Shiva has been there for her since marrg..I cannot ignore that fact.. charu, I feel for shiva as much as I feel for ravi ..
Shiva too had the right to object to marrying her ..dhara convinced him by telling what if ravi tries to commit suicide again..ravi married him for the sake of maasaji .but shiva married her hearing dhara bhabhi..who gave him the picture of what ravi could do if she left from there..
Since marriage he has been there for her..she misunderstood him..he didn't care..he never justified his action until her misunderstandings were causing her to harm herself during the muktheshwar khandar..
Yes his words were always bitter..but so were her words.. thats how they grew up..bickering and taunting each other .
I am not glorifying the number of times he saved her life..but the subtle things he did for her ,without even acknowledging ..like the kachori he bought for her . Sathi re sequence. The concern she showed when he found ravi crying in the haveli after rishtha trash talked with her..he has always stood for her since marrg..it cannot be ignored..
After sneha kandh. Shiva was not shiva anymore.. but that's when ravi too failed to see the change in him..its not her fault that he kept taunting her abt thel masala...I am never supporting those times..but it was human behaviour according to me..cannot justify it..but it was human mistakes one does when going thru deep sense of insecurity..so I can forgive him when he overcomes that behaviour..its not unforgivable.
Shivas fight with her friends were for ravi. They were insulting her too by talking about her like that..
Ravi made the mistake of never asking him the cause of fight. She did ask once..and he did tell her they were talking so bad that she should be miles away from them..
But after that what?..she didn't ask further and assumed it was his inferiority complex that made him judge her friends and fight with them..after bringing the topic of inferiority shiva got to his personal point..abt how worthless he was..kaunsa rishtha..and started comparing her with himself.
I believe when a couple has feelings for each other .one needs to try to atkeast understand each other..it is not always possible to understand. But that trying should be always be there..ravi tried during the thel masala taunting times. But she kept on saying the wrong words at the wrong place..not her mistake.. but her efforts were futile then..
But during the mandir kaandh, she didn't try..yes she was frustrated .she was angry..but she should have tried to ask him..made him continue the story abt how he ended up punching those idiots. He was already telling her when she assumed and retorted back to his inferiority complex with her friends.
That's where she went wrong.. and need to acknowledge too..
Edited by deeps07 - 4 years ago
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