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neeme

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: snmalik4
What Abhay Said...A Cool Mom... Well if we follow that Then She was looking like a Cool mom??? for me she was looking mature ther her age.. A cool mom can be Like wearing western style.. Like Richa.. Then She can be like Cool mom... But still the question is there..That Those mom's who are not moderen Enough..their Childs don't like their mom's...

And Why Abhay was teaching siddhi how to eat Pizza 😲😲 In that point of View Siddhi needs to say "beta jo chaha karo, Don't tell me even"😆😆 then she will sound Cool Mom..

that is definitely cool, but did she learn how to eat pizza? I have not watched the episode yet. i always eat with my hand in restaurant and i will feel offended if someone comes and show me a fork. Ab vadapav Fork se kaise khayenge... Yes He Told her To Use fork.. and then he himslef eat itt by using his hands..But that was just fun part.. He was there so that he can taught siddhi How a Cool mom eat Pizza..

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bhavis

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: neeme
Parichay CV is showing Siddhi, A Mother in new Look

For her Child.. Abhay Suggested her to change her look..In this way Her child will love her like he love him... And Siddhi Accepted that suggestion too..And After then She came in new Avatar ..her Son Like her and move onn...

Well The Question is..If ur Mom is not Gud looking or fashionable then U wiil not love Ur Mom?? Don't u think more than looks, value are important..siddhi should teach her son the Pure Values..If Anand Chopra can be a sensible and well mannerd Child then why not Anand Dewan??

Today generation is following today's Modern Life..Either it is studies or Fashion...We all are following itt,,, But If Our Mom's are not fashionable then We don't lover our Mom's????

Don't u think This Concept is not for Daily family show??? where childerns are watching this Show at regular basis too..They can follow this Trend too...

We always Discussed so many Topics related to the show.. Small or Big One..But i really want to raise My voice for the issue too...

I m not saying that Siddhi make over is not gud.. Its Gud and We are saying since long that Siddhi needs a Complete make over..But the Reason that have Negative effects more than Gud ones...

If u Guys are not agree with me..Then thats really not a problem..This is just my personal thinking..No offensive..

Neeme - very nice post in principle.

But today's world and especially kids have changed a lot. Whether we like it or not. Whether this show shows this or not it is well accepted in the real world. Every kid wants that her mom be the best mom in the world. The kids take pride in it and they feel proud when their friends come and tell them that their mom/dad is cool.

It is the exact same way like we want our kids to present in outside world. When we have a guest we will not allow them to be in their paijamas. We want them to be properly decently dresses. Same principle applies to the parents aswell.

No where does it say that a cool mom can not enforce discipline and values in a child. Discipline and values come from within and not from outside. If i am disciplined, if i have values then only i can give that to my child.

Makeover of a mom here to win a kid's heart is just one step taken towards the child here. Siddhi has to win him first before she can give her any sanskar!

Whether we like it or not this is the age of packaging. A good packaged thing is always sold first rather than the quality things. People looks at first impression rather than the packaged good itself. Children are no exception to it.

Your comment on dailyshow concept - none of the daily show concept shall be viewed by kids. EMA, Kitchen politics and sacrificial lamb- Kids does not need to know about any of this social issues at their age

Edited by BHAVI1972 - 13 years ago

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neeme

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: jay_bpm
Neeme you pit forth what was brewing in my mind ever since I heard reason for this makeover.
When Diwans say this, I understand but Siddhi agreed?

Even today when whole thing was going on I kept asking my self what kind of nonsense is this? Sure Siddhi needed to change her approach but her looks? Is that what mother is, fancy doll?

We know new look is for SINAL & AD is just an excuse but they could've come up with better one.
Thank thou for this post as it allowed me to put forth my views as well.

This topic was In my mind After i watched Precap in yesterday episode.. I alredy heared abt the Make over news of Siddhi from here on the Forum.and after that i was thinking abt the reason that All of sudden make over and in such scenerio...😕 But after watching precap yesterday..i was Shocked that what a silly or Nonsense Reason CV is giving...

When makers makes anythng specially Drama ..then that is not just a Drama.that they makes the thing just to run the drama or play with characters only. they have to maintaine everythng in the show according to the real life or society rules.. bcz viewers are not only watching that show just for entertainment..but they are actully learning so many things from the serial...

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bhavis

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

I am surprised to read the thoughts of the young generation on parenthood when they themselves are not parents. Parenthood does not come with any manual. I can not use the same strategy with 2 child and here we are discussing about modern mom thoughts?

I would ask you all how many of you as a kid have felt bad when your mom or dad was not properly dressed in your school function.

Once the child gets 6 year and older we as a parent have to listen to them for their jayaz mang. Dressing to their function according to their wish is a jayaz mang and i am sure most of the educated parents would do that.

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neeme

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: -Rani
Great Post Neeme👏, totally agree with your views. Although I never watch Siddhi's or Diwan's parts (except Wednesday to do WU😆), after reading your post, I watched even their parts today and must say was very disappointed with the way they have been showing the other side of story as well.

Was very shocked to see yesterday Sulekha comparing Abhay with Kunal and Siddhi not objecting to it, on the contrary she apologized to Abhay for telling him not to spoil her son and today she agreed for the makeover for all wrong reasons.

I wanted to make a post about it, but glad you did👏. Don't really care about she having the make over, which to me didn't even seem like a make over because it made her look less apealing than before, that's not the point here, but the reasons she had the make over for was pretty shallow and superficial.

By putting on extra make up and wearing expensive saaris, she is giving wrong message to her kid that people are only cool when they artificially decorate them. I would have liked If she had tried to teach him good values and manners without making herself look more superficial (I wouldn't call it modern, but superficial). Oh well, this is the story of Parichay - They like to degrade every character in this show and Siddhi is no exception.

@Green, Thats what we all are trying to say and want..But CV??? There or not Parents of their Childs?? or they don't knw what is Impo for Childs...they were not kids first???? Just Bcz they don't knw how to Move Siddhi and Anand Dewan track furture..they are adding such Stupid tracks..

Some Thngs are ignorable..like so many things We ignored abt the shows..Which are wrong but not effecting Us...thats y.. but this is really a wrong message..and its Just a start..actully a BASE..CV is Going to move furture by using this base..which is Very very Wrong message...

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neeme

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

@Bhavi. The question is Not abt Change Look only.. This is abt the message.. Siddhi was Not Looking ugly first that Her son was not paying attention to her.. He don't like her..Bcz she want to hug him tightly mostly ..and he saw a crying Mom all the time.. and When both met with each other what happend???.siddhi tries to stop him by doing anythng with anger tone... Thats All was making him Irritating.. Siddhi needs to change that thing first.. Other than look.only look can't make anyone Cool..

@And Abt Jyaz Mang... Well if U r living in Euorp Counteirs..and a Muslim child came and asked from his/her mom to wear short skirts..Or Modern kind of dress for his/her School function...then what??? Wearing such kind of dress is really not allowed to A Muslim girl..if she is Follwing muslim religion... She will say definatly No for itt... Then what if Her child say that do not come to my function bcz i feel embaress.. A mother will missed that chance??? that mother can't be a part of any speciall Moment of her child just bcz of Her Look???

But If its clear In the mind of that child that This is not allowed in their Religion..he/ she can understand this..and will never demand for such type of things...and will never say to his/her mom that do not come in my school function..

But if a Child is just muslim by their names ..and Do not care abt religious values but their parents do..then His or her demand For Modern Dress is JYAZ... bcz its today world demand..and he or she is living in modren society...But its Parents Responsibilty to teach them and make things easy for them...

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Salman

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

And Why Abhay was teaching siddhi how to eat Pizza 😲😲 In that point of View Siddhi needs to say "beta jo chaha karo, Don't tell me even"😆😆 then she will sound Cool Mom..

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Mages

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

what is wrong with a makeover?...thats my question...if kunu can dance...do boxing rather than what his son wish for fighting a case...for his son...why can't siddhi do a simple makeover for AD...for her son's wish...what is wrong in that...

comparing AC with AD is wrong...AC has been living with his father since he is born...and AD has been separated from his mother for long 9 yrs...he doesn't even know his mother...he is been living with people who are known for richness...money...style and glamour...he has been given such upbringing therefore he is bound to react in such a way...he has not being living with his mom since he is born...therefore siddhi can't force the values..good manners in him...which she has been trying to do so long...AD doesn't listen to her and doesn't accept siddhi as his mom therefore the first step to understand is what he wants...what are his thoughts...she needs to strike a chord with him by being a friend...and doing a makeover its a baby step towards to strike a chord with her son...to create a special bond...

why does AC-kunu connects so well becos instead of being a father...he is being a friend to his son...and since AC has been with him since he is born...its a bonus for him...the connection came instantly...kunu doesn't need to work hard to create a bond...he would have hard time connecting with AD...as he doesn't know abt him...what if AD ask kunu to do a makeover...will you guys react the same way like you did for siddhi now?...

we all know siddhi's nature...she can change her looks...her attire...but she is always a determined women...if she says...she will reform AD...she will do it...if the baby step towards AD is her makeover...she will do it...so that one day her son realise if his mother can do this much for him...why can't he change himself for her...siddhi change her style...but not her nature...changing her looks does make her son happy...she did it...and now to create the bond...she will have to be AD friend...understand him...and then bring him into her way...she is not a person who will take AD bad manners...arrogance...she knows what is right and wrong...she change her looks...not her values...mannerism...she will teach AD values and mannerism in her own way...and make him a better person...

i don't think siddhi's makeover for her son is a negative thought or message...sometimes parents has to compromise for their children's happiness and thats what siddhi is doing at the moment...she is compromising for her child...so that she can make her son a better person with good values...and the first compromise is her look...

its a new start for siddhi...whatever she could not give AD when he is born...values...good manners...she will have to do it now by going into AD's way...its a tough task...but siddhi will emerge as a winner...but i want AD's attitude to remain the same...as this dude is going to teach chopras circus and leech a big lesson...i am really counting on him...

and seriously post-leap siddhi's look was seriously boring...and her crying irritates me big time...now after her makeover it looks so refreshing as if siddhi got a new life becos of her son...though the smile is not natural...but at least its back...the natural smile will be back when kunu comes back...

instead of watching it in a negative light...my advise is watch it from the positive side...instead being a strict teacher...she needs to be AD friend...

well both kunu and siddhi are just fulfilling their children wishes...

if AC needs 25000K for dance competition...kunu is trying to fulfilling it...

AD wants his mother to look good and beautiful...siddhi have fulfilled his wish...i don't see any negative light into it...

even i wish my mom to be happy...beautiful...gorgeous...

currently siddhi needs a change in her life...i am happy that AD have brought that change...

abhay is right...siddhi have to be AD friend...

more than a makeover...from my perspective i am seeing...how a son trying to bring brightness...beauty...smile... in his mother's life which has been lost for 9 yrs...

Edited by Mages - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

I understand what you are trying to say, but this is a transformation that most people were waiting for, and once its here, everybody starts to criticize it. Not too good. From where i see, CVs are doing their best to make their viewers glued to their seats, but its us who are always not satisfied. They try to live upto our expectations, but our expectations get even higher once achieved. We always try to find faults in CVs' work, but rather, we could be patient and let them do something. I think we should wait and watch, because its too early to say anything.

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bhavis

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: snmalik4
Completely agree Neeme, Although i like her looks today, Siddhi should not change her personality. the only change needed is her approach towards the kid and she will win him over. If she thinks that she can win him over by being more highclass and practical it would look stupid and not consistent.

Agree changing looks is acceptable changing her values is not acceptable

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