not well dress etc etc. SC did this so that atleast AD can be his friend and they can share everything. To come close to AD who not even ready to speak to her well and f9 her borring, for siddhi its just intial step. Slowly she will reform him according to her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34
I agree with the views of people on this forum - both pros and cons...
Principally even I do not agree that someone has to go a complete makeover (physical) just to please their child... A parent-child relationship is of unconditional love.
But reality is different! And we should accept the reality...
In this case, Anand D does not even think of Siddhi as his mother. He has hardly seen her in his 9 years of existance. How can he even have feelings towards her... With the kind of rich lifestyle that he has led, he may have seen domestic staff at his home dressed like Siddhi (I have seen that in real life, where the staff at home is very well dressed)
How many times have we felt that we could have dressed better or that we are not aptly dressed for an occasion!
Having said that, it still is not a great idea to put this as the reason for makeover. Infact they could have shown Sulekha urging Siddhi to go for a makeover because that would lift her spirits and would cheer her up. Sulekha could also be shown urging Siddhi to restart her career...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In our society there are so many children like Anand Diwan who says to his/her mom to change look and dress. Aap aisi jayagi to main aapke saath nahi jawanga- in rich family mostly children behave like this. I have seen so many children- scolding to his/her mother, having no respect, beating his mother. whatever Anand diwan is doing with abhay - like playing video game, believe in show off, very expensive - in indian society more than 80% children of rich family are doing this type of behaviour. This is a first step of siddhi to come close to anand diwan. I think in next episodes she will change anand diwan according to her principles. And the behaviour of Anand chopra is over because no one child respect his father having this type of bad habits-Can't holding his responsibility- Children become so angry says that jab paal hi nahi sakte thy to paida he kyu kiya- so in modern time children like anand chopra is less and children like anand diwan are much more in our society. I hope siddhi will teach all the principle to her son properly.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Cmpletely agree with u.It's a wrong message.Children have a divine heart nd i didnt like the fact that a mthr hav 2b glamorous nd fashionable for a kid.
Anthr fact which is out of topic is the drinking scenes of kc covering his sexy face where he truly drinks in gulps to bring out all emotions - is being shown too much.They r crossing limits.Nd since KC is a famous character many wil follow him thinking that's the way to deal with depression.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Still India has the child's like anand Jr... Yes she should make her son understand her love instead of changing her look...if she doesn't change the look the child won't even come near her...th how can she change him ...nothing wrong in that...if she doesnt do this she will loss the chance to change his sons behaviour...and about makeover i hope its exclusively for the party...in regular epi they will change her look even better...yes agree this is surely a wrong msg to society but they are not airing this show to provide a right msg for audience...and social issues are only for the press meet to talk...but in reality they need trps that only matters...for that they will show kc drinking,evil winning over truth and enjoying kunals presence by touching his face and crawling over him when he is out of his sense ...and a lawyer signing a deal to release her husband...sometimes i feel i m a fool to watch all this nonsense...
Edited by sarakvp - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Every child and every situation is different and a parent has to deal with it accordingly. same formula can not be applied everywhere. Yes I agree that a parent should not have to change his/her appearance because the child feels they are not cool. BUT if a child is bought up with good values i dont think the child will ever demand/ask for such things. here the case is different AnandD is spoilt, bought up by the Diwan's, DOES not accept Siddhi, he does not know her at all. a 9 yr old kid is suddenly been told 'here, this is your mom and you have to like/love her.' He is not a robot, he will have his opinion and according to him she is not cool and acceptable So in this situation I don't think Sidhi is wrong. She did it to be first accepted by her kid who has not seen her. once she is accepted then only she can sudharo or bigado him.

So as per me in this situation I think it was an intelligent move by Siddhi. (i still dont like her look but that is a diff point😆)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Blue, Islam Does'n allow To look Beautifull Infront Of Non-Mehram Men... Non Mehram means any man other than Father, Son, Father in law, Husband and Brother.. In facts there are limits to look beautifull infront of Father, father in law, Brother and son...
And Hair Cut is Not allowed In islam at all for women .and for fashion purpose no ways at all..Do Not say Like this That hair cut is allowed in any religion when u don't knw abt Any religion... It can be cause of religious fight...
AND i was Not saying this For Siddhi.. this Topic is not for Siddhi at all...This Is abt CV that what they are showing... and We was discussing in general abt Enviornment so i give example in that scenerio...It was not related with Siddhi at all...

Originally posted by: Mages

what if AD ask kunu to do a makeover...will you guys react the same way like you did for siddhi now?...



We are reacting on Siddhi???? I mentioned siddhi is doing wrong in my main post ???? We are Discussing Abt CV... and The Character Siddhi is doing all this so for the topic we can use her name.. There is No Restriction abt that... And Please do not Try to change the Topic in Kunal and siddhi fans... And If AD ask kunal for make over then that is another thing.. AC did not ask from siddhi to change her look for him...Its Siddhi own thinking and Abhay's suggestion..
And if AC ask From kunal for makeover..then thats not for TARBEAT purpose...
and we are not comparing AC and AD.. For explaination giving example does'n mean we are comparing...
Well, That is not the topic... I opend that Topic To Discuss abt CV... and Not Only me So many other members are saying that Showing a Modern Mother just bcz her child will start loving her is not so Gud Idea... and we have Rite to speak or say what we think...
I m not saying anythng against Siddhi... I m Sameer soni fan..but It does'n mean i start speaking Against anyother character.. I m mature enough to understand that Siddhi or Kunal or anyone else in the show r just Characters only...and if someone is using any character name just to express their feelings or trying to explain what his/her meaning to say..then it does'n mean he/she is against that character or their intention are to speak against that character...
@ALL, So many Members tries to explain that Siddhi'e new step is Just a Step to change her child..I knw that.. and i understand itt too... But CV is not explaining anythng like U Guys... So many members are liking itt and so many are not..everythng have their own Thinking...then can speak what they want to speak.. Its Not abt Kunal and Siddhi fans ,,,
Edited by neeme - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@shweta_r ,adohare ,Shehnaz.K ,sarakvp,Rush2220, Nice Posts By u Guys👏👏... And i agree with u all too..and I knw That CV is trying too show that..But CV is not gud to explain anythng Like u guys are doing.they always come with any track with so many loopholes.. But Still i say this could be a 2nd Step... First CV should Show that Siddhi Stops crying all the time and looking so sad.. and then Stop trying to stop anand to do anythng which is wrong according to him for now..and same in her behaviour..the way she angrly stops him..thats what make him angry and he don't like her.. first she need to work on all that..then Looks... Just in the strarting Focus on look is not a Gud Message.. everythng have gud and bad aspects and this one as wel...

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