Feeling bad for Raavi?

I normally get so psyched up in hindi serials. But this got me so mad like Shiva's Tandav. Why is Raavi always being underappreciated?

Especially that Suman Kaki. I understand Raavi is related to Prafulla Maami but Raavi is a gem. I kind of wished that Raavi didnt put her self worth and respect on the line. They are treating her so badly despite her coming to care for Dhara's baby.

They force her to make efforts for Shiva when he is supposed to actually make the effort. And isnt Shiva's manhandling kind of a stage 1 of domestic abuse and verbal abuse? I love Shiva for his care and protectiveness to his family but his insecurities causing him to cross his boundaries is a NO.

I want a new guy entry who shows Raavi that she deserves all the happiness in the world. And that Shiva will get jealous and apologise and ask for her hand in respect and love. Is this plot too much to ask for?

Just a very huge fan of Raavi who has grown so much in this show

though I don't want a new entry but I really want shiva to apologize not out of love or anything... he must apologize for his rude behaviour we all want raavi to heal shiva's insecurity but what about raavi what about her no one thinks about her and that's pretty sad. even shiva wants the best for her but not actually addressing the main issue he is so involved in his own insecurity and the need to be loved by the partner that even he ignores her mental health.. just because we do not get her POV often and she is not in love with shiva does not make her any less victim . its not her fault that she loved Dhara and Pandya family more than shiva. I know shiva is a gem and so I want him to heal her insecurities so that raavi can actually fall in love I want shiva Qualities to be highlighted.

While I agree with you, bringing in another guy won't be a good move tho. Shiva in jealousy, isn't someone who'd suddenly realise his mistakes. If anything, it would make it worse.

Even if it was for the wrong reasons, he was still gravitating towards Raavi in the past few episodes. And one hint from her could persuade him to make a move.

Shiva has realized his mistake. He isn't apologizing only because he thinks that Raavi will continue to compromise and come back to him, and he isn't wrong. She will do that. In fact he wants her to have a happy life with someone who she likes, respects and is able to fall in love with. Right now she has no love or respect for Shiva.

Raavi is the one who hasn't realized her share of mistakes that she has made in this relationship.

Bringing in another guy won't really serve any purpose, it is not going to make Shiva apologize

Okay I admit. I have been just wanting to get the plot over with and make them both happy. So I wanted a new entry. But the points everyone brought up are valid!

I think i failed to address it but I do agree that the environment Raavi is in is not good for him.

Im curious though. For Raavi's mistakes, yes I did agree that she was very immature in the beginning, but she slowly gave her best in the relationship. Doesnt she get humiliated by Shiva in public literally most of the time? Especially in important functions? So which mistakes are you speaking of for Raavi? I want to understand better haha :)

I think we all want this plot to be over by now.

Well Raavi's mistakes are that she is so quick to judge Shiva. Never once did she even bother to try and understand his hurt. And believe me I'll be the first one to say Shiva did wrong by her when he humiliated her and misbehaved with her. But his wrong cannot make her actions right, now can they?

Raavi my favourite too

Love her growth in the show

Beautiful person inside out !!!

And agree with all that u said , Suman is doing exactly what shiva did , shiva knew raavi is good hearted person but ended up hurting her only coz he thought she will never love him

Suman knows raavi is a gem of a person but is hurting her only as she ( both actually) don't want to continue the marriage

Her ill treatment of him till Mukteshwar Kaand. She was and continues to be overly judgemental towards him.

She continues to call him jungli, gawar, jaahil, janwar, and someone who does not deserve to be married to a girl. Just because she is angry or triggered, her words cannot be defended, the same way shiva's actions cannot be defended 🤷

She even slapped him when he insulted her with words.

Shiva has treated her badly, but she has done the same to him. And after the mandir confrontation, both of them have equally insulted each other publicly.

Both of them deserve an apology from each other