Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #83|ShiVi ka Divorce (Red Alert) - Page 6

Originally posted by: blissfulcanyon

I just came to say I need help because I'm still stuck over here 😫 Yes, I know kal humara ullu banne wala hai 🤣 but still 🔥🙈

In both of the dream sequences he's had, Raavi is seen wearing her favorite color ❤️ They were introduced in blue... and if color theory is right, their reconciliation may happen when they are wearing blue

Originally posted by: _charu_

What sacrifice did he make ? Every marriage is not a love marriage.

It was not entirely an arranged marrg of his choice either..it was more or less a compensation provided by dhara so that ravi wouldn't try to commit suicide again..

And he agreed for himself being sacrificed for that purpose just as ravi sacrificed her own dreams for mamas sake..

Originally posted by: blissfulcanyon

I just came to say I need help because I'm still stuck over here 😫 Yes, I know kal humara ullu banne wala hai 🤣 but still 🔥🙈

ashu mahn, you need to come back!

COME BACK NOW 😭

this is your 🥵prime tharak material🥵

& the GIF's are making me miss you 🥺❤️

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

ashu mahn, you need to come back!

COME BACK NOW 😭

this is your 🥵prime tharak material🥵

& the GIF's are making me miss you 🥺❤️

someone tag her goddamnit 😭

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Some of the sacrifices I can think of off the top of my head are:

1. He lost the choice to choose his own wife. Even though he respects Dhara, he was emotionally pressured to accept because he knew everything that was happening. Had Raavi come up as a match outside of the marriage hall, I don't think he would've accepted. Maami and her family are the exceptions to the rules Dhara taught Shiva.

2. He lost his bachelorhood years. Despite being a few years younger than his brother, Shiva was married at the same time as Dev. The 20s is a time of immense growth and development. I am definitely not the same person I was when I was 21-22, and I think if he hadn't married Raavi, GauRa would've allowed him to take on more responsibility at the store. He could've traveled. Meet new partners especially as GauRa start a family themselves. Now, he is expected to take care of Raavi whether he wants to or not.

3. He lost the ability to enjoy his own wedding rituals. Dev and Raavi were able to celebrate every ritual possible, but Shiva and Rishita had not. For Rishita, at least she married someone she loved, but for Shiva, that is not the case.

4. He lost some of his dignity. He was treated as a commodity of sorts. Dev wasn't available but Shiva is! No one stopped to ask him how he felt. He was just handed the wedding clothes and was told to perform all the rituals. At least Raavi had time to prepare for the idea of getting married, Shiva did not. He woke up that day expecting a bhabi, not a wife. Worst of all, all that drama was aired to the town to see.

THANK YOU FOR LISTING IT OUT ❤️

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Some of the sacrifices I can think of off the top of my head are:

1. He lost the choice to choose his own wife. Even though he respects Dhara, he was emotionally pressured to accept because he knew everything that was happening. Had Raavi come up as a match outside of the marriage hall, I don't think he would've accepted. Maami and her family are the exceptions to the rules Dhara taught Shiva.

2. He lost his bachelorhood years. Despite being a few years younger than his brother, Shiva was married at the same time as Dev. The 20s is a time of immense growth and development. I am definitely not the same person I was when I was 21-22, and I think if he hadn't married Raavi, GauRa would've allowed him to take on more responsibility at the store. He could've traveled. Meet new partners especially as GauRa start a family themselves. Now, he is expected to take care of Raavi whether he wants to or not.

3. He lost the ability to enjoy his own wedding rituals. Dev and Raavi were able to celebrate every ritual possible, but Shiva and Rishita had not. For Rishita, at least she married someone she loved, but for Shiva, that is not the case.

4. He lost some of his dignity. He was treated as a commodity of sorts. Dev wasn't available but Shiva is! No one stopped to ask him how he felt. He was just handed the wedding clothes and was told to perform all the rituals. At least Raavi had time to prepare for the idea of getting married, Shiva did not. He woke up that day expecting a bhabi, not a wife. Worst of all, all that drama was aired to the town to see.

Thank you for this post ❤️

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Some of the sacrifices I can think of off the top of my head are:

1. He lost the choice to choose his own wife. Even though he respects Dhara, he was emotionally pressured to accept because he knew everything that was happening. Had Raavi come up as a match outside of the marriage hall, I don't think he would've accepted. Maami and her family are the exceptions to the rules Dhara taught Shiva.

2. He lost his bachelorhood years. Despite being a few years younger than his brother, Shiva was married at the same time as Dev. The 20s is a time of immense growth and development. I am definitely not the same person I was when I was 21-22, and I think if he hadn't married Raavi, GauRa would've allowed him to take on more responsibility at the store. He could've traveled. Meet new partners especially as GauRa start a family themselves. Now, he is expected to take care of Raavi whether he wants to or not.

3. He lost the ability to enjoy his own wedding rituals. Dev and Raavi were able to celebrate every ritual possible, but Shiva and Rishita had not. For Rishita, at least she married someone she loved, but for Shiva, that is not the case.

4. He lost some of his dignity. He was treated as a commodity of sorts. Dev wasn't available but Shiva is! No one stopped to ask him how he felt. He was just handed the wedding clothes and was told to perform all the rituals. At least Raavi had time to prepare for the idea of getting married, Shiva did not. He woke up that day expecting a bhabi, not a wife. Worst of all, all that drama was aired to the town to see.

This ❤️❤️❤️

I will be honest.i have always had a soft corner for raavi.her pre wedding scenes, her innocence while writing her diary and dreaming about dev, her happiness when finally her marriage got fixed with Dev, her excitement when she was getting ready as a bride, her crushed dreams and hopes when Dev removes her hands from his.💔

As much as I acknowledge raavi's pain, Shiva's pain can't be ignored.the only difference is raavi's pain was acknowledged by both the families, her cries were heard, she was symphatized with.but what about shiva? He suppressed his whirlpool of emotions under a stoic exterior.he was expected to be the saviour, he was expected to provide raavi with warmth, comfort and love, he was expected to apologise and understand.why?this reminds me of dhara's dlg after the wedding

"Bechari ka dil toota hai "

Shiva was given the responsibility of " fixing" her heart by the family. The heart which was brutally broken by dev.and yet we get dlgs from dev like

"Main? Mai kaha kuch karta hu ?"

Because playing a prank on your bhabi is a far greater sin than dumping a girl at the altar.🤷

And after all this, all he gets in return from his family is threats, abuse and ignorance.

Not one hug of reassurance

Not few words of comfort

Not one look of pride

Not a single effort to understand him

I don't know what the intentions of the makers are. They are trying to make us feel for shiva, maybe.they are trying to highlight his pain.but in the process they are making us hate the whole family.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Congratulations on the new thread!

Do we want to name it or wait until tomorrow's episode? Because we're kind of going super slow with these now days

We can wait till tomorrow I guess.. were finishing one EDT for two episodes now 😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

What sacrifice did he make ? Every marriage is not a love marriage.

Every Marriage is not a forced marriage either.

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