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@annie- we have one more common thing..if you dont mind, what is your star sign please !!!

i liked what you wrote on the arguments post..that if your husband would remem the small pen incident yu would be happy..i am the same..i would be like, arre wah itni choti baat bhi yaad hai 😃

kya woh mujhe yaad kar rahe honge

How so very simply put by Siddhi, no hi-fi words, no jargons, no sugar coated words.
Very simple words,
would he be missing me?
would he be remembering me?
Would he have noticed my absence?

Isn't it a very natural feeling or emotion that a lot of us have.
We all want to be loved by our family, we want them to care for us, shower their affection on us and when they are not there we want them to miss us.
Is it our ego or self importance or is it our helplessness

The previous day, the husband and wife have a small argument and they end up fighting and not talking to each other.
Next day morning, its a Monday morning and the husband has to go for work..the normal routine as most of us would be aware of is, the wife is generally running around the husband to ensure that he leaves for office on time.
[Arre, meri chai lana
Aaj ka akhbar kaha hai
Meri shirt iron nahi hai..ab kya pehnonga office ke liye
And Kunal's dialogue, meri files, mere important documents, mera phone, meri medicines kahan hai
]
Every day, when the husband keeps calling for the wife, the wife would complaint and crib
ek kaam bhi apne aap nahi kar sakte
main kya kya karoon
ek tang par khade reh kar saara kaam karna padta hai and a lot more dialogues can be said on similar lines..

But now, the husband wife have had a fight, so neither the husband can call the wife, nor the wife will do the running
The house is very quite, nevertheless the husband starts getting ready
Wife keeps looking towards the husband hoping that now he will call her name, now he will call her.
But he never does, he meticulously gets ready for work
He manages to get ready on time and is about to leave when the wife stops him and she starts arguing with him over some inane thing and after lot of circling around
she asks him that today why didn't you call me even once while getting ready [I know I could have explained this in a better way, but this kinda scene is not my forte]

It is a case of damned if you do, damned if you don't do- bulaye to musibat hai, na bulaye to musibat hai
When the husband or even wife for that matter, is looking up to the other person for
doing some chores or anything, it is not because he/she can't do the task themselves, but it is more out of a feeling of security/interdependency
The feeling of give/take- helping/asking for help is very much mutual

Finally some analogy/comparison
hum din mein kitni baar saans lete hai chodte hai
kya kabhi tumne gini hai
jab tak yeh saanse chalti rehti hai, hum unhe mahsoos bhi nahi karte hai
magar ek pal ke liye bhi agar saanse atak jaye to zindagi tham se jati hai
insaan ki yahi fitrat hai shayad, jab koi nahi hota hai, tabhi uski ehmiyat ka ehsaas hota hai

Originally posted by: poshah

Siddhi's diary- 23 March 2012- I wonder if I am a mad maid :)

Here are some lines from Siddhi-

kya woh mujhe yaad kar rahe honge

How so very simply put by Siddhi, no hi-fi words, no jargons, no sugar coated words.
Very simple words,
would he be missing me?
would he be remembering me?
Would he have noticed my absence?

Isn't it a very natural feeling or emotion that a lot of us have.
We all want to be loved by our family, we want them to care for us, shower their affection on us and when they are not there we want them to miss us.
Is it our ego or self importance or is it our helplessness

The previous day, the husband and wife have a small argument and they end up fighting and not talking to each other.
Next day morning, its a Monday morning and the husband has to go for work..the normal routine as most of us would be aware of is, the wife is generally running around the husband to ensure that he leaves for office on time.
[Arre, meri chai lana
Aaj ka akhbar kaha hai
Meri shirt iron nahi hai..ab kya pehnonga office ke liye
And Kunal's dialogue, meri files, mere important documents, mera phone, meri medicines kahan hai
]
Every day, when the husband keeps calling for the wife, the wife would complaint and crib
ek kaam bhi apne aap nahi kar sakte
main kya kya karoon
ek tang par khade reh kar saara kaam karna padta hai and a lot more dialogues can be said on similar lines..

But now, the husband wife have had a fight, so neither the husband can call the wife, nor the wife will do the running
The house is very quite, nevertheless the husband starts getting ready
Wife keeps looking towards the husband hoping that now he will call her name, now he will call her.
But he never does, he meticulously gets ready for work
He manages to get ready on time and is about to leave when the wife stops him and she starts arguing with him over some inane thing and after lot of circling around
she asks him that today why didn't you call me even once while getting ready [I know I could have explained this in a better way, but this kinda scene is not my forte]

It is a case of damned if you do, damned if you don't do- bulaye to musibat hai, na bulaye to musibat hai
When the husband or even wife for that matter, is looking up to the other person for
doing some chores or anything, it is not because he/she can't do the task themselves, but it is more out of a feeling of security/interdependency
The feeling of give/take- helping/asking for help is very much mutual

Finally some analogy/comparison
hum din mein kitni baar saans lete hai chodte hai
kya kabhi tumne gini hai
jab tak yeh saanse chalti rehti hai, hum unhe mahsoos bhi nahi karte hai
magar ek pal ke liye bhi agar saanse atak jaye to zindagi tham se jati hai
insaan ki yahi fitrat hai shayad, jab koi nahi hota hai, tabhi uski ehmiyat ka ehsaas hota hai

super duper upar like👏👍🏼

Originally posted by: poshah

Siddhi's diary- 23 March 2012- I wonder if I am a mad maid :)

Here are some lines from Siddhi-

kya woh mujhe yaad kar rahe honge

How so very simply put by Siddhi, no hi-fi words, no jargons, no sugar coated words.
Very simple words,
would he be missing me?
would he be remembering me?
Would he have noticed my absence?

Isn't it a very natural feeling or emotion that a lot of us have.
We all want to be loved by our family, we want them to care for us, shower their affection on us and when they are not there we want them to miss us.
Is it our ego or self importance or is it our helplessness

The previous day, the husband and wife have a small argument and they end up fighting and not talking to each other.
Next day morning, its a Monday morning and the husband has to go for work..the normal routine as most of us would be aware of is, the wife is generally running around the husband to ensure that he leaves for office on time.
[Arre, meri chai lana
Aaj ka akhbar kaha hai
Meri shirt iron nahi hai..ab kya pehnonga office ke liye
And Kunal's dialogue, meri files, mere important documents, mera phone, meri medicines kahan hai
]
Every day, when the husband keeps calling for the wife, the wife would complaint and crib
ek kaam bhi apne aap nahi kar sakte
main kya kya karoon
ek tang par khade reh kar saara kaam karna padta hai and a lot more dialogues can be said on similar lines..

But now, the husband wife have had a fight, so neither the husband can call the wife, nor the wife will do the running
The house is very quite, nevertheless the husband starts getting ready
Wife keeps looking towards the husband hoping that now he will call her name, now he will call her.
But he never does, he meticulously gets ready for work
He manages to get ready on time and is about to leave when the wife stops him and she starts arguing with him over some inane thing and after lot of circling around
she asks him that today why didn't you call me even once while getting ready [I know I could have explained this in a better way, but this kinda scene is not my forte]

It is a case of damned if you do, damned if you don't do- bulaye to musibat hai, na bulaye to musibat hai
When the husband or even wife for that matter, is looking up to the other person for
doing some chores or anything, it is not because he/she can't do the task themselves, but it is more out of a feeling of security/interdependency
The feeling of give/take- helping/asking for help is very much mutual

Finally some analogy/comparison
hum din mein kitni baar saans lete hai chodte hai
kya kabhi tumne gini hai
jab tak yeh saanse chalti rehti hai, hum unhe mahsoos bhi nahi karte hai
magar ek pal ke liye bhi agar saanse atak jaye to zindagi tham se jati hai
insaan ki yahi fitrat hai shayad, jab koi nahi hota hai, tabhi uski ehmiyat ka ehsaas hota hai

Originally posted by: poshah

@annie- we have one more common thing..if you dont mind, what is your star sign please !!!

i liked what you wrote on the arguments post..that if your husband would remem the small pen incident yu would be happy..i am the same..i would be like, arre wah itni choti baat bhi yaad hai 😃

Originally posted by: annie_mckinnen

Pooja, loved your maid post. You made all the points that I was thinking about in the arguments thread but then didn't write because already my posts were getting so long 😆 Love your analogy of love = saans = aadat 😳 Tumhari shayari ka kya kehna.

Glad to hear you liked my pen incident story 😆 My star sign is Cancer. What is your star sign?

Originally posted by: poshah

I knew it a cancerian is a sucker for R 😉 ME 2 ME 2 😉. Baki I will reply later !!!